{"id":33221,"date":"2020-10-19T13:52:32","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T13:52:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33221"},"modified":"2022-02-23T10:57:51","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T10:57:51","slug":"5-cosas-con-las-que-se-identifican-todas-las-chicas-que-ocultan-su-dolor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-con-las-que-se-identifican-todas-las-chicas-que-ocultan-su-dolor\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas con las que se identifican todas las chicas que ocultan su dolor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>They say that the strongest souls suffer in silence. They are the ones who don\u2019t want to burden others with their problems and the ones who go through life by themselves.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-la-chica-que-nunca-pide-ayuda\/\">Los que nunca piden ayuda<\/a> y los que suelen parecer m\u00e1s felices por fuera cuando en realidad se est\u00e1n desmoronando.<\/p>\n<p>Si estas son las cosas que puedes conectar contigo mismo, significa que est\u00e1s en el lugar correcto porque est\u00e1s a punto de leer 5 cosas con las que casi todo el mundo que oculta su dolor a los dem\u00e1s puede sentirse identificado.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A veces, incluso te ocultas tus sentimientos a ti mismo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123260\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer mirando hacia otro lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Woman-looking-away56-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve worn the mask of a tough girl for so long that somehow it became a part of who you are.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve been pretending to be heartless for so long that eventually, you forgot you have a heart at all.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve been lying to people that you are OK for so long that you\u2019ve started believing it as well, even though deep down, you know it couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that there are times when your pain reaches such huge intensity that you can\u2019t even stand facing it yourself, let alone sharing it with someone else.<\/p>\n<p>Even though that is something you shouldn\u2019t be doing, with time you\u2019ve learned that the only thing that brings you at least temporary relief is pretending that the suffering you are feeling is non-existent.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tienes miedo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123261\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con elegantes gafas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-wearing-stylish-eyeglasses-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Aunque es lo \u00faltimo que admitir\u00edas incluso ante ti mismo, lo cierto es que en el fondo est\u00e1s asustado hasta los huesos.<\/p>\n<p>You keep wondering how much you\u2019ll be able to take and for how long.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes miedo de que te rompan el coraz\u00f3n una vez m\u00e1s y volver a pasar por el mismo dolor emocional.<\/p>\n<p>Miedo de dejar entrar a gente nueva y miedo de hacer juicios y tomar decisiones equivocadas.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, you are also scared of someone coming and tearing down the walls you\u2019ve been building so carefully.<\/p>\n<p>Miedo a estar emocional y mentalmente desnudo delante de otra persona, sea quien sea.<\/p>\n<p>Miedo a exponer tus vulnerabilidades y mostrar tu lado d\u00e9bil a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">T\u00fa eres tu propio h\u00e9roe<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123258\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach.jpg\" alt=\"chica triste sentada en la costa en la playa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-girl-sitting-on-the-coast-on-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ocultar tu dolor al resto del mundo te hizo esperar menos de la gente.<\/p>\n<p>It made you believe that there doesn\u2019t exist a person in your life whom you can always count on or someone you can rely on one hundred percent.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, tomaste el asunto en tus manos y te convertiste en tu propio h\u00e9roe. Te convertiste en tu propio salvador, viento bajo tus alas, fan n\u00famero uno y \u00e1ngel de la guarda.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve realized that nobody has the ability to get inside your head with a magic wand which will resolve all of your problems in an instant.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fa eres la que tiene que luchar sus propias batallas y hacer todo lo posible por perseguir sus propios demonios antes de esperar que otro lo haga.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Esperas romperte todos los d\u00edas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123263\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer mirando hacia la ventana sentada en el sof\u00e1 de su casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-looking-away-at-window-sitting-on-couch-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you come to think of it, lately, it\u2019s been like you are losing faith in yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You keep expecting to shatter into a million pieces and you see every new day that comes as the day in which you\u2019ll reach your breaking point\u2014as the day in which <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-cosas-que-echaras-de-menos-de-ella-cuando-se-harte\/\">you\u2019ll have had enough<\/a><\/span> and as the day in which you\u2019ll break beyond the possibility of reparation.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pero sigues adelante porque eres m\u00e1s fuerte que eso.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123259\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de negocios sentada en el asiento trasero de un coche \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/businesswoman-sitting-on-back-seat-of-a-car-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, de alguna manera, nada de esto sucede. De alg\u00fan modo, siempre lo consigues y siempre encuentras la manera de resurgir de las cenizas de tu coraz\u00f3n roto.<\/p>\n<p>De una forma u otra, siempre sigues adelante, a pesar de todo el dolor que experimentas.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSabes por qu\u00e9? Porque eres mucho m\u00e1s fuerte de lo que puedas imaginar. T\u00fa mismo ni siquiera eres consciente de todo el poder que llevas dentro.<\/p>\n<p>You are obviously not aware of the fact that you are actually a badass who always comes out as a winner in all life battles. And the biggest proof of this is the fact that you still haven\u2019t given up on yourself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123255\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/5-Things-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Hiding-Her-Pain-Can-Relate-To-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 cosas con las que se identifican todas las chicas que ocultan su dolor\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/5-Things-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Hiding-Her-Pain-Can-Relate-To-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/5-Things-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Hiding-Her-Pain-Can-Relate-To-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/5-Things-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Hiding-Her-Pain-Can-Relate-To-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They say that the strongest souls suffer in silence. They are the ones who don\u2019t want to burden others with their problems and the ones who go through life by themselves. The ones who never ask for help and the ones who usually appear to be the happiest on the outside while they are actually&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":123262,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33221","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/5-Things-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Hiding-Her-Pain-Can-Relate-To-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33221","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33221"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33221\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123262"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33221"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33221"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33221"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}