{"id":33070,"date":"2019-02-18T10:12:48","date_gmt":"2019-02-18T10:12:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33070"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:39:10","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:39:10","slug":"en-cuanto-cierres-el-capitulo-de-mierda-de-tu-historia-empezara-enseguida-el-mejor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/en-cuanto-cierres-el-capitulo-de-mierda-de-tu-historia-empezara-enseguida-el-mejor\/","title":{"rendered":"En cuanto cierres el cap\u00edtulo malo de tu historia, empezar\u00e1 el mejor."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/es-hora-de-que-empieces-un-nuevo-capitulo-de-tu-vida-conmigo\/\">Cap\u00edtulos finales<\/a> nunca son f\u00e1ciles. Lo s\u00e9 porque he cerrado muchos hasta ahora. Pero cada vez que lo hac\u00eda, me sent\u00eda mejor.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe I was engaged in some relationships thinking that I can\u2019t do better.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe I was just a young girl who didn\u2019t have life experience and who was easy to manipulate. But in the end, I broke free from everything that was killing me.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando lo hice, sent\u00ed como si la carga m\u00e1s pesada se desprendiera de mis hombros. Sent\u00ed que pod\u00eda respirar de nuevo. Volv\u00ed a sentirme vivo.<\/p>\n<p>Sent\u00ed que mi vida volv\u00eda a tener sentido. Y as\u00ed es como me siento ahora.<\/p>\n<p>Por fin me siento bien en mi propia piel porque he cerrado todos los cap\u00edtulos de mierda de mi vida.<\/p>\n<p>I am not saying there won\u2019t be any crappy chapters in the future, but at least I know how to handle them. Now I know what makes me happy or what makes me sad.<\/p>\n<p>Hubo personas en mi vida que me prometieron que siempre estar\u00edan ah\u00ed, pero se marcharon con el primer bache en el camino.<\/p>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n hubo compa\u00f1eros sentimentales que me prometieron amor eterno pero que me enga\u00f1aron con la primera chica que apareci\u00f3 en sus vidas.<\/p>\n<p>Hab\u00eda falsos amigos que se aprovechaban de m\u00ed mientras me dec\u00edan que siempre estar\u00edan ah\u00ed y me cubrir\u00edan las espaldas.<\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00fanico que hicieron con mi espalda fue clavarme un cuchillo. Hubo tantas cosas malas en mi vida, cosas que se disfrazaron de buenas y positivas.<\/p>\n<p>But I couldn\u2019t recognize them immediately.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t see who my real friends were, if my partner will cheat on me or if I was making a good choice by asking some people to stay in my life.<\/p>\n<p>Pero ahora, puedo verlo todo. Ahora, no estoy sosteniendo algo que s\u00e9 que no es bueno para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/querido-dios-por-favor-dame-fuerza-para-dejar-ir-lo-que-no-es-mio\/\">Estoy dejando ir las cosas<\/a> cuando llega el momento adecuado, y esa es la mejor sensaci\u00f3n que existe.<\/p>\n<p>Soy consciente de que dejar marchar a las personas que quiero no es f\u00e1cil, pero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-es-el-tipo-de-chico-que-solo-se-preocupa-cuando-no-te-vas\/\">es mejor irse<\/a> someone than to live a life you don\u2019t enjoy.<\/p>\n<p>Y eso fue lo que experiment\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>En el momento en que cerr\u00e9 un cap\u00edtulo de mi vida empec\u00e9 a tener una perspectiva diferente de la vida.<\/p>\n<p>Aprend\u00ed que necesito darme una oportunidad como se las daba a la gente a mi alrededor.<\/p>\n<p>Me di cuenta de que no todo ser\u00e1 perfecto, pero que es esencial saber vivir en ese caos creativo.<\/p>\n<p>Aprend\u00ed muchas cosas, pero de forma dura. Y estoy agradecida por cada lecci\u00f3n porque me convirtieron en la mujer que soy hoy.<\/p>\n<p>I am happy for every crappy thing that happened to me so I could value those good ones. If I hadn\u2019t gone through some messes, I wouldn\u2019t know what it feels like to enjoy life.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso, cuando alguien me pregunta c\u00f3mo puedo seguir sonriendo despu\u00e9s de todo lo malo que me ha pasado, le digo que estoy agradecida por todo.<\/p>\n<p>No importa si fue algo bueno o malo, me alegro de que formara parte de mi vida.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY cap\u00edtulos de mierda?<\/p>\n<p>Habr\u00e1 m\u00e1s, lo s\u00e9. Pero lo que tambi\u00e9n s\u00e9 es que ninguno de ellos ser\u00e1 lo bastante fuerte como para acabar conmigo.<\/p>\n<p>Because I am like a cherry tree\u2014so fragile from the outside but so strong from the inside.<\/p>\n<p>Soy lo bastante fuerte como para mantenerme en pie aunque la mayor tormenta atraviese mi vida. Me he dado cuenta de que la vida es demasiado corta y de que tengo que disfrutarla.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u00bfY sabes qu\u00e9?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Eso es exactamente lo que har\u00e9.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-33074\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T111154.133-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"En cuanto cierres el cap\u00edtulo malo de tu historia, empezar\u00e1 el mejor.\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T111154.133-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T111154.133-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T111154.133.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Closing chapters are never easy. I know that because I closed many until now. But every time I did, I felt better. Maybe I was engaged in some relationships thinking that I can\u2019t do better. Maybe I was just a young girl who didn\u2019t have life experience and who was easy to manipulate. But in&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33073,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/back-view-backlit-city-847483.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33070","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33070"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33070\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33073"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}