{"id":3291,"date":"2017-08-07T12:11:46","date_gmt":"2017-08-07T12:11:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3291"},"modified":"2022-02-27T10:42:22","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T10:42:22","slug":"perdido-dejar-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/perdido-dejar-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es lo que perdiste cuando la dejaste ir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Te despiertas cada ma\u00f1ana, intentando con todas tus fuerzas no pensar en ella. Ella es el primer maldito pensamiento con el que empiezas el d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>And it keeps track with you all the time. You can\u2019t get rid of her. Your effort to erase her from your heart is in vain. She is still in your heart, in your veins. And that\u2019s why you hate to wake up from your dreams and face the harsh reality. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/articles\/68397-7-signs-youre-not-in-love-anymore\" rel=\"noopener\">You don\u2019t have her anymore.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Aunque fuera la mejor persona de tu vida, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-vuelvas-chico-deja-escapar\/\">la dejaste ir<\/a>. You hate loving her still and above all, you hate the fact that she doesn\u2019t care for you anymore. You hate so many things but most of all, you hate not getting over her in these couple of months.<\/p>\n<p>She wasn\u2019t your choice, and I am afraid you won\u2019t be hers if she ever has the chance to decide.<\/p>\n<p>The two of you could have had everything but the problem was that you wanted the same things in different times. Your life schedules never matched and that\u2019s why you couldn\u2019t function. You didn\u2019t want to go an extra mile to make her happy even if she did everything to make you the happiest man on earth. You were selfish. You were a coward and now you pay a high price for your acts.<\/p>\n<p>La dejaste aunque fuera el \u00fanico punto de luz en tu vida. Perdiste la emoci\u00f3n de cada momento con ella y esas grandes ganas de vivir que te transfer\u00eda. Perdiste a una persona que te empujaba hacia arriba cuando la vida te daba bofetadas. Una y otra vez. Perdiste la seguridad que te proporcionaba tu relaci\u00f3n con ella.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3293 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ly-gia-phu-60457.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer con una corona de flores en la cabeza\" width=\"800\" height=\"578\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ly-gia-phu-60457.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ly-gia-phu-60457-300x217.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ly-gia-phu-60457-768x555.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Her big heart and unconditional love is something you can\u2019t find in other girls. You lost her warmth, love, support, and strength that she was sharing with you every single day. You lost a girl who wanted to be there for better or worse, the one who was sticking to you in your moments of sorrow. And all she wanted was a little love and respect.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca volver\u00e1s a tocarla. Nunca te mirar\u00e1 con esa mirada de cachorrito y se sentar\u00e1 a tus pies mientras te cuenta un chiste divertid\u00edsimo. Nunca volver\u00e1s a ver esa belleza que entraba en tu vida cada vez que la ve\u00edas. Has perdido a una mujer a la que amar. A la que vali\u00f3 la pena esperar. La que te hizo sentir orgulloso con sus actos.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca podr\u00e1s explorar el mundo a trav\u00e9s de sus brillantes ojos de cristal. Perdiste su incre\u00edble pero oculta forma de amarte bajo tu piel. Perdiste las alas que s\u00f3lo ella puede darte y la capacidad de ser t\u00fa mismo sin censura. Nunca se preocupar\u00e1 tanto por ti. Nunca te contar\u00e1 chistes en la cama mientras el resto del mundo duerme.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca volver\u00e1 a poner una sonrisa en tu cara y, sobre todo, nunca dejar\u00e1 que te acerques a ella. Porque le han hecho da\u00f1o. Y duele como el infierno ser abandonado cuando estabas viviendo para tu pareja todo el tiempo. Eso es algo que nunca te perdonar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>You left her even if she was the only one who understood you, the only one who put up with your crap, and even if you told her to leave, she was always coming back. You don\u2019t own her anymore and you never will. She started thinking with common sense and figured out that you are a jerk who can\u2019t love her.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque siempre estuviera ah\u00ed para ti, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/13-razones-para-no-merecer\/\">you weren\u2019t there for her.<\/a> Y estaba harta de llorar todos los d\u00edas.<br \/>\nIf you ever wonder if she forgot about you I will tell you the truth\u2014she didn\u2019t. She just realized that there is nothing to mourn about. She couldn\u2019t lose you because she never had you.<\/p>\n<p>Pero lo cierto es que te echa de menos. A altas horas de la noche, cuando est\u00e1 totalmente sola y cuando toda la carga de su vida se le viene al pecho, piensa en ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/duele-como-el-infierno-no-quiero-volver\/\">Duele como el infierno, pero no quiero que vuelvas<\/a><\/p>\n<p>And every time she repeats the same sentence: \u201cMy dear, one day someone will thank YOU for letting me go!\u201d<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are waking up every morning, trying so hard not to think of her. She is the first damn thought that you start your day with. And it keeps track with you all the time. You can\u2019t get rid of her. Your effort to erase her from your heart is in vain. She is still&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":3292,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3291","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/jamie-dench-270190.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3291","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3291"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3291\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3292"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3291"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3291"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3291"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}