{"id":33301,"date":"2019-02-20T10:39:34","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T10:39:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33301"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:10:17","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:10:17","slug":"si-fuera-el-adecuado-se-habria-quedado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-fuera-el-adecuado-se-habria-quedado\/","title":{"rendered":"Si fuera el adecuado, se habr\u00eda quedado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve been someone who believed in love. You\u2019ve been a girl who was looking for real romance and a happy ending in all of your relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca te interes\u00f3 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-le-hagas-perder-el-tiempo-si-buscas-algo-temporal\/\">algo temporal<\/a> y nunca buscaste a un hombre s\u00f3lo para pasar un buen rato.<\/p>\n<p>Las aventuras sin sentido y los ligues casuales no eran lo tuyo.<\/p>\n<p>En cambio, todo lo que quer\u00edas era encontrar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-correcta-te-amara-por-todas-las-cosas-por-las-que-te-dejo-la-equivocada\/\">el hombre adecuado<\/a> for you, your soulmate and the man you\u2019d grow old with.<\/p>\n<p>No, you weren\u2019t too picky and you didn\u2019t want a Mr. Perfect\u2014you just wanted simple things\u2014someone to get you, someone to try around you and someone to love you back.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>This is exactly what you hoped to get from your ex-boyfriend\u2014love, compassion and understanding. You wanted him to be your safe harbor and your haven after a long day.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Y cuando te pones a pensarlo, este tipo realmente era todo esto.<\/p>\n<p>He indeed had everything you looked for in a man\u2014at least in the beginning.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, al cabo de un tiempo, las cosas cambiaron y result\u00f3 ser un hombre diferente de lo que pensabas.<\/p>\n<p>No est\u00e1s segura de si ahora estaba mostrando sus verdaderos colores o simplemente se cans\u00f3 de ti, pero la verdad es que, de repente, no hab\u00eda ni rastro del hombre del que te enamoraste.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de muchas peleas y a\u00fan m\u00e1s tiempo perdido, te dej\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>Sin m\u00e1s, se alej\u00f3 de tu vida como si vosotros dos nunca hubierais importado y como si nunca le hubieras importado.<\/p>\n<p>Te dej\u00f3 sola, intentando luchar contra tu tristeza y tratando de averiguar cu\u00e1ndo y por qu\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/salio-mal-incluso-empezo\/\">las cosas salieron mal.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, that is not the worst part. You know that eventually, you\u2019ll stop missing him and get used to his absence.<\/p>\n<p>You know that you\u2019ll learn to live without him even if you never stop loving him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-48955\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Move-Forward-3-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Si fuera el adecuado, se habr\u00eda quedado\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Move-Forward-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Move-Forward-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Move-Forward-3.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Pero, \u00bfy si fuera el indicado para ti? \u00bfY si fuera tu alma gemela?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>What if you never grow to love someone the way you still love him? What if you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life searching for him in all the other men you encounter? What if this man who got away remains stuck in one part of your brain forever?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Well, let me promise you one thing\u2014none of this will happen. And you know why?<\/p>\n<p>Porque <em><strong>if he was the one, he wouldn\u2019t have gotten away. If he was meant to be yours forever, you would have never lost him.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You know, when love is real, it doesn\u2019t have an expiration date. It doesn\u2019t fade away the moment things get rough and it never ends.<\/p>\n<p>When love is real, it lasts a lifetime, through good and bad days, through thick and thin. None of life\u2019s obstacles or time can do it any harm because it is omnipotent and everlasting.<\/p>\n<p>I know you are still convinced that this man was the one for you but he clearly wasn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ten\u00eda un prop\u00f3sito en tu vida, estaba all\u00ed para <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/una-carta-a-mi-ex-de-mierda-gracias-por-ensenarme-estas-5-cosas\/\">darte una lecci\u00f3n<\/a><\/span> and to make you understand some things but he obviously wasn\u2019t right for you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Porque si lo fuera, nada en este mundo podr\u00eda haberlo alejado de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Si lo fuera, seguir\u00eda a tu lado, cogi\u00e9ndote de la mano por la vida y ni siquiera se habr\u00eda planteado darte la espalda.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Si fuera el correcto, ustedes habr\u00edan tenido su final feliz.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I know all of this is difficult to believe in now but you\u2019ll see that it is the only truth once this true love we are talking about comes into your life.<\/p>\n<p>When that happens, you\u2019ll realize all the ways in which all of your past relationships were wrong and you\u2019ll finally understand why none of them worked out.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly, you\u2019ll see that there is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/dont-forget-that-god-always-has-the-perfect-timing\/\">sincronizaci\u00f3n perfecta<\/a><\/span> for everything and especially for love. You\u2019ll see that sometimes there is a difference between the love you think you want and the one you really need\u2014the difference between temporary and everlasting love.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-33304\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-20T113810.773-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Si fuera el adecuado, se habr\u00eda quedado\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-20T113810.773-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-20T113810.773-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-20T113810.773.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve been someone who believed in love. You\u2019ve been a girl who was looking for real romance and a happy ending in all of your relationships. You were never interested in something temporary and you were never looking for a man just to have a good time. Meaningless&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33303,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33301","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/beautiful-beautiful-girl-daytime-1116380.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33301","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33301"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33301\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33303"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33301"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33301"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33301"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}