{"id":33131,"date":"2020-02-18T12:15:47","date_gmt":"2020-02-18T12:15:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33131"},"modified":"2022-01-21T12:35:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T12:35:44","slug":"hey-gilipollas-deja-de-aparecer-en-su-vida-cuando-es-conveniente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hey-gilipollas-deja-de-aparecer-en-su-vida-cuando-es-conveniente\/","title":{"rendered":"Oye, gilipollas, deja de aparecer en su vida cuando te conviene"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Durante a\u00f1os, esta chica ha estado intentando superarte de verdad.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s been doing everything in her power to continue living her life, as if you were never a part of it, and to make you nothing more than a part of her distant past.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, es algo que nunca ha conseguido.<\/p>\n<p>Some might even call her crazy for it\u2014after all, she\u2019s been hooked on one guy who obviously didn\u2019t love her back for years.<\/p>\n<p>However, what they don\u2019t know is how you\u2019ve been acting all those years. What nobody knows is that you\u2019ve always been the one who didn\u2019t allow this girl to get over you.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>I don\u2019t know if you have some special radar for this girl but the truth is that you always reappear in her life at the exact moment when she\u2019s ready to let you go, as if you feel that you are about to lose her for good. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Desapareces durante meses y en cuanto se acostumbra a tu ausencia y en cuanto por fin toma una decisi\u00f3n sobre dejarte marchar, reapareces.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Not only that\u2014<strong>you also drag her into this never-ending circle of her feelings toward you. On to an emotional roller coaster she can\u2019t seem to get off, as much as she tries to.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>The moment this girl starts feeling good about herself, the moment she gets over the fact that you\u2019ll never be the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/al-tipo-que-nunca-se-convertira-en-el-hombre-que-ella-necesita-que-sea\/\">hombre que ella necesita que seas<\/a> y en el momento en que por fin empieza a desenamorarse de ti es cuando apareces en su mundo, s\u00f3lo para estropearlo un poco m\u00e1s. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>En el momento en que su coraz\u00f3n empieza a sanar, apareces s\u00f3lo para romperlo una vez m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know why you are doing all of this; maybe you are scared of losing her love, the only thing you are certain about in your life, or you just enjoy playing games but either way, I am begging you\u2014stop.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve done more than enough to this girl and reappearing in her life whenever you feel like it just to upset her and to make her doubt her decision of letting you go is just making things worse.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you don\u2019t love her and never did. You just love being loved by her, you love the idea of someone as special as her taking care of you and you love knowing that you have someone who will never back out on you.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfO tal vez te encanta este control que obviamente tienes sobre esta chica?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQuiz\u00e1s tienes la necesidad de demostrarte a ti mismo que puedes tenerla cuando quieras porque es la \u00fanica manera de arreglar tu ego aplastado?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQuiz\u00e1 acudes a ella cuando todos los dem\u00e1s te abandonan, s\u00f3lo para escapar de la dura realidad de que nadie, aparte de ella, se preocupa sinceramente por ti?<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Either way, the point is the same\u2014you are a selfish asshole who is stringing this girl along. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Un idiota que piensa en ella como nada m\u00e1s que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-senales-de-que-solo-le-convienes-a-el\/\">c\u00f3modo<\/a> and a douchebag who is taking advantage of this girl\u2019s soft heart.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>However, this is not something you\u2019ll have the opportunity of doing for as long as you please because one of these days, she\u2019ll have had enough.<\/p>\n<p>One of these days, the door you are about to knock on will be forever closed and the number you\u2019ll dial will be out of reach.<\/p>\n<p>One of these days, you\u2019ll have absolutely no control over this girl whatsoever. She\u2019ll cut you off, as if you were never a part of her life and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estabas-bien-pero-no-quiero-que-vuelvas-a-mi-vida\/\">she\u2019ll never let you back in<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll stop justifying your shitty moves and making excuses for your toxic behavior. She\u2019ll stop giving you endless second chances and she\u2019ll kick you out of her system for good.<\/p>\n<p>No, she won\u2019t do it to prove her strength against you or to make you chase her more. She\u2019ll do it to break free from this on and off relationship that\u2019s been eating her alive for ages.<\/p>\n<p>When that happens, you\u2019ll see that you are the only one to blame. The moment this girl abandons you will be the moment in which you\u2019ll finally see what you had and what <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/por-eso-la-perdiste\/\">perdiste<\/a>. And you\u2019ll be sorry.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-33135\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T131340.297-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Oye, gilipollas, deja de aparecer en su vida cuando te conviene\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T131340.297-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T131340.297-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T131340.297.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For years, this girl has been trying to get over you for real. She\u2019s been doing everything in her power to continue living her life, as if you were never a part of it, and to make you nothing more than a part of her distant past. Nevertheless, this is something she has never succeeded&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33132,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33131","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sebastiaan-stam-711659-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33131","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33131"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33131\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33132"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33131"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33131"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33131"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}