{"id":32853,"date":"2020-07-14T11:38:42","date_gmt":"2020-07-14T11:38:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32853"},"modified":"2022-02-28T12:05:05","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T12:05:05","slug":"11-habitos-de-noviazgo-de-la-vieja-escuela-que-deberiamos-resucitar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/11-habitos-de-noviazgo-de-la-vieja-escuela-que-deberiamos-resucitar\/","title":{"rendered":"11 h\u00e1bitos de citas de la vieja escuela que deber\u00edamos resucitar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfSoy s\u00f3lo yo o somos m\u00e1s los que sentimos ese deseo ardiente de volver un poco al pasado en lo que a h\u00e1bitos de citas se refiere?<\/p>\n<p>Esta cultura del enganche es realmente agotadora a veces, y me sorprendo a m\u00ed misma pregunt\u00e1ndome si todav\u00eda hay hombres ah\u00ed fuera que est\u00e9n dispuestos a hacer un esfuerzo para conmover a una mujer.<\/p>\n<p>Some old school dating habits should definitely make a comeback\u2014or at least they should preserve their essence and undergo a modernization process.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed es como deber\u00eda verse todo:<\/p>\n<h2>1. Un hombre que pide una cita a una mujer con unos d\u00edas de antelaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p>No estoy diciendo que haya nada malo en que la mujer tome la iniciativa, pero para m\u00ed personalmente, toda la experiencia de las citas es mejor cuando el hombre hace un esfuerzo y muestra su inter\u00e9s genuino.<\/p>\n<p>A man who took his time and planned a date is so rare these days. All we usually get are last minute plans and late-night calls to hang out\u2014which is really sad.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Dejar claras las intenciones desde el principio<\/h2>\n<p>This is definitely one of the best things about old school dating habits. You knew when you were going steady with someone or as we would say it \u2018exclusive\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>There wasn\u2019t so much fuss about having \u2018the talk\u2019. You would just straight up ask someone if they like to be with you\u2014well men usually would because it was a manly thing to do, even if back then there were some who were exceptions to the rule.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Tratar de estar lo mejor posible<\/h2>\n<p>You know what they say: \u201cYou never get a second chance to make a first impression.\u201d That\u2019s true. We need something that will attract us before we get to know the soul of the person we are dating.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s nice when both men and women make efforts to dress nicely, smell good, and make someone notice that you want to impress them. Efforts are sexy.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Baile lento<\/h2>\n<p>When you go clubbing these days, you don\u2019t really get the chance to slow dance. The music is too loud, and you can\u2019t hear one another.<\/p>\n<p>Luckily, there are still some places that you can slow dance at, and you should explore that option. Even if you are not a good dancer, it\u2019s an opportunity to learn something together.<\/p>\n<p>El sonido de la m\u00fasica y un ambiente relajado relaja tanto a hombres como a mujeres y les permite hablar con m\u00e1s facilidad. Adem\u00e1s, los pone en una posici\u00f3n en la que est\u00e1n f\u00edsicamente cerca, lo que aumenta la tensi\u00f3n sexual entre ellos.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Una versi\u00f3n modernizada de los modales pulidos<\/h2>\n<p>Even though opening car doors (or any doors) for a woman, a flower when you go out on a date, pulling out her chair or something along these lines sounds great and it shouldn\u2019t go out of style, it would be a bit awkward for most people these days.<\/p>\n<p>But why can\u2019t we just modernize some things and bring them more up to date? For instance, polished manners these days could be letting a woman order first; walking beside her holding her hand instead of a few steps ahead of her; sending a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/25-cute-and-endearing-goodnight-texts-for-him-and-her\/\">texto de buenas noches<\/a>etc.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Acompa\u00f1ar a una mujer hasta la puerta de su casa<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s not just about good manners. It\u2019s one-on-one chivalry, and it should never go out of style. First of all, it\u2019s a great kissing opportunity, and it smells of romance in this not-so-romantic modern era.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, it makes a woman feel safe. On a subconscious level, it sends the message that the man is interested in the woman\u2019s safety, and we could all use more of that these days.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Hacer un gran gesto rom\u00e1ntico<\/h2>\n<p>Puede que sea una ilusi\u00f3n, pero ser\u00eda bonito que alguien hiciera algo por ti que te dejara boquiabierto. Como un sincero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/romanticas-e-intimas-cartas-de-te-quiero-para-el\/\">carta de amor<\/a>poema o incluso una serenata bajo tu ventana.<\/p>\n<p>Tal vez hoy esto se parezca m\u00e1s a prepararte una taza de caf\u00e9 por la ma\u00f1ana, dejar bonitos post-its con frases de amor por todo el apartamento, esconder chocolate en tu bolso. Estas peque\u00f1as grandes cosas dejar\u00edan boquiabierta a cualquier chica.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Sin wi-fi<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s good to unplug from time to time. Our phones take our time and our attention. We don\u2019t listen to half of the things the other person says.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why it would be great if the two people on a date would turn off their wi-fi (or at least avoid checking their phone every 5 seconds) and just talk to each other like in the old days.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Construir lentamente una relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p>Esto deber\u00eda aplicarse sin duda hoy en d\u00eda, y todos tendr\u00edamos mejores oportunidades para el amor. Nos impacientamos, nos saltamos los pasos que nos llevan a una relaci\u00f3n y nos lanzamos directamente, esperando lo mejor.<\/p>\n<p>La vieja escuela ten\u00eda su propio ritmo, m\u00e1s lento pero de mayor calidad. No hab\u00eda necesidad de precipitarse. Disfrutaban del proceso y hac\u00edan de las citas un arte.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Dating for the sake of dating and not to get into somebody\u2019s pants<\/h2>\n<p>Sex is a part of a relationship. It shouldn\u2019t be a taboo anymore. But we\u2019ve taken it to another extreme where it\u2019s assumed and expected. That\u2019s not right. The expectations of having sex after a first or fifth date are burdening.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to sound like a prude, but it would be nice to date somebody who wants to get to know you, talk to you, and know a bit more about you than your first name.<\/p>\n<p>Sentirse conectado con alguien a nivel personal y emocional hace que el sexo sea a\u00fan mejor y m\u00e1s significativo.<\/p>\n<h2>11. Arreglar las cosas en lugar de rendirse<\/h2>\n<p>Este es un punto crucial en las citas de la vieja escuela. La gente de entonces ten\u00eda una mentalidad totalmente distinta. Eran solucionadores y no se rend\u00edan. Estaban dispuestos a resolver problemas y a escuchar al otro.<\/p>\n<p>Las relaciones exig\u00edan trabajo entonces, igual que ahora, pero el amor siempre merec\u00eda todos los esfuerzos e inversiones.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s probably why their <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/haz-el-test-averigua-cuanto-durara-tu-matrimonio\/\">matrimonios duraron<\/a>y tuvieron la oportunidad de envejecer con alguien a quien quer\u00edan.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-32859 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-14T123712.316-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"11 h\u00e1bitos de citas de la vieja escuela que deber\u00edamos resucitar\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-14T123712.316-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-14T123712.316-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-14T123712.316.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is it just me or there are more of us who get that burning desire to go a bit back into the past as far as dating habits are concerned? This hookup culture is really tiring at times, and I catch myself wondering if there are still men out there who are willing to make&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":32857,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/freestocks-org-191995-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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