{"id":33011,"date":"2020-02-15T14:46:48","date_gmt":"2020-02-15T14:46:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33011"},"modified":"2022-02-25T11:19:17","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T11:19:17","slug":"a-todas-las-chicas-que-necesitan-escuchar-esto-hiciste-lo-correcto-cuando-lo-dejaste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-todas-las-chicas-que-necesitan-escuchar-esto-hiciste-lo-correcto-cuando-lo-dejaste\/","title":{"rendered":"A todas las chicas que necesitan o\u00edr esto: Hiciste Lo Correcto Al Dejarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfHas estado alguna vez en una situaci\u00f3n en la que sab\u00edas que alejarte de alguien a quien amabas era la \u00fanica opci\u00f3n que ten\u00edas, aunque fuera lo \u00faltimo que tu coraz\u00f3n deseaba?<\/p>\n<p>En una situaci\u00f3n en la que tuvieras que dejar atr\u00e1s a alguien a quien quer\u00edas porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/tuve-que-alejarme-porque-sabia-que-quedarme-me-haria-mas-dano\/\">\u00bfquedarse doler\u00eda a\u00fan m\u00e1s?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00bfEn una situaci\u00f3n en la que terminaste una relaci\u00f3n con un hombre con el que sab\u00edas que no ten\u00edas futuro, aunque fue lo m\u00e1s doloroso que tuviste que hacer en tu vida? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00bfDonde te viste obligado a romper tu propio coraz\u00f3n para siempre porque era la \u00fanica manera de hacer que otra persona dejara de romperlo pedazo a pedazo con cada d\u00eda que pasaba?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you have, then this one\u2019s for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esto es para todas las chicas que se preguntan si hicieron lo correcto cuando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/recuperar-el-corazon-y-escuchar-al-cerebro\/\">escuch\u00f3 a su cerebro<\/a> y se alej\u00f3 de alguien que la hac\u00eda infeliz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014you did make the right decision. Even if you don\u2019t see it now, with time, you\u2019ll understand that this decision was the best one of your life.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, era lo \u00fanico que pod\u00edas hacer y la \u00fanica oportunidad que ten\u00edas de liberarte de toda esa toxicidad de la que estabas rodeado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>For once, you chose to save yourself instead of saving that man who didn\u2019t want to be saved. For the first time ever, you chose to love yourself over that man.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know you might question your decision now but trust me\u2014you did the right thing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-77484\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-beautiful-woman-starring-at-one-point.jpg\" alt=\"triste hermosa mujer protagonista en un momento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-beautiful-woman-starring-at-one-point.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-beautiful-woman-starring-at-one-point-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-beautiful-woman-starring-at-one-point-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, cada vez que te cuestiones, recuerda todo el dolor que ese tipo te hizo pasar.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda todas las l\u00e1grimas, todas las decepciones y humillaciones y todas las veces que te hizo pedazos.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que empieces a dudar de si has tomado la decisi\u00f3n correcta, recuerda todas las noches en vela que pasaste rezando a Dios para que le cambiara y le ayudara a convertirse en el <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/al-tipo-que-nunca-se-convertira-en-el-hombre-que-ella-necesita-que-sea\/\">hombre que necesitabas que fuera.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Acu\u00e9rdate de todos los a\u00f1os que has perdido esperando a que espabilara y madurara de una vez.<\/p>\n<p>Every time you start blaming yourself for leaving this man hanging, remember all the effort you\u2019ve put into your relationship while he couldn\u2019t care less about it.<\/p>\n<p>Todas las veces que te esforzaste por arreglar su desagradecido culo mientras \u00e9l te daba por sentado, como si tuviera derecho a ese trato especial que recib\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que empieces a echar de menos a tu ex t\u00f3xico, intenta no pensar s\u00f3lo en lo bueno.<\/p>\n<p>Intenta no pensar en los bonitos recuerdos y en las veces que consigui\u00f3 hacerte feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, look at things realistically and see him for who he really is and always has been\u2014a manipulative selfish asshole who never deserved you, nor the love you were giving him.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that he will forever stay the same jerk he\u2019s always been and that there is nothing you could do to make him better.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-77487\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-ignoring-her.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en la cama mientras el hombre la ignora\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-ignoring-her.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-ignoring-her-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-ignoring-her-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que te preguntes si hiciste lo correcto, recu\u00e9rdate a ti misma el hecho de que en el fondo sabes muy bien que ese hombre nunca te quiso y nunca te querr\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Que nunca te trat\u00f3 bien y que te mereces mucho m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Recuerda que hasta ahora lo has conseguido sin \u00e9l y que sobrevivir\u00e1s a su ausencia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That he didn\u2019t manage to break you just because he broke your heart and that all of this is nothing more than a lesson which will help you grow stronger.<\/p>\n<p>Recu\u00e9rdate a ti misma que \u00e9sta era la \u00fanica forma de abrirte camino hacia tu felicidad y hacia el hombre que te dar\u00e1 todo lo que buscas.<\/p>\n<p>Que dejarle marchar era la \u00fanica forma de seguir adelante con tu vida y lanzarte al brillante futuro que te espera.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Most importantly, every time you think of going back to this man who has done you this much harm\u2014don\u2019t. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que, por favor, vean que esto, por lo que est\u00e1n pasando, no es m\u00e1s que una tentaci\u00f3n y en lugar de verlo como una maldici\u00f3n, v\u00e9anlo como una bendici\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Trust me, there will come a time when you\u2019ll be thankful to God for giving you the strength you needed to get through this challenge.<\/p>\n<p>A time when you\u2019ll be thankful for making the right choice in time.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-77482\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-Every-Girl-Who-Needs-To-Hear-This-You-Did-The-Right-Thing-When-You-Left-Him-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"A Toda Chica Que Necesita O\u00edr Esto Hiciste Lo Correcto Al Dejarlo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-Every-Girl-Who-Needs-To-Hear-This-You-Did-The-Right-Thing-When-You-Left-Him-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-Every-Girl-Who-Needs-To-Hear-This-You-Did-The-Right-Thing-When-You-Left-Him-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever been in a situation where you knew that walking away from someone you loved was the only choice you had, even though that was the last thing your heart wanted? In a situation where you had to leave behind someone you cared for because staying would hurt even more? In a situation&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":77489,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33011","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-Every-Girl-Who-Needs-To-Hear-This-You-Did-The-Right-Thing-When-You-Left-Him.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33011","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33011"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33011\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77489"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33011"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33011"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33011"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}