{"id":32748,"date":"2020-11-13T11:42:02","date_gmt":"2020-11-13T11:42:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32748"},"modified":"2022-01-12T22:21:25","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T22:21:25","slug":"a-veces-un-ex-que-quiere-volver-es-una-prueba-para-ver-si-usted-sabe-mejor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-veces-un-ex-que-quiere-volver-es-una-prueba-para-ver-si-usted-sabe-mejor\/","title":{"rendered":"A veces, que un ex quiera volver es una prueba para ver si sabes hacerlo mejor"},"content":{"rendered":"

All the emotions we thought were dead and buried come rushing in the second an ex\u2019s name lights up on our phone. We can\u2019t stop them. We can\u2019t handle them. They are too intense. They are overwhelming. <\/span><\/p>\n

Our heart starts pounding, our hands start shaking, and we don\u2019t know <\/span>c\u00f3mo comportarse<\/span><\/a>. It\u2019s like our ex is standing right in front of us, and we have to react in the best possible way. Yet we are frozen at this point, unable to make a single move. <\/span><\/p>\n

En el momento en que nos armamos de valor para abrir su mensaje es cuando nos damos cuenta de que vamos a necesitar un mill\u00f3n de veces m\u00e1s valor para no volver a caer bajo su hechizo t\u00f3xico. <\/b><\/p>\n

You see, whether we would like to admit it or not, no matter what our ex has put us through, the second he wants to come back into our life, we think only about the good parts and pretend like the bad ones didn\u2019t happen. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero ocurrieron. Echa un vistazo a esas cicatrices en tu coraz\u00f3n. Te recordar\u00e1n todo. Te recordar\u00e1n por qu\u00e9 tuviste que romper. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te recordar\u00e1n cada l\u00e1grima y cada noche sin dormir. Te recordar\u00e1n cada vez que te minti\u00f3 y traicion\u00f3 tu confianza. Te recordar\u00e1n lo mal que te trat\u00f3 mientras estuvisteis juntos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te recordar\u00e1n todos esos momentos en los que le necesitaste y te dej\u00f3 sola. Te recordar\u00e1n su ego\u00edsmo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te recordar\u00e1n que siempre te falt\u00f3 de todo cuando estabas con \u00e9l. Nunca hubo suficiente atenci\u00f3n, afecto o seguridad. Nunca hubo suficientes inversiones personales suyas y nunca hubo suficiente de \u00e9l en esa historia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por supuesto, te echa de menos ahora mismo<\/a>. How wouldn\u2019t he? He has finally realized what he had all along and didn\u2019t appreciate. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda una buena mujer, dispuesta a ir m\u00e1s all\u00e1 por \u00e9l. Una mujer dispuesta a dar parte de s\u00ed misma para hacerle feliz. <\/span><\/p>\n

Una mujer leal y digna de confianza que s\u00f3lo ten\u00eda ojos para \u00e9l. Una mujer que sab\u00eda amar. Una mujer que era mucho m\u00e1s para \u00e9l de lo que \u00e9l nunca fue para ella. <\/span><\/p>\n

Algunas personas merecen una segunda oportunidad, pero \u00e9l no es una de esas personas, y t\u00fa lo sabes bien. <\/b><\/p>\n

Even though your lonely days might blind your view and make you think that he might have changed, that things might be better the second time around, that\u2019s just not going to happen. <\/span><\/p>\n

People change that\u2019s true, but if their essence is toxic, there is nothing that can be done. They will once again poison your life if you give them a chance. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Resist the urge to have him close. That’s not loving. That\u2019s familiarity and habit mixed with bits of <\/span>soledad<\/span><\/a> y los recuerdos de momentos incre\u00edbles que una vez compartisteis.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look at this as a sign to take him back, to let him into your life. You will only give him another chance to hurt you even more the second time around. Look at this as a test. <\/span><\/p>\n

Una prueba para ver si aprendiste la lecci\u00f3n la primera vez. <\/span><\/p>\n

Una prueba para ver si has tomado conciencia de tu propio valor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Una prueba para ver si eres consciente de que tu vida es mucho mejor sin \u00e9l en ella. <\/span><\/p>\n

Una prueba para ver si sabes que mereces mucho m\u00e1s de lo que \u00e9l podr\u00eda darte. <\/span><\/p>\n

Una prueba para ver si sabes que no debes volver a enamorarte de \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

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