{"id":33093,"date":"2020-05-18T10:56:38","date_gmt":"2020-05-18T10:56:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33093"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:27:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:27:22","slug":"no-te-preocupes-por-establecerte-tarde-preocupate-por-establecerte-con-el-hombre-equivocado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-te-preocupes-por-establecerte-tarde-preocupate-por-establecerte-con-el-hombre-equivocado\/","title":{"rendered":"No te preocupes por instalarte tarde, preoc\u00fapate por instalarte con el hombre equivocado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Calla todas esas voces que te dicen que tienes que tener una relaci\u00f3n para ser feliz y estar completo.<\/p>\n<p>Calla todas esas voces que te dicen que tienes que casarte o irte a vivir con tu novio antes de los 30.<\/p>\n<p>Calla todas esas voces que te dicen que tu reloj biol\u00f3gico corre y que, en alg\u00fan momento, ser\u00e1 demasiado tarde para tener hijos y crear una familia.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Life is not a race, and it\u2019s not the 1970\u2019s anymore; you don\u2019t have to do anything.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>The rule is that there are no rules or boundaries when it comes to true love, and it\u2019s different for each and every one of us.<\/p>\n<p>No hay un calendario fijo para ninguna de estas cosas. Hay quien encuentra el amor en el instituto, quien despu\u00e9s de los 30 y quien tras uno o varios fracasos matrimoniales.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89111\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/wedding-couple-kissing.jpg\" alt=\"boda pareja bes\u00e1ndose\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/wedding-couple-kissing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/wedding-couple-kissing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/wedding-couple-kissing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>El verdadero amor llama a nuestras puertas a pesar de todo.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que siempre que el amor llegue a tu vida, dale la bienvenida. Pero nunca te conformes con amores a medias, relaciones desordenadas y personas t\u00f3xicas.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not true love. That\u2019s not settling down with somebody you love.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s settling for less than you deserve. That\u2019s settling for a life deprived of joy.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Deshazte del miedo a acabar sola. Preoc\u00fapate m\u00e1s por acabar con el hombre equivocado.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014that\u2019s ten times worse than ending up alone because nothing can ruin your life like the wrong man.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89112\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looking-at-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mirando a mujer triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looking-at-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looking-at-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looking-at-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una vez que te conformas con el hombre equivocado, te est\u00e1s conformando con peleas constantes y falta de atenci\u00f3n y afecto.<\/p>\n<p>You are sharing your roof with somebody who doesn\u2019t understand you.<\/p>\n<p>Once you settle for the wrong man, you are signing the papers that you accept a life in which he doesn\u2019t give you the respect you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00fanico que har\u00e1 es darte por sentado a ti y todos los esfuerzos que hagas.<\/p>\n<p>Una vez que te conformas con el hombre equivocado, no est\u00e1s viviendo el presente.<\/p>\n<p>Vives con la esperanza de un ma\u00f1ana mejor, la esperanza de que alg\u00fan d\u00eda \u00e9l cambie y te d\u00e9 el amor que mereces.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89113\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"joven preocupada sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once you settle for the wrong man, you are settling for a life of waiting\u2014waiting for him to be the man you need; waiting for something that will never be.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t marry someone you are not completely, madly, passionately in love with either.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t settle for someone you don\u2019t really care for just because he is good for you or better than your ex.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t settle for someone because you just celebrated a milestone birthday and you think \u2018it\u2019s time\u2019 to put down some roots.<\/p>\n<p>Settling for anything less than true love is a mistake. Where all the feelings and investments aren\u2019t reciprocated, there is no love. There is no basis to build a life together.<\/p>\n<p>No hay posibilidad de un buen matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89114\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-taking-off-her-wedding-ring.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste quit\u00e1ndose el anillo de boda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-taking-off-her-wedding-ring.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-taking-off-her-wedding-ring-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-taking-off-her-wedding-ring-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t marry someone you are \u2018meh\u2019 about because he will be wrong for you\u2014just as a man who treats you like crap because there\u2019s no love coming from your side.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t settle for \u2018good enough\u2019. Wait for the one that is the best for you even though he might not be perfect. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t settle for somebody who treats you poorly because there is a man out there who will treat you like a queen.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow society\u2019s expectations or your own expectations and fears to pressure you into settling for someone who isn\u2019t made for you, someone who clearly isn\u2019t your soulmate.<\/p>\n<p>Todos tenemos una vida que vivir y debemos elegir c\u00f3mo vivirla. No debemos desperdiciarla conform\u00e1ndonos con menos que el amor verdadero.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que elige el amor rec\u00edproco, infinito e incondicional.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89115\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-on-the-rooftop.jpg\" alt=\"feliz pareja abraz\u00e1ndose en la azotea\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-on-the-rooftop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-on-the-rooftop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-on-the-rooftop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Elige ser lo suficientemente valiente como para esperar a alguien que traiga calma y alegr\u00eda a tu vida, alguien con quien te sientas seguro, alguien que cuide de ti y te trate con amabilidad aunque t\u00fa seas m\u00e1s que capaz de cuidar de ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Wait for the man and marry the man who you feel is the right one for you, and you just know that you wouldn\u2019t want to spend the rest of your life with anybody else.<\/p>\n<p>The best thing about it all is that your timing will be just right. You won\u2019t meet him too late or too soon.<\/p>\n<p>Vas a encontrar a tu alma gemela justo cuando se supone que debes hacerlo.<\/p>\n<p>So mute those mean voices telling you to settle, pressuring you to hurry up into getting married, screaming that you have to do something you don\u2019t feel is right.<\/p>\n<p>Porque lo \u00fanico que tienes que hacer es ser feliz, amar y ser amado, y nunca lo vas a ser si te encuentras con el <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/7-senales-comunes-dicen-mr-wrong\/\">hombre equivocado<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So why wouldn\u2019t you settle down \u201ca bit later\u201d if it\u2019s with the right man?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89110\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Don\u2019t-Worry-About-Settling-Down-Late-Worry-About-Settling-For-The-Wrong-Man-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"No te preocupes por instalarte tarde, preoc\u00fapate por instalarte con el hombre equivocado\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Don\u2019t-Worry-About-Settling-Down-Late-Worry-About-Settling-For-The-Wrong-Man-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Don\u2019t-Worry-About-Settling-Down-Late-Worry-About-Settling-For-The-Wrong-Man-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shut down all those voices telling you that you have to be in a relationship to be happy and complete. Shut down all those voices telling you that you have to get married or move in with your boyfriend before 30. Shut down all those voices telling you that your biological clock is ticking and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":89116,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33093","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Don\u2019t-Worry-About-Settling-Down-Late-Worry-About-Settling-For-The-Wrong-Man.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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