{"id":33186,"date":"2020-07-19T12:14:21","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T12:14:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33186"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:23:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:23:39","slug":"5-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-se-aleja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-se-aleja\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que hacer cuando \u00e9l se aleja"},"content":{"rendered":"

Te enamoras. Te sientes como en las nubes. Ya no piensas en tus problemas.<\/p>\n

Llevas puestas tus gafas de color de rosa y en lo \u00fanico que piensas es en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Then, in the blink of an eye, you start feeling something that you haven\u2019t felt before. You feel that your man isn\u2019t the as same as before and you can\u2019t shake off that ugly feeling.<\/p>\n

\u00bfLe suena? Pues esto es lo que ocurre en muchas relaciones y las mujeres de todo el mundo se morir\u00edan por escuchar un consejo que les ayudara a resolver este problema.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., si tu hombre<\/a> es uno de los que ha dejado de colmarte de atenciones y te sientes fatal por ello, esto es lo que puedes hacer:<\/p>\n

D\u00e9jalo solo por un tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Lo peor que puedes hacer es presionarle para que te cuente lo que le pasa.<\/p>\n

De ese modo, s\u00f3lo empeorar\u00e1s las cosas. En lugar de eso, d\u00e9jalo en paz. S\u00ed, me has o\u00eddo bien.<\/p>\n

Leave him alone so he can think about his life and the things he wants. Don\u2019t affect him in any way. Don\u2019t call him, don\u2019t text him and what is most important is to not see him if he is not ready for that.<\/p>\n

Una vez que haya pasado un tiempo a solas, estar\u00e1 seguro de si quiere estar contigo o si quiere continuar su vida sin ti.<\/p>\n

The thing is that you actually can\u2019t affect his decision so it is better if you leave him alone because he knows the best for himself.<\/p>\n

Cuando vuelva, act\u00faa como un amigo, no como un enemigo.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Es cierto que no eres culpable de las cosas que le pasan pero como su alma gemela, tienes que estar con \u00e9l en sus buenos momentos y tambi\u00e9n en los malos. Sobre todo en los malos.<\/p>\n

So, if something like this has happened to him, don\u2019t jump to conclusions but be smart about it.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t get anything if you talk to him like an enemy. Instead, talk to him like a friend and tell him that you understand that he was going through some crisis but that you wanted to help him as well.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed sabr\u00e1 que puede contar contigo la pr\u00f3xima vez que le ocurra algo malo.<\/p>\n

Once he gets back to \u2018normal mode\u2019, ask him why he did it<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Cuando tu chico decida que eres t\u00fa con quien quiere estar, tienes que preguntarle por qu\u00e9 lo ha hecho.<\/p>\n

Mereces conocer las respuestas y deber\u00edas obtenerlas. T\u00fa eres la que se qued\u00f3 sin saber por qu\u00e9 lo hizo y c\u00f3mo puedes ayudarle.<\/p>\n

Eres t\u00fa quien ha pasado noches en vela, mirando fijamente una pantalla vac\u00eda<\/a> and hoping he would call. I am not saying he didn\u2019t suffer but you suffered as well, especially since you didn\u2019t know what had happened.<\/p>\n

So, you have every right to ask him why he did it and why he didn\u2019t allow you to help him.<\/p>\n

If he loves you, he will be open about everything and if he tells you he doesn\u2019t want to talk about it, you should think twice about if you want to be with a man who can\u2019t trust you.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que tienes una vida aunque \u00e9l no est\u00e9.<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

If your man decided to pull away, that doesn\u2019t mean that you need to focus on him only.<\/p>\n

C\u00e9ntrate en ti misma y en tu vida, sobre todo si no est\u00e1s segura de si volver\u00e1 alg\u00fan d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t lose sleep over a man who doesn\u2019t want you to know anything about him. You can\u2019t help him if he doesn\u2019t allow you to do that. Be patient enough and live your life normally.<\/p>\n

Si vuelve, pod\u00e9is hablar de lo que pas\u00f3 con \u00e9l y decidir si hay futuro juntos. Todo problema puede resolverse si hay voluntad para ello.<\/p>\n

So, in the end, it is up to him whether he will come back or he won\u2019t and it is up to you whether you will cry yourself to sleep every night or you will live the life you will be proud of.<\/p>\n

Siempre ponte a ti primero, no importa cu\u00e1nto lo ames.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Es malo que tu hombre se aleje, pero eso no es motivo para que dejes de darle importancia a nada.<\/p>\n

Siempre debes anteponerte a ti misma, por mucho que le quieras.<\/p>\n

It is okay to help him if he wants it but being worried about someone who isn\u2019t sure about you is not a good idea.<\/p>\n

You will just end up being hurt in that way and, trust me, you don\u2019t want that to happen.<\/p>\n

Si tiene problemas, intenta estar con \u00e9l si te deja. Al hacerlo, le est\u00e1s demostrando que le quieres y que siempre puede contar contigo.<\/p>\n

Pero si va a hacer esto de vez en cuando, you shouldn\u2019t put up with it<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00edas cuidar de ti misma cuando no es \u00e9l quien lo hace.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa debes ser la raz\u00f3n de tu propia felicidad y no \u00e9l. S\u00f3lo cuando te des cuenta de esto, ser\u00e1s verdaderamente feliz.<\/p>\n

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