{"id":33372,"date":"2019-02-21T11:25:04","date_gmt":"2019-02-21T11:25:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33372"},"modified":"2022-06-10T11:45:07","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T11:45:07","slug":"soy-atractivo-aqui-esta-todo-lo-que-necesitas-saber","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/soy-atractivo-aqui-esta-todo-lo-que-necesitas-saber\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfSoy atractivo? Todo lo que necesitas saber"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfSoy atractivo?<\/em> Esta es la pregunta que todas las mujeres se hacen una y otra vez, compar\u00e1ndose con las modelos de las revistas y con la belleza editada.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m a woman and naturally, I can\u2019t say I\u2019m immune to asking myself the same unending question and sometimes I just feel like guys have it so much easier.<\/p>\n

There aren\u2019t as many edited supermodel men in high-fashion magazines who are imposing these impossible (completely altered) beauty standards, as if women need an extra reason to feel insecure.<\/p>\n

We see all those Victoria\u2019s Secret supermodels strutting their hot, thin bodies on the runway, with their glowing skin and perfect features, thinking this is what we should aspire to be.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s only half the truth. Do you really believe that these women wake up like that? In their perfect, skimpy outfits, with their skin so soft and bodies as fit as ever? Of course they don\u2019t!<\/em><\/p>\n

What you don\u2019t realize is that they all have their entrenadores personales<\/a>, they go on these massive diets and they don\u2019t let themselves indulge nearly as much as \u2018normal\u2019 people do.<\/p>\n

That is all for show. They need to sell their beauty because it\u2019s their job, so you really shouldn\u2019t base your opinions on yourself looking at models and magazine covers. That\u2019s not real. \u00a1Lo eres!<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfSoy atractivo? \u00bfC\u00f3mo me <\/b>usted<\/i><\/b> \u00bfte ves a ti mismo?<\/b><\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante aqu\u00ed es c\u00f3mo te ves T\u00da. Deja de preguntarte si los dem\u00e1s te encuentran atractiva y s\u00e9 tu propia voz de la raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s difficult judging yourself objectively when you\u2019re the one who looks at yourself every single day and being so used to your features, it\u2019s difficult to know anymore how you truly see yourself.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who knows about every single zit, even though others probably couldn\u2019t even find it. You\u2019re the one who knows you\u2019re having a bad hair day, even though to an outside onlooker, you look perfectly normal.<\/em><\/p>\n

Your mood often dictates your feelings about yourself and more often than not, you\u2019re probably way too harsh on yourself. Am I right?<\/p>\n

Antes de que te lo preguntes, \u201cAm I attractive?\u2019\u2019<\/em> think about what it is that you find appealing in others. What the first thing is that you\u2019ll notice on otra mujer<\/span><\/a> y lo que realmente encuentras atractivo. S\u00e9 sincera contigo misma.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs el aspecto f\u00edsico el \u00fanico factor decisivo o hay algo m\u00e1s?<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe gusta ver una melena bonita y sana, ondeando al viento, como si fuera la portada de Vogue y te murieras por tenerla en la cabeza?<\/em><\/p>\n

Or do you find the eyes to be the most attractive part of a person? Do you like looking into somebody\u2019s eyes and immediately being so drawn to them, as if their eyes hold the secrets of the universe you\u2019re craving to uncover?<\/em><\/p>\n

Or is there something more that you just can\u2019t resist? Something that instantly makes you see this person differently, in a more positive light?<\/p>\n

Looks aren\u2019t everything. And regardless of what you might think, the thing that you are drawn to in another person is most probably what others notice about you too!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"\u00bfSoy<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your personality. The way you condone yourself with those you love and with perfect strangers, the way you carry a genuine smile on your face whenever you see someone you care about and the abundance of positive energy you seamlessly spread around you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the way you\u2019re always ready to help a person, no matter who it is. Your kindness and ability to put yourself second and be of service when you\u2019re needed. It\u2019s your big heart that makes you attractive.<\/p>\n

