{"id":33243,"date":"2020-10-20T08:08:14","date_gmt":"2020-10-20T08:08:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33243"},"modified":"2022-03-22T01:57:06","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T01:57:06","slug":"10-magnificas-replicas-para-detener-al-maestro-de-la-manipulacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-magnificas-replicas-para-detener-al-maestro-de-la-manipulacion\/","title":{"rendered":"10 magn\u00edficas r\u00e9plicas para detener al maestro manipulador"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cu\u00e1ntas veces he querido que te callaras. Cu\u00e1ntas veces he querido gritarte que dejaras de lavarme el cerebro con tus asquerosas palabras hirientes.<\/p>\n

Nunca pude. Me qued\u00e9 ah\u00ed delante de ti, congelado, incapaz de mover un m\u00fasculo, incapaz de hablar para defenderme.<\/p>\n

That is what years of your manipulation did to me. That\u2019s how you managed to have complete control over me.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que pele\u00e1bamos, volv\u00eda a pasar lo mismo.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa gritando por toda la casa, rompiendo cosas, y yo sentada, mirando en una direcci\u00f3n, esperando a que pares.<\/p>\n

Even when you forced me to give you answers and talk to you, you wouldn\u2019t let me.<\/p>\n

I would start, a few words would come out of my mouth unwillingly, and then you\u2019d cut me off. Then, you\u2019d shame me even more.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, viv\u00ed con un manipulador<\/a>. I\u2019m not ashamed of it anymore, not now that it\u2019s all over.<\/em><\/p>\n

These people are everywhere. You can\u2019t avoid them. You can\u2019t recognize them. That\u2019s the whole point.<\/p>\n

Si supieras desde el principio que alguien cercano a ti en realidad te manipula, \u00bfhabr\u00edas seguido con esa persona?<\/p>\n

No, sadly, you only realize when it\u2019s too late. You realize you\u2019ve been manipulated instead of loved only when you hit rock bottom.<\/p>\n

Los manipuladores saben qu\u00e9 decir<\/a> para mantenerte callado y enga\u00f1arte para que sientas l\u00e1stima por ellos. Todo lo que dicen siempre tiene una agenda oculta.<\/p>\n

Son capaces de manipular tus emociones para llevarte a tu punto m\u00e1s vulnerable.<\/p>\n

In that state you\u2019re the easiest to manipulate and control.<\/p>\n

La mejor soluci\u00f3n para lidiar con un manipulador es apartarlo completamente de tu vida e ignorar su presencia, pero, por desgracia, no todos podemos permitirnos el lujo de hacerlo.<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t have a choice and for some reason, you have to stay in touch with your manipulator, here are a few comebacks you should use whenever you feel threatened:<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cNO!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Aprende a ser asertivo. Aprende a adoptar una postura. Hay muchos libros de autoayuda que pueden servir.<\/p>\n

La cuesti\u00f3n es que tienes que aprender a creer en ti mismo y controlar tus sentimientos te vendr\u00e1 muy bien.<\/p>\n

Tu autoestima est\u00e1 casi por los suelos a causa de sus constantes humillaciones.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t believe in yourself, and it makes you insecure. What you need to do is to break free from that emotional prison he put you in.<\/p>\n

Say \u2018no\u2019 to him. Don\u2019t be afraid because nothing bad will happen, and for the love of God, don\u2019t fall for his tricks because while you\u2019re fighting against him, he will try to make you feel sorry for him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s his tactic to get you back out of pity.<\/p>\n

\u201cThis time I\u2019m going to choose myself.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to make such a change in your life, but for your own good, be brave enough and make the first step toward accepting and loving yourself for who you are.<\/p>\n

Tienes que darte cuenta de que no eres t\u00fa quien estropea las cosas. No eres el malo, y nunca debes definirte as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 deber\u00edas sufrir porque otra persona tiene el alma corrompida?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel sorry for people like that. Get away from them as soon and as far as possible.<\/p>\n

Porque, si intentas ayudarles, s\u00f3lo van a hacerte da\u00f1o. En realidad, cuentan con que les ayudes, para poder traicionarte y, una vez m\u00e1s, conseguir lo que quieren.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou don\u2019t get to tell me what I can and cannot do!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give up on yourself. You\u2019re not meant to be in this world to be someone\u2019s doormat.<\/p>\n

