{"id":33111,"date":"2020-02-18T11:44:19","date_gmt":"2020-02-18T11:44:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33111"},"modified":"2022-02-22T11:57:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T11:57:31","slug":"si-hace-estas-6-cosas-es-un-bombardero-del-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-hace-estas-6-cosas-es-un-bombardero-del-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Si hace estas 6 cosas, es un bombardero del amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Para todos aquellos que no tienen ni idea de qu\u00e9 es el bombardeo amoroso y de d\u00f3nde viene, en realidad el bombardeo amoroso es tan antiguo como el amor mismo.<\/p>\n

Desde el momento en que naci\u00f3 el amor, tambi\u00e9n naci\u00f3 el bombardeo amoroso.<\/p>\n

From the moment someone \u2018decided\u2019 to love another person, someone else also came up with the concept of love bombing\u2014the moment when manipulation was born.<\/p>\n

Eso es b\u00e1sicamente el bombardeo amoroso.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 hacen los bombarderos del amor?<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t stop until they have you. They will chase you, plan big, romantic surprises, and make gestures you won\u2019t be able to resist.<\/p>\n

Har\u00e1n realidad todos tus deseos y se asegurar\u00e1n de que te sientas la persona m\u00e1s importante de su mundo.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de que te conquisten y creas que eres el objetivo de un bombardero del amor, no tendr\u00e1s ninguna posibilidad de luchar contra su encanto; como que se olvidar\u00e1n de que existes.<\/p>\n

Justo despu\u00e9s de que te atraigan a una relaci\u00f3n y derriben tus muros defensivos, mostrar\u00e1n su verdadera cara.<\/p>\n

Heads-up\u2014it\u2019s their manipulative and controlling behavior.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es el bombardeo amoroso?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

As the phrase itself suggests, love bombing is a tactic which manipulators use to keep you under their control\u2014they use love as a bomb to keep you manipulated.<\/p>\n

Sus objetivos favoritos son las personas que han sido heridas en el pasado, las que han sido traicionadas por lo que cre\u00edan que era amor, las que se quedan rotas e inseguras.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easy to make them victims of love bombing because they are the ones easiest to control.<\/p>\n

O\u00edr cu\u00e1nto te quiere alguien cada d\u00eda puede volverse muy adictivo, sobre todo si en el pasado te faltaron el respeto y el cari\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

When you get it, you easily get hooked. It\u2019s like a drug. When you get one hit, you need to get another.<\/p>\n

El objetivo principal del bombardeo amoroso<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nThe ultimate goal for every love bomber is to overwhelm his victim with affection at the beginning of their relationship, so they don\u2019t change their mind about him later on when he shows his real face.<\/p>\n

He wants to keep his victim\u2019s hopes alive that he is going to change back to his old self\u2014a sweet and compassionate man ready to turn the world upside down for the person he loves.<\/p>\n

Los hombres as\u00ed enga\u00f1an deliberadamente a sus v\u00edctimas para que toleren su comportamiento t\u00f3xico en las fases m\u00e1s avanzadas de su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Signs you\u2019re with a love bomber and not a real and honest man<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h2>\n

Formar\u00e1 un fuerte v\u00ednculo desde el principio<\/h2>\n

\"feliz<\/p>\n

He will tell you everything about himself before you even get home from the first date. He will let you in on all aspects of his life. Isn\u2019t this kind of alarming?<\/p>\n

He will emphasize how important you are to him and that he feels an unbreakable connection between the two of you, like you\u2019ve known each other your whole lives.<\/p>\n

Le asegurar\u00e1 que le ha contado cosas sobre s\u00ed mismo que nunca antes hab\u00eda contado a nadie.<\/p>\n

L\u00f3gicamente, te sentir\u00e1s segura a su lado y, puesto que te ha contado todo sobre s\u00ed mismo, vas a devolverle el favor y abrirte tambi\u00e9n a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s the first big mistake you made. You just gave him enough material to use against you in the future.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll drop the L-bomb way too soon<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I know, no one has the right to decide when the right time to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d to someone is.<\/p>\n

El amor deber\u00eda consistir en ese sentimiento particular que experimentas en ese momento concreto; el amor deber\u00eda ser algo especial.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, everyone knows love takes time to develop and it\u2019s almost impossible to enamorarse tan pronto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Aunque creas que est\u00e1s enamorado desde el principio, te equivocas. Eso no es m\u00e1s que atracci\u00f3n y encaprichamiento.<\/p>\n

Para amar de verdad a alguien, primero hay que conocerlo; todo lo dem\u00e1s es pasajero.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll tell you exactly what you want to hear<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

I\u2019m telling you, a person like that has to have a special skill to be able to do that, plus no conscience whatsoever.<\/p>\n

Tiene una l\u00ednea apropiada para cada escenario posible y no con el objetivo de hacerte feliz, sino para manipularte y controlarte en el futuro.<\/p>\n

Now you’re wondering, what if he really wants to make you happy? Think again. Does he really want that or does he just want things done his way?<\/p>\n

Quiere que conozcas a sus padres de inmediato<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Does this seem logical to you? Is it normal for two people who just started dating to meet each other’s family and go to family dinners?<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que puedes considerarte afortunada si menciona tu nombre despu\u00e9s de la primera cita.<\/p>\n

Usually, when two people start dating, they take things slow and they don\u2019t want to scare the hell out of the person they are dating with mentionings of marrying or having kids.<\/p>\n

Esos temas est\u00e1n fuera de la mesa durante bastante tiempo.<\/p>\n

Parece demasiado bueno para ser verdad<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

My advice to you is to always go with your gut because your gut is not usually wrong. That little inner voice screaming on the inside\u2014LISTEN TO IT!<\/p>\n

Si sientes que toda tu situaci\u00f3n parece el gui\u00f3n de una pel\u00edcula, da un paso atr\u00e1s y ve m\u00e1s despacio.<\/p>\n

Ponlo bajo vigilancia y averigua cu\u00e1les son sus verdaderas intenciones.<\/p>\n

Las personas normales admiten sus defectos, no se averg\u00fcenzan de ellos, mientras que los bombarderos del amor, en cambio, hacen todo lo posible por ocultarlos.<\/p>\n

Te hace sentir s\u00faper especial<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You\u2019re being bombed by compliments on an everyday basis? Isn\u2019t that nice? NO, it\u2019s not! It\u2019s false and it\u2019s not normal.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to say something nice to someone every now and then but bombing them with compliments draws a cloud of suspicion on the whole thing.<\/p>\n

Parece que la persona se esfuerza demasiado, como si se muriera por convencerte de algo.<\/p>\n

Si sus h\u00e1bitos, como sus constantes halagos, molestan a los dem\u00e1s, probablemente no sean normales ni bonitos.<\/p>\n

Now that you know what people who love bomb do, be careful and don\u2019t let their dirty, manipulative tricks deceive you.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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