{"id":33064,"date":"2019-02-18T09:10:50","date_gmt":"2019-02-18T09:10:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33064"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:59:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:59:12","slug":"si-la-vieras-valer-a-tiempo-tal-vez-todavia-estaria-alli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-la-vieras-valer-a-tiempo-tal-vez-todavia-estaria-alli\/","title":{"rendered":"Si la vieras valer a tiempo, tal vez seguir\u00eda ah\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Despu\u00e9s de todo lo que le has hecho a esta chica, \u00bfa\u00fan tienes la osad\u00eda de preguntarte c\u00f3mo te merec\u00edas que te dejara, as\u00ed, de la nada?<\/p>\n<p>After all the shit you\u2019ve put her through and after making her existence a living hell for years, you are still convinced that you have the right to blame her for dumping you?<\/p>\n<p>You still have the courage to call her and show up at the places you could meet her, thinking that her decision wasn\u2019t serious and that she\u2019d change her mind the moment she heard your voice or saw your face.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTodav\u00eda tienes la valent\u00eda de intentar volver arrastr\u00e1ndote hacia ella, esperando tener otra oportunidad y esperando que te acepte una vez m\u00e1s, como si nada hubiera pasado?<\/p>\n<p>Esperar que se crea tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-mas-palabras-dulces-y-promesas-vanas-quiero-honestidad-y-esfuerzo\/\">promesas vac\u00edas<\/a> y desperdiciar algunos a\u00f1os m\u00e1s con el hombre que nunca mereci\u00f3 tenerla en primer lugar.<\/p>\n<p>Si lo haces, tengo que decirte que debes estar loco porque lo \u00faltimo que piensa hacer esta chica es volver contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00faltimo que piensa hacer es darte otra oportunidad para herirla y romperle el coraz\u00f3n de nuevo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No, she doesn\u2019t regret the choice she made and she most certainly doesn\u2019t feel guilty for walking away from you. She doesn\u2019t question her decision, wondering if she did the right thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY sabes por qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Because she didn\u2019t actually leave you\u2014you were the one who let her go, thinking you could play with her until you got bored. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The one who chased her away and the one who never gave her a reason to stay, convinced that she\u2019d put up with you for as long as she breathed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cuando me pongo a pensarlo, nunca apreciaste ni quisiste lo suficiente a esta chica. Nunca la pusiste en primer lugar y nunca le diste el lugar que se merec\u00eda en tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, s\u00e9 que est\u00e1s convencido de que esta vez lo har\u00edas todo de otra manera.<\/p>\n<p>That you want her to believe you that you\u2019ve learned your lesson and that you are ready to turn over a new page of your life, as a changed man.<\/p>\n<p>Well, guess what? This girl grew tired of all of your false promises and this time, she isn\u2019t coming back and you couldn\u2019t be more wrong if you believe that she is.<\/p>\n<p>Probablemente har\u00edas todo lo que estuviera en tu mano para tener una oportunidad m\u00e1s de hacer las cosas bien.<\/p>\n<p>To show her you\u2019ve realized your mistakes and that you\u2019ve changed to this enlightened man who is finally ready to take responsibility for his actions.<\/p>\n<p>I am sure that now that you\u2019ve <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/me-has-perdido-y-no-voy-a-volver\/\">perdido<\/a> ella, ya ves que esta chica era m\u00e1s que suficiente.<\/p>\n<p>Now you finally realize everything people around you kept telling you\u2014that she was one of a kind and that you\u2019d never find a girl similar to her.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, por fin lo entiendes. Por fin ves todos los sacrificios que estaba haciendo por vuestra relaci\u00f3n y todo el esfuerzo que puso para que las cosas entre vosotros funcionaran.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, ninguna de estas realizaciones tiene sentido ahora. Es agradable si usted realmente lleg\u00f3 a sus sentidos, pero tambi\u00e9n es completamente in\u00fatil y sin sentido cuando se trata de esta chica.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Because she isn\u2019t coming back. And there is nothing you can do about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, there is something even worse than this\u2014<strong>you are the one who is sentenced to spending the rest of your life dreaming about a girl you had but whose true value you didn\u2019t see.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>El que se hizo desgraciado y el que perdi\u00f3 a una chica a la que nunca volver\u00e1 a ver.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am in no way trying to sympathize with you\u2019re here.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, I\u2019m pretty glad that all of this is happening to you because repenting for what you did is exactly what you deserve to go through.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-33067 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T100848.526-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Si la vieras valer a tiempo, tal vez seguir\u00eda ah\u00ed\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T100848.526-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T100848.526-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T100848.526.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After everything you\u2019ve done to this girl, you still have the audacity to wonder how you deserved her leaving you, just like that, out of the blue? After all the shit you\u2019ve put her through and after making her existence a living hell for years, you are still convinced that you have the right to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33065,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33064","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/adult-blur-bonnet-246804.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33064","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33064"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33064\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33065"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33064"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33064"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33064"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}