Cuando cooparentes con un narcisista, ten en cuenta que utilizar el m\u00e9todo de la roca gris ser\u00e1 un poco complicado.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\nDar\u00e1 sus opiniones sobre los ni\u00f1os, y ser\u00e1 dif\u00edcil no quedar atrapado en la pelea porque digas lo que digas, \u00e9l tendr\u00e1 la opini\u00f3n contraria.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s going to be really hard, but don\u2019t get caught up in self-defense!<\/p>\n
La verdad es que los narcisistas no tienen opiniones reales sobre nada. Quieren decir lo contrario de lo que t\u00fa dices por el mero hecho de estar en desacuerdo.<\/p>\n
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Recuerda mantener siempre la calma y no mostrarle nunca tus emociones.<\/p>\n
No importa lo que diga o haga, simplemente act\u00faa como si no estuvieras molesto, \u00a1y act\u00faa como si fueras totalmente indiferente!<\/p>\n
Es perfectamente normal que est\u00e9s enfadada y que quieras discutir con \u00e9l, pero no sirve de nada hacerlo.<\/p>\n
Si ve que te hace enfadar con sus opiniones, es m\u00e1s que probable que lo disfrute. Y, una vez m\u00e1s, ser\u00e1 \u00e9l quien gane.<\/p>\n
Adem\u00e1s, quedar\u00e1s como el loco delante de tus hijos.<\/p>\n
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Tus hijos no deben verte discutir delante de tu narcisista porque puede convertirlo f\u00e1cilmente en su ventaja.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\nNo puedes dejar que el narcisista ponga a tus hijos en tu contra. Lo primero que tienes que hacer es hablar sinceramente con ellos.<\/p>\n
Tienes que ser honesta y decirles a tus hijos que t\u00fa y tu narcisista no os llev\u00e1is bien, pero que ambos intent\u00e1is hacer lo necesario para que sean felices.<\/p>\n
La segunda cosa importante es que tu vida personal no debe salir a relucir cuando hables con tu narcisista sobre los ni\u00f1os.<\/p>\n
Nunca jam\u00e1s debes compartir informaci\u00f3n sobre tu vida personal con \u00e9l. Compartir es un l\u00edmite. Si compartes algo, lo utilizar\u00e1 en tu contra.<\/p>\n
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He does not need to know what happens in your private life. If you share you\u2019re happy about something, he will make you feel like shit.<\/p>\n
Si le dices que est\u00e1s triste, te har\u00e1 sentir a\u00fan m\u00e1s miserable. Les encanta hacer esto. Son maestros de la manipulaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n
Una vez que tu narcisista se d\u00e9 cuenta de que no puede traspasar tus l\u00edmites, se enfadar\u00e1 y se pondr\u00e1 furioso.<\/p>\n
Pero cada vez que estableces un l\u00edmite y lo haces cumplir, te haces m\u00e1s fuerte. Ganas m\u00e1s confianza en ti mismo y m\u00e1s respeto por ti mismo.<\/p>\n
Y otra cosa importante: dar\u00e1s un ejemplo sano a tus hijos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n![\"madre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-mother-hugging-her-daughter.jpg\")
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Aprender\u00e1n a poner l\u00edmites sanos desde el principio de sus vidas.<\/p>\n
The most important part of it, you will become like a grey rock\u2014plain and boring. And that\u2019s when your narcissist will leave you alone.<\/p>\n
Empezar\u00e1 a buscar una nueva v\u00edctima, alguien que le alimente con la energ\u00eda que decidiste negarle.<\/p>\n
It takes a lot of hard work to master the art of grey rocking. But once you\u2019ve mastered it, it\u2019ll be totally worth your while.<\/p>\n
Your narcissist will have to honor the legal agreement of shared custody\u2014and you will be seeing him a lot. But with the method you\u2019ve mastered, he stands no chance.<\/p>\n
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