{"id":32965,"date":"2019-02-15T10:29:32","date_gmt":"2019-02-15T10:29:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32965"},"modified":"2021-11-10T10:22:57","modified_gmt":"2021-11-10T10:22:57","slug":"8-reglas-para-convertirte-en-una-wingwoman-asesina-ayuda-a-tu-bff-a-ligar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-reglas-para-convertirte-en-una-wingwoman-asesina-ayuda-a-tu-bff-a-ligar\/","title":{"rendered":"8 reglas para convertirte en una mujer con alas asesinas (ayuda a tu mejor amiga a ligar)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Has o\u00eddo hablar de los wingmen, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not even remotely unusual that guys help each other out when they see a cute girl and want to approach her. It\u2019s the basics of good friendship.<\/p>\n

So naturally, why wouldn\u2019t women be great wingwomen, too?<\/p>\n

We have each other\u2019s backs and we are there in every possible situation. Why would it be strange for us to take the seat next to the pilot and help her land the guy of her dreams.<\/p>\n

Eso, entre otras cosas, es lo que mejores amigos<\/a> are for. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

No a todas se nos da bien ligar y acercarnos a los hombres, as\u00ed que a veces algunas necesitamos que nos echen una mano y algunas estamos dispuestas a ayudar.<\/p>\n

La raz\u00f3n de ser de una wingwoman<\/h2>\n

Hay que ser responsable e inteligente para poder llevar a cabo este acto noble y desinteresado.<\/p>\n

You have to keep in mind not to come off too strong and steal the spotlight but at the same time, you have to be interesting enough to entertain the guy\u2019s friend.<\/p>\n

The whole point is to have your girl\u2019s back and remove the friend from your girl\u2019s conversation in a subtle and cute way.<\/p>\n

If the friend is hot, it\u2019s definitely a plus.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo convertirse en la mejor copiloto?<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Practica con ella<\/h2>\n

Hazlo un mill\u00f3n de veces si es necesario. Recrea una escena en un bar y practica con ella para dejar la mejor impresi\u00f3n posible.<\/p>\n

Do this especially if your friend is a bit shy and usually doesn\u2019t approach strangers on your night out.<\/p>\n

Pretend you are a hot stranger and she\u2019s picking you up. Don\u2019t go easy on her, be ruthless if you need to.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how you\u2019ll prepare her for the worst if it accidentally happens but also choose moments when to be gentle, too. You don\u2019t want to destroy her self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Aseg\u00farate tambi\u00e9n de darle tu opini\u00f3n sobre las cosas que crees que podr\u00eda haber hecho mejor. Dale consejos sobre lo que t\u00fa habr\u00edas hecho de otra manera, etc.<\/p>\n

2. Elige por ella (si es necesario)<\/h2>\n

If she\u2019s too scared to look, if she\u2019s insecure, choose a guy for her (but follow the rules of the c\u00f3digo chica<\/a>). <\/p>\n

You know that this night out is not about you and you don’t need to get nervous about making the first move. Your feelings are not on the line.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to care what he thinks about you because you are not the one who is interested in him but still, try to leave a good impression.<\/p>\n

Hazle preguntas generales, preg\u00fantale qu\u00e9 tipo de m\u00fasica le gusta, a qu\u00e9 se dedica, etc.<\/p>\n

Re\u00fane informaci\u00f3n general sobre \u00e9l que le presentar\u00e1s y deja que ella decida si le gusta o no.<\/p>\n

3. No eres un casamentero<\/h2>\n

There is no need for you to plan their date. You are not a matchmaker in this situation and the things you would like don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

Only she matters and the things she wants to do. Do not force the hook-up, those situations usually don\u2019t even end up well.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e9 ah\u00ed para su chica como apoyo y ayuda inmediata. Aseg\u00farate de que pueda contar contigo en todo momento. Eres como su red de seguridad.<\/p>\n

Remember, you are there for her to help her get what she wants\u2014a one-night stand, his number, a lover, a soulmate, you name it!<\/p>\n

4. Hazte el tonto si es necesario<\/h2>\n

Si, por alguna raz\u00f3n, las cosas se te van de las manos, salta a salvar el d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Si notas que su conversaci\u00f3n va mal o que se ha quedado atrapada en una situaci\u00f3n embarazosa, acude al rescate.<\/p>\n

Para ayudarla, averg\u00fc\u00e9nzate a\u00fan m\u00e1s que ella, para dirigir la atenci\u00f3n no deseada hacia ti. Prep\u00e1rate para recibir uno por el equipo.<\/p>\n

Do whatever it takes. Basically, your job is to make her look like a rock star. You don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

5. Habla con ella<\/h2>\n

Before going out, think of the stories you will share with the guy she\u2019s into. Avoid embarrassing stories and choose the ones that make her look awesome because let\u2019s face it, she is.<\/p>\n

Aseg\u00farate de destacar todas sus cualidades y d\u00e9jale sin palabras.<\/p>\n

6. Divertir al amigo<\/h2>\n

Dales algo de tiempo a solas, sobre todo si ves que tu chica tiene la situaci\u00f3n bajo control, pero no la pierdas de vista por si necesita tu ayuda.<\/p>\n

While you\u2019re letting her control the situation, amuse the friend.<\/p>\n

Be selfless and spend as much time as possible with him, even if you don\u2019t like him. If you do, well\u2026 that\u2019s a win-win situation but take my advice and don\u2019t count on that.<\/p>\n

7. No coquetear<\/h2>\n

As I\u2019ve already said a couple of times, it\u2019s not about you. You are there for her just as support.<\/p>\n

So in order to help her the best you can, turn off your sexy charm and pretend you\u2019re not there. You don\u2019t want to distract him and get his attention.<\/p>\n

Si hablas con \u00e9l primero, act\u00faa de forma amistosa y c\u00e1lida, pero distante al mismo tiempo. No le atraigas sin querer.<\/p>\n

8. Planificar la v\u00eda de evacuaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

Before you go out, carefully go through all the possible scenarios in the bar, including the one where things don\u2019t go exactly as you planned.<\/p>\n

What if he turns out to be a creeper or if he\u2019s just weird? You have to have an escape plan.<\/p>\n

For these situations, come up with a safe word or a gesture that will signal you to run and save her. Or if you just see that she\u2019s uncomfortable and she wants to bounce, go to the rescue and do your thing.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 su copiloto. S\u00e9 la mejor amiga que necesita.<\/p>\n

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