{"id":33164,"date":"2020-05-19T11:39:55","date_gmt":"2020-05-19T11:39:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33164"},"modified":"2022-01-06T15:58:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-06T15:58:44","slug":"7-senales-de-que-no-le-amas-pero-amas-la-idea-de-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-de-que-no-le-amas-pero-amas-la-idea-de-el\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales de que no le amas - te encanta la idea de \u00e9l"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces pensaste te hab\u00edas enamorado<\/a>? \u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces tu coraz\u00f3n empez\u00f3 a latir m\u00e1s deprisa porque pensaste que por fin hab\u00edas encontrado al amor de tu vida?<\/p>\n

Muchas veces, lo s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

But the sad truth is that every time you felt like that, it really wasn\u2019t real love.<\/p>\n

You thought that you loved someone but as soon as bad things started to happen, you would realize that you didn\u2019t love him so much.<\/p>\n

In fact, sometimes you hated him and you couldn\u2019t stand his behavior.<\/p>\n

Entonces, la pregunta es: \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes saber con certeza si amas a alguien o s\u00f3lo la idea de esa persona?<\/p>\n

No te preocupes m\u00e1s porque hice una lista de las cosas que sentir\u00e1s S\u00d3LO cuando ames la idea de un hombre pero no si lo amas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You \u2018love\u2019 him because of his money<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Si cree que est\u00e1 enamorada de un hombre rico y de \u00e9xito, tendr\u00e1 que pens\u00e1rselo mejor.<\/p>\n

Would you still be with him if he didn\u2019t have all that money or success?<\/p>\n

Would you still be with him if he couldn\u2019t afford all those expensive gifts, travel or fast cars for you?<\/p>\n

\u00bfNo? Bueno, entonces lo que sientes por \u00e9l no es amor. De hecho, est\u00e1 lejos de ser amor. S\u00f3lo te gusta la idea que tienes de \u00e9l y de lo que puede proporcionarte.<\/p>\n

No es la primera persona a la que le dar\u00e1s buenas noticias<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando est\u00e9s enamorado, la persona amada ser\u00e1 la m\u00e1s importante de tu vida.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 a \u00e9l a quien llamen cuando reciban buenas y malas noticias tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

But if you don\u2019t have this kind of relationship with the guy you are dating, it means you don\u2019t love him. You just love the idea of him.<\/p>\n

Te encanta tener a alguien a quien llamar cuando te sientes sola porque es el \u00fanico momento en que piensas en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you \u2018love\u2019 him because you need him. And nothing more than that.<\/p>\n

No est\u00e1s segura de si es \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En un momento piensas que es el elegido, luego te sientas a pensar c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda tu futuro con \u00e9l y te das cuenta de que no es el hombre de tus sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t say what you actually feel about him even if you think you love him.<\/p>\n

Sientes que tu forma de tratarle depende de tu estado de \u00e1nimo y que un d\u00eda est\u00e1s ciegamente enamorada de \u00e9l y al siguiente quieres matarle.<\/p>\n

My dear, that is not love. You are not being honest with yourself in the first place and what you have with him simply won\u2019t last long.<\/p>\n

Te gustar\u00eda moldearlo para convertirlo en la persona perfecta para ti<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 dice eso?<\/p>\n

Si no est\u00e1s satisfecha con \u00e9l tal y como es y te encantar\u00eda moldearlo para convertirlo en otra persona, que es un signo probado<\/a> que en realidad no est\u00e1s enamorada de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Te encanta la idea de \u00e9l y eso es todo.<\/p>\n

Por desgracia, eso no es suficiente para algo m\u00e1s, as\u00ed que deber\u00edas pensarte dos veces si es el hombre con el que quieres pasar el resto de tu vida.<\/p>\n

If you \u2018love\u2019 him just when it benefits you and if you want him to change so you could love him completely, then he is surely not the man for you.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s con \u00e9l s\u00f3lo para evitar estar sola<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Si est\u00e1s con \u00e9l s\u00f3lo porque quieres evitar estar sola, eso no es amor.<\/p>\n

Si haces eso, s\u00f3lo est\u00e1s demostrando que le utilizas para sentirte segura.<\/p>\n

Because even if he is not the perfect one for you and even if you know it, you are still with him because you don\u2019t want to end up alone.<\/p>\n

Eso significa que no est\u00e1s con \u00e9l por las razones correctas, sino por las incorrectas.<\/p>\n

And if you continue like this, you won\u2019t be with him for long.<\/p>\n

Tarde o temprano te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que es mejor estar sola que mal acompa\u00f1ada y le dejar\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

No te interesa escuchar sus problemas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando se est\u00e1 enamorado, se escucha todo lo que la persona amada tiene que decir, sin importar si es malo o bueno.<\/p>\n

But if you just want to hear the good stories and have fun with him while you don\u2019t give a damn about his problems, then you are not actually in love.<\/p>\n

You simply like everything that he gives you but you don\u2019t want to give him anything in return.<\/p>\n

It means that you take care of yourself and you like when he takes care of you but you don\u2019t want to do the same for him.<\/p>\n

Sorry to burst your bubble but love shouldn\u2019t be like this.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t always feel good when you are with him<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando estamos enamorados, queremos pasar cada momento libre con la persona amada.<\/p>\n

But if you don\u2019t feel this way and if you don\u2019t always feel good with him, chances are that we are not talking about amor real aqu\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Seguramente te lo pasar\u00e1s como nunca cuando te compre regalos, te haga sentir especial llev\u00e1ndote a restaurantes de lujo o de viaje contigo.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l ser\u00e1 bueno para ti mientras t\u00fa te sientas bien con \u00e9l y eso nunca cambiar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

But real love is not all about those things. Real love would survive even if you two didn\u2019t have money so you stayed at home instead of going on a trip.<\/p>\n

Real love is when you accept your loved one the way he really is and when you don\u2019t want to change him. And everything else is just false shine.<\/p>\n

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