{"id":33208,"date":"2019-02-19T13:34:38","date_gmt":"2019-02-19T13:34:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33208"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:56:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:56:16","slug":"4-cosas-que-no-debes-hacer-si-no-quieres-que-tu-relacion-termine-antes-de-empezar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-cosas-que-no-debes-hacer-si-no-quieres-que-tu-relacion-termine-antes-de-empezar\/","title":{"rendered":"4 cosas que no debes hacer si no quieres que tu relaci\u00f3n termine antes de empezar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lo sepa o no, los primeros meses de una nueva relaci\u00f3n suelen ser cruciales para su existencia posterior.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s de ser la fase de la luna de miel, tambi\u00e9n es el momento en el que est\u00e1s conociendo a tu pareja y el periodo en el que ambos establec\u00e9is algunas normas b\u00e1sicas a seguir en el futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, tambi\u00e9n es el momento en el que muchas parejas cometen accidentalmente algunos errores de novato que, por desgracia, hacen que su relaci\u00f3n termine antes incluso de empezar.<\/p>\n<p>That is why we are here to tell you everything there is to know about the things you shouldn\u2019t even think of doing if you want to avoid something like this from happening.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Perder su individualidad<\/h2>\n<p>Cuando est\u00e1s reci\u00e9n enamorado, de repente, todo tu mundo empieza a girar en torno a tu nuevo amor.<\/p>\n<p>Este tipo se convierte en lo \u00fanico en lo que puedes pensar y en el \u00fanico tema de todas tus conversaciones.<\/p>\n<p>Obviamente, quieres gustarle m\u00e1s y que te conviertas en <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/horoscope\/this-is-his-dream-girl-based-on-his-zodiac-sign\/\">la chica de sus sue\u00f1os<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, uno de los mayores errores que se pueden cometer al iniciar una nueva relaci\u00f3n es perderse a uno mismo y el sentido de la individualidad.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca debes cambiarte a ti mismo por el bien de los dem\u00e1s, ni siquiera por la persona de la que est\u00e1s enamorado.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda que este chico se ha enamorado de ti tal y como eres y convertirte en otra persona le har\u00e1 pensar que tu car\u00e1cter es d\u00e9bil.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, if things don\u2019t happen to succeed with him, you are the one who still has to live with yourself.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Ser demasiado pegajoso<\/h2>\n<p>No importa lo loca que est\u00e9s por alguien, mostrarle a un chico que est\u00e1s desesperada por ganarte su amor es una de las cosas que debes evitar a toda costa porque al hacerlo, s\u00f3lo le est\u00e1s dando luz verde para que te haga da\u00f1o en el futuro.<\/p>\n<p>I am not saying that you ought to play hard to get or that you aren\u2019t allowed to show your emotions\u2014just make sure not to act too needy because that is a huge turn-off for almost all men.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that you\u2019ve just entered this guy\u2019s life and you can\u2019t and shouldn\u2019t expect for him to completely disregard his past life and to dedicate all of his time and energy to a girl who recently showed up.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, aseg\u00farate de darle suficiente espacio personal porque ese es el camino para que te quiera m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Bajar el list\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p>Antes de entrar en una nueva relaci\u00f3n, todos tenemos algunas expectativas y problemas, y t\u00fa no eres una excepci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you need to be realistic and aware of the fact that you probably won\u2019t find someone who is perfect, that doesn\u2019t mean that you should be lowering your standards for a guy and settling for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Sooner or later, you\u2019ll find yourself wanting to change this man and his qualities you didn\u2019t like from the start.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll find yourself regretting accepting some things you shouldn\u2019t have and that can only bring unnecessary resentment and grudges.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/6-razones-por-las-que-las-mejores-mujeres-son-exigentes-con-los-hombres\/\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">demasiado exigente<\/span><\/a> when it comes to men but if a guy doesn\u2019t have what you are looking for in a man, walk away from him in time before it becomes too late to do anything and save yourself a lot of headaches and heartache.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Llevar <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/asi-es-como-dejaras-que-tu-carga-emocional-arruine-tu-proxima-relacion\/\">carga emocional<\/a><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It is natural that you\u2019ve had relationships before this one. You\u2019ve loved and been loved and hurt and there is nothing wrong with that.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, antes de involucrarte en una nueva relaci\u00f3n, debes asegurarte de cortar completamente los lazos con tu pasado.<\/p>\n<p>Es injusto utilizar a alguien como rebote o permitir que tu carga emocional del pasado destruya tu nueva relaci\u00f3n, que tal vez ten\u00eda el potencial de convertirse en algo real.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda que siempre es mejor seguir soltero hasta que aclares las cosas contigo mismo respecto a tu pasado que darle largas a alguien.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, carrying emotional baggage or pretending that it doesn\u2019t exist will bring you harm as well because it won\u2019t make your pain from the past disappear\u2014it will only make it bigger.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-33216\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-19T143144.422-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"4 cosas que no debes hacer si no quieres que tu relaci\u00f3n termine antes de empezar\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-19T143144.422-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-19T143144.422-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-19T143144.422.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whether you know it or not, the first few months of a new relationship are usually crucial for its further existence. Besides being the honeymoon phase, this is also the time when you are getting to know your partner and the period when the two of you set some ground rules to follow in the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":33209,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33208","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/aircraft-airplane-aviation-792385-1.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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