{"id":33268,"date":"2020-06-20T09:47:37","date_gmt":"2020-06-20T09:47:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33268"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:59:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:59:07","slug":"si-realmente-te-amara-se-aseguraria-de-que-lo-supieras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-realmente-te-amara-se-aseguraria-de-que-lo-supieras\/","title":{"rendered":"Si realmente te amara, se asegurar\u00eda de que lo supieras."},"content":{"rendered":"

El amor no es complicado. Cuando quieres de verdad a alguien, te sale de forma natural demostrar tus sentimientos y luchar por \u00e9l pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

It comes to you naturally to make them your priority because you can\u2019t imagine your life without them.<\/p>\n

But, when you don\u2019t love someone, you do the exact opposite. You treat them however you want because you don\u2019t care how they\u2019ll feel.<\/p>\n

You let them wait because you don\u2019t care about their time.<\/p>\n

So, let\u2019s get one thing straight: \u00a1Si realmente te amara, se asegurar\u00eda de que lo supieras!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Yup. It\u2019s that simple. If he really loved you, he would never make you question his intentions in the first place or make you overthink even the smallest of things.<\/p>\n

If he really loved you, he would not just say it – he would prove it to you.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s the biggest difference between real and fake love.<\/p>\n

When you love someone, you don\u2019t wait a second to tell them how much you appreciate their existence and everything they do for you.<\/p>\n

When you love someone, you don\u2019t wait a second to show it to them with your gestures and not only words.<\/p>\n

Si te quisiera de verdad, luchar\u00eda con todas sus fuerzas para no perderte.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Cuando crees en algo, luchas con todo tu coraz\u00f3n y toda tu alma para conseguirlo.<\/p>\n

Si te quisiera de verdad, encontrar\u00eda la forma de hacerte sentir especial y conquistarte. Y encontrar\u00eda la manera de retenerte.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t you dare imagine things or finding excuses for his behavior, thinking that you\u2019re the one to blame! You were there for him, but he didn\u2019t want to see it or appreciate it. He wasn\u2019t ready for love because he was incapable of loving. He never loved you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Y tampoco estabas enamorada de \u00e9l. Estabas enamorada de la idea de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

You hoped that he will change, and he will start noticing your efforts, but he didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

You hoped that one day you\u2019ll wake up, and he will be there next to you, holding a flower in his hand, waiting to put it in your hair.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00a1nunca lo hizo! \u00bfY sabes por qu\u00e9? Porque nunca te am\u00f3.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to accept, but it\u2019s the only way to lib\u00e9rate<\/a><\/span> from the limbo you\u2019re in.<\/p>\n

Esperabas que te mostrara lo que es el verdadero amor, pero en lugar de eso, s\u00f3lo fue capaz de mostrarte lo que no es el amor.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s not your fault for believing that something will change. You did the right thing. You waited, but he never came to his senses. You were there, but he never bothered reciprocating. He was feasting on your pure love while giving you crumbs of his toxic one.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

And now it\u2019s time to let go of it! It\u2019s time to let go of the idea that he ever loved you or that he would ever be capable of it because he isn\u2019t, and he\u2019ll never be.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY sabes por qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

Because he doesn\u2019t understand how it feels to love someone and watch them spit in your face.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t understand how it feels to treat someone as your priority when you know that to them, you\u2019re just an option.<\/p>\n

Si te quisiera de verdad, entender\u00eda todo eso y m\u00e1s. Si realmente te quer\u00eda<\/a><\/span>nunca te har\u00eda llorar ni te har\u00eda maldecir el d\u00eda que lo conociste.<\/p>\n

If he really loved you, he would make damn sure to knock on your door and wait hours if needed, only to say that he\u2019s sorry for everything he\u2019s done and express his utter love for you.<\/p>\n

But, he didn\u2019t do it. He didn\u2019t do it because he didn\u2019t care whether you\u2019re feeling loved or not. He was only thinking about himself and his wishes. And now it is time for you to think about yourself!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for you to start focusing on your own happiness and not only on the happiness of those who didn\u2019t deserve your attention.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for you to accept the fact that he was never meant to stay because he was simply incapable of loving you, and all of this was just a test for you, preparing you for something bigger, greater.<\/p>\n

Your bad choices don\u2019t make you who you are! They enrich your life and teach you valuable lessons, but they never make you who you are.<\/p>\n

Eres una mujer hermosa y fuerte que ha pasado por mucho y que se merece un trato mucho mejor que el que te estabas conformando.<\/p>\n

Te conformabas con menos a pesar de merecer la luna y las estrellas.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Aceptabas mentiras aunque merec\u00edas la pura verdad.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Le diste tu coraz\u00f3n aunque sab\u00edas que acabar\u00eda rompi\u00e9ndolo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

And now it\u2019s time to do everything in reverse. It\u2019s time to stop dwelling upon your past because nothing will ever change.<\/p>\n

Tu vida s\u00f3lo cambiar\u00e1 cuando t\u00fa lo decidas.<\/p>\n

Cambiar\u00e1 cuando empieces a aceptar s\u00f3lo las cosas m\u00e1s bellas de la vida.<\/p>\n

Cambiar\u00e1 cuando empieces a aceptar el amor que te inspira en lugar del mediocre. Empieza a cambiarlo. \u00a1S\u00e9 el cambio!\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Love is not complicated. When you really love someone, it comes to you naturally to show your feelings and fight for them no matter what. It comes to you naturally to make them your priority because you can\u2019t imagine your life without them. But, when you don\u2019t love someone, you do the exact opposite. You…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":33275,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29650],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33268","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-girl-code"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29650,"label":"girl code"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/apartment-contemporary-couch-269155-1.jpg",800,571,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Inna Williams","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/inna\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29650,"name":"girl code","slug":"girl-code","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29650,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Only girls will understand these unedited truths about men and girl code rules. Join us at the girl cave, where no guy is allowed to enter.","parent":29643,"count":41,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29650,"category_count":41,"category_description":"Only girls will understand these unedited truths about men and girl code rules. Join us at the girl cave, where no guy is allowed to enter.","cat_name":"girl code","category_nicename":"girl-code","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33268","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/34"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33268"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33268\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33275"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33268"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33268"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33268"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}