Hay planes mucho mejores para ti, as\u00ed que nadie tiene derecho a controlarte. Hazle consciente de ello tomando partido.<\/p>\n

Los manipuladores se aprovechan de las personas d\u00e9biles porque son las m\u00e1s f\u00e1ciles de controlar.<\/p>\n

If you talk back to him and show him through your words and actions that you\u2019re not weak, he won\u2019t be able to touch you.<\/p>\n

\u201cYour words mean nothing to me!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

When a manipulator has a feeling that you\u2019re slipping away from his grip, that you\u2019re no longer under his control, he will try hard to lure you back in.<\/p>\n

Se esforzar\u00e1 por hacer todo tipo de promesas, diciendo las mismas cosas que usted quiere o\u00edr.<\/p>\n

Cambiar\u00e1 de actitud s\u00f3lo para enga\u00f1arte y que conf\u00edes en su repentino cambio de opini\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m busy now. We can talk some other time.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Make sure he knows you\u2019re not available to him every time it suits him.<\/p>\n

Make him see that you have a will of your own, a free will and you\u2019re able to make your own decisions without anyone interfering.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t feel like talking to him right now, he has no right or the power to make you. Make sure he knows that.<\/p>\n

\u201cStep away from me.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Los manipuladores utilizan la intimidaci\u00f3n como su arma m\u00e1s poderosa. La utilizan cuando todos los dem\u00e1s juegos mentales<\/a><\/span> fail. It\u2019s their last resort.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re in the middle of a fight and they don\u2019t see a way of winning, they will walk into your personal space with the intention of scaring you.<\/p>\n

Most victims can\u2019t handle that kind of emotional pressure, so they fold and allow the abusers to get complete control.<\/p>\n

Let your abuser know that you can\u2019t be intimidated.<\/p>\n

Even though you\u2019re scared as hell, don\u2019t let that fear show because fear is only making him stronger and more aggressive.<\/p>\n

\u201cI feel so sorry for you.\u201d (read: sarcasm)<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Para conseguir lo que quieren, los manipuladores intentar\u00e1n provocarte simpat\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Intentar\u00e1n venderte alguna historia pat\u00e9tica, para que sientas l\u00e1stima por ellos y hagas las cosas a su manera.<\/p>\n

Don’t let them manipulate your emotional state like this. Show them that this time you mean it. This time you\u2019re serious.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe\u2019ll talk when you calm down.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Quieren que reacciones antes de pensar. Quieren que pienses emocionalmente y no racionalmente, para que digas lo primero que se te ocurra y lo utilicen en tu contra.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fall into that trap, and avoid talking to him during a high emotional state.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m a person worthy of respect and love.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Manipulators are counting on you feeling worthless. They need you to feel like you are a nobody, so it\u2019s easier for them to control you.<\/p>\n

By showing and saying to him that you are as important as anyone else in this world, that you deserve respect and love, you\u2019re automatically ruining his plans, and you\u2019ll make him powerless against you.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m not letting you get inside my mind.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"rom\u00e1ntica<\/p>\n

Los manipuladores son los mejores para cruzar todos los l\u00edmites posibles que establezcas porque creen que pueden hacerlo.<\/p>\n

And if you let them, you\u2019re only encouraging them to continue doing whatever the hell they want without any respect for anyone around them.<\/p>\n

Si les haces saber que te niegas a que te intimiden y te maltraten, retroceder\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

Remember this one thing\u2014as long as you\u2019re dancing to the music he\u2019s playing, you won\u2019t be able to get away from his manipulative grip.<\/p>\n

Take a stand and make a change in your life. Don\u2019t be afraid of anyone.<\/p>\n

\"10<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

How many times have I wanted you to shut up. How many time have I wanted to scream at you to stop brainwashing me with your disgusting hurtful words. I never could. I just stood there in front of you, frozen, unable to move a muscle, unable to speak to defend myself. That is what…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":123185,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33243","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/10-Magnificent-Comebacks-To-Stop-The-Master-Manipulator-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33243","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33243"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33243\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123185"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33243"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33243"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33243"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}