And nobody\u2019s opinion of you matters nearly as much as your own does, remember that.<\/em><\/p>\n

Now, if you\u2019re on dating apps, chances are you\u2019re probably basing tu valor<\/span><\/a> off of some superficial comments from guys behind their screens who probably don\u2019t have anything better to do with their lives.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s all cool and shit but dating apps aren\u2019t a measure of anything, let alone of how attractive you are and here\u2019s why!<\/p>\n

\u00a1Tu foto de perfil no puede captarte en toda tu esencia!<\/b><\/p>\n

En primer lugar, una foto no representa qui\u00e9n eres<\/span><\/a> or how attractive you are. A photo is literally one pose from a particular angle and there\u2019s nothing more one can see than this one moment in time y t\u00fa eres mucho m\u00e1s que eso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

A photo does not show what you look like when somebody makes you laugh so hard that you just can\u2019t stop grinning from ear to ear, completely spontaneously and genuinely.<\/p>\n

A photo does not show the way your eyes look in all different kinds of lighting. It doesn\u2019t show how magical it is to see you during sunset, as the sun is setting over your face and making your eyes light up in that particular faint light.<\/p>\n

Cada persona se siente atra\u00edda por algo diferente.<\/b><\/p>\n

T\u00f3mate a ti mismo como ejemplo.<\/em> Let\u2019s say you\u2019re attracted to guys with dark hair, light eyes, over six feet tall and with a great sense of humor!<\/p>\n

They need to be into rock music and not take life too seriously. You also would prefer it if they liked animals, as you\u2019re a huge animal lover and your dog is your world.<\/p>\n

And now let\u2019s take your <\/span><\/i>mejor amigo<\/span><\/i><\/a>por ejemplo.<\/span><\/i> She is probably attracted to those mysterious types of guys, who are more than they let people see and don\u2019t really look typically handsome but have that certain something that makes them stand out.<\/p>\n

They aren\u2019t into the rock scene but are more quiet and reserved and exude this mystical energy that she just finds so damn attractive.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t care about looks at all, all she wants is someone with the same quirky outlook on life as hers.<\/p>\n

Y ah\u00ed lo tienes. Sus opciones en los hombres no podr\u00eda ser diferente y, sin embargo, ambos absolutamente encantar\u00eda encontrar cada tipo descrito anteriormente y tendr\u00eda una gran aversi\u00f3n por el otro.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSignifica eso que un tipo es menos atractivo que el otro? No. Lo \u00fanico que significa es que t\u00fa y tu mejor amiga ten\u00e9is ideas completamente distintas de c\u00f3mo es un hombre atractivo y ninguna de las dos est\u00e1is equivocadas.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all so objective. And what I\u2019m trying to say is, if you\u2019re not one guy\u2019s cup of tea, that doesn\u2019t mean you won\u2019t be everything and more to the next guy!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"\u00bfSoy<\/p>\n

Be thankful that tastes in men and women differ from person to person, as that gives you so many more chances with so many different guys. And isn\u2019t that just awesome?<\/p>\n

There\u2019s also this thing called chemistry!<\/p>\n

La forma en que ves a alguien en las fotos y c\u00f3mo es realmente en persona son dos cosas completamente diferentes.<\/p>\n

You can see someone you think is so good-looking and cute and feel like you\u2019d really hit it off with them and then when you meet them in person you realize that they have the personality of a pineapple!<\/p>\n

And off they go! That\u2019s what chemistry is for. You keep asking yourself, \u201cAm I attractive?\u2019\u2019<\/em> when you should really be asking yourself whether there\u2019s chemistry there or not.<\/p>\n

A person can be as gorgeous as it gets on the outside but when their personality is bland and they don\u2019t click with you on any level, what\u2019s the point really?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

This is why being attractive is not something you should be putting all your attention on. Your looks aren\u2019t everything. If there\u2019s no mental connection, there\u2019s really nothing there.<\/p>\n

Every single person on this planet is attractive to somebody. You may look out the window and see a guy you don\u2019t like one bit but