{"id":33076,"date":"2020-09-18T10:25:38","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T10:25:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33076"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:53:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:53:45","slug":"7-senales-de-que-no-esta-rompiendo-contigo-todo-esta-en-tu-cabeza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-de-que-no-esta-rompiendo-contigo-todo-esta-en-tu-cabeza\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales de que no est\u00e1 rompiendo contigo (todo est\u00e1 en tu cabeza)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Normalmente, es al rev\u00e9s. Por lo general, todo el mundo est\u00e1 escribiendo acerca de los signos que realmente quiere romper con usted.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re reading through it, hoping that what you read is wrong.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY si pasamos al siguiente nivel para deshacernos de tu paranoia de una vez por todas?<\/p>\n

What if I manage to prove it to you that it\u2019s all in your head, and he is perfectly happy with you?<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que cada vez que est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n, temes que \u00e9l vaya a romper contigo. \u00bfSabes por qu\u00e9 te sientes as\u00ed?<\/p>\n

Because you\u2019re not confident, and you believe you\u2019re not good enough.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que en lugar de acobardarte e imaginarte el peor de los escenarios, tranquil\u00edzate un poco y cree que, por una vez, no te va a abandonar.<\/p>\n

Usually, when you start panicking, your panic reflects on your body language, and in that way, you\u2019re scaring the poor guy off.<\/p>\n

Your body is showing what your mind thinks which gets him thinking you want out. And the end result of that is – he dumps you!<\/p>\n

Make it different this time around. Don\u2019t work up the worst case scenario in your head when things get a bit bumpy.<\/p>\n

No relationship is perfect, and sooner or later, you are going to go through some stuff which won\u2019t go away overnight.<\/p>\n

So, instead of thinking he will break up with you, think about what you could do to make things better and solve whatever it is that\u2019s bothering you.<\/p>\n

In the meantime, check out the signs that will calm you down a bit – signs he is not going to break up with you nor ever intended to.<\/p>\n

1. He’s open about his feelings<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It\u2019s another thing that you don\u2019t believe him. It\u2019s so normal to have doubts and to question your own decisions.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you\u2019ve been put to a test, and you have to pass it. But with you, it\u2019s different.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re questioning yourself because you don\u2019t believe in yourself.<\/p>\n

Even after you\u2019ve asked your boyfriend upfront whether he wants to break up with you and he\u2019s told you upfront he doesn\u2019t, you still don\u2019t believe him.<\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s better to get out of your head and trust someone for a change. Try not to think that the whole world is against you.<\/p>\n

Porque si sigues viviendo con esa mentalidad, la gente va a empezar a abandonarte.<\/p>\n

2. Te escucha cuando hablas<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

A man who doesn\u2019t give a damn about you doesn\u2019t give a damn about what you\u2019ve got to say either.<\/p>\n

He, on the other hand, remembers everything you say. He remembers you\u2019ve said what your favorite food is; he knows your favorite song.<\/p>\n

Recuerda las historias de cuando eras peque\u00f1o. Te escucha de verdad cuando hablas.<\/p>\n

How can it cross your mind that a man who has a genuine interest in everything about you would leave you? It doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n

3. He doesn\u2019t walk away from problems<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Toda pareja que se preocupe por la supervivencia de su relaci\u00f3n har\u00e1 todo lo que est\u00e9 en su mano para mantenerla viva.<\/p>\n

If you are experiencing problems and your partner doesn\u2019t want to do anything about them and even avoids talking about your problems in general, then you can be sure he doesn\u2019t care about your relationship.<\/p>\n

Si, por el contrario, est\u00e1 interesado en averiguar cu\u00e1l es el problema y c\u00f3mo podr\u00edas solucionarlo, entonces incluso pensar en el hecho de que quiere romper es una locura.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s definitely all in your head.<\/p>\n

4. El sexo sigue siendo bueno<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, segu\u00eds teniendo relaciones sexuales, lo que significa que la qu\u00edmica sigue viva.<\/p>\n

For as long as you attract each other and feel the sexual connection between you, you don\u2019t have to worry.<\/p>\n

Sex is like half of the relationship. If something\u2019s wrong in the bedroom department, your relationship might be questionable.<\/p>\n

If you don’t want a relationship, the last thing you want is to have sex with that person. Actually, you don\u2019t want to have anything to do with them.<\/p>\n

If anything, you\u2019ll try to spend as little time as you can with them. You\u2019ll try to avoid them.<\/p>\n

5. Cambia por ti<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Abandona los malos h\u00e1bitos que ten\u00eda s\u00f3lo porque t\u00fa se lo pides.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re dealing with a man who doesn\u2019t give a damn about you<\/a>, he won\u2019t move a finger for you.<\/p>\n

Tus buenas intenciones se interpretar\u00edan como un rega\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

But a man who loves you and wants your relationship to succeed will listen to you because he knows you want only what\u2019s good for him. He will try to change.<\/p>\n

6. Hace cosas por ti<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Instead of watching the game with his friends, he is taking you to the movies. And of course, you\u2019re picking what you\u2019re going to watch.<\/p>\n

A guy who doesn\u2019t care about you also doesn\u2019t care about where you want to go and what you want to do.<\/p>\n

A guy who wants to break up won\u2019t think twice between choosing to watch the game or go somewhere with you.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t do these things that make you happy. He would distance himself from you little by little, and in the end, he would leave for good.<\/p>\n

7. He\u2019s not cold<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando alguien pierde inter\u00e9s en ti, empieza a actuar con frialdad y se vuelve cada vez m\u00e1s distante.<\/p>\n

But, your boyfriend doesn\u2019t do that. He is not excluding you from his life.<\/p>\n

Sigue siendo cari\u00f1oso y afectuoso. Te abraza y te besa cada vez que puede.<\/p>\n

Do you see? It\u2019s all in your head. Start believing in yourself for a change. You are good enough. You deserve love.<\/p>\n

Y no, no va a romper contigo.<\/p>\n

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