{"id":33290,"date":"2020-09-20T10:28:18","date_gmt":"2020-09-20T10:28:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33290"},"modified":"2022-01-14T11:28:27","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T11:28:27","slug":"las-chicas-intentan-cambiar-a-los-hombres-las-mujeres-solo-cambian-de-direccion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/las-chicas-intentan-cambiar-a-los-hombres-las-mujeres-solo-cambian-de-direccion\/","title":{"rendered":"Las chicas intentan cambiar a los hombres, las mujeres s\u00f3lo cambian de direcci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hay muchas diferencias entre una ni\u00f1a y una mujer.<\/p>\n<p>One of them lies in the fact that when a girl loves a guy, she\u2019ll do everything in her power to make him better and to transform him into the man of her dreams.<\/p>\n<p>Somehow, she\u2019ll always find a way to justify his behavior and excuse him so she can keep on loving him.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll keep on giving him endless second chances, all in the hope that he\u2019ll finally become the man of her dreams.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, eventually, after wasting years on a guy who can\u2019t be repaired, this girl sees that all of her efforts were in vain.<\/p>\n<p>Se da cuenta de que fue una tonta por esperar un cambio que nunca llegar\u00eda y finalmente se da por vencida con este hombre, con el coraz\u00f3n destrozado en pedazos.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, real women don\u2019t do this. They know what they want and don\u2019t plan on lowering their standards for anyone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118269 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man.jpg\" alt=\"la rubia deja al hombre triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-blonde-leaves-the-sad-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un verdadero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/la-mujer-fuerte-se-aleja\/\">la mujer se aleja<\/a> the moment she isn\u2019t treated right or the moment she realizes her relationship with someone doesn\u2019t have a future.<\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t ready to spend years of her life next to a man who she knows is wrong for her and she\u2019ll always remain single until the right one comes along.<\/p>\n<p>Ver\u00e1s, el \u00fanico ni\u00f1o que tendr\u00e1 el privilegio de ser criado por esta mujer es su hijo.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll never waste years of her life trying to transform some immature guy into the grown ass man he should be by himself, simply because she knows something like this is not her duty.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Sabe que no debe pensar que es su trabajo guiarle por la vida o ser su \u00e1ngel de la guarda con la misi\u00f3n de salvarle. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Sabe que no es su deber ser tu mam\u00e1 o arreglar lo que otras chicas de tu pasado han roto. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>No es su obligaci\u00f3n ense\u00f1arte a vivir, ayudarte a aprender la diferencia entre el bien y el mal o convertirte en algo que obviamente no eres y no eres consciente de que deber\u00edas ser.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118274 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house.jpg\" alt=\"una pareja de enamorados discutiendo en casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-loving-couple-arguing-in-the-house-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this in no way means that a woman like this treats her partner like she couldn\u2019t care less about him.<\/p>\n<p>No, ella te dar\u00e1 todo el apoyo que necesites, te empujar\u00e1 hacia adelante y ser\u00e1 el viento bajo tus alas si ve que eres digno de sus esfuerzos y que eres un hombre que la merece.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, lo \u00faltimo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/razones-por-las-que-eres-desgraciado-en-el-amor\/\">she\u2019ll do is fall for your potential.<\/a> She won\u2019t love all the qualities you might have and she most certainly won\u2019t fall in love with the man you might become.<\/p>\n<p>You see, she worked hard to become the woman she is today. She is a finished product and she won\u2019t settle for a man who is any less than that.<\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00faltimo que piensa hacer esta mujer es malgastar su energ\u00eda en modificarte.<\/p>\n<p>Sabe que valora mucho m\u00e1s que dedicar toda su vida a un tipo que necesita que la gu\u00ede por la vida.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019ll look for a relationship in which both of you can improve and help each other become better.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118276 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"una pareja feliz y cari\u00f1osa divirti\u00e9ndose en la naturaleza\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-happy-loving-couple-having-fun-in-nature-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What she wants and needs is an equal partner\u2014a man who will have the capacity to give her back all he\u2019s getting from her.<\/p>\n<p>Un hombre que tendr\u00e1 la fuerza para ir por la vida hombro con hombro con ella, un compa\u00f1ero de equipo y un socio en el crimen.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>As\u00ed que, si esperas que una mujer como ella espere pacientemente a que te conviertas en el hombre que necesita, pi\u00e9nsatelo otra vez.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong> If you expect her to wait for you to come to your senses and get your shit together, walk away in time because trust me\u2014you don\u2019t stand a chance with her.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Cuidado con el hecho de que esta mujer sabe que su <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/tu-amor-no-puede-cambiar-a-un-hombre-hasta-que-el-mismo-decida-hacerlo\/\">love can\u2019t change a man<\/a> until he decides to do so himself so she won\u2019t even try doing it.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019d rather focus all of her energy into working on herself and becoming the best possible version of herself.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of loving someone unworthy of her love, she\u2019d rather love herself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118277 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Las chicas intentan cambiar a los hombres, las mujeres s\u00f3lo cambian de direcci\u00f3n\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are many differences between a girl and a woman. One of them lies in the fact that when a girl loves a guy, she\u2019ll do everything in her power to make him better and to transform him into the man of her dreams. Somehow, she\u2019ll always find a way to justify his behavior and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":118268,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33290","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Girls-Try-To-Change-Men-Women-Just-Change-Direction-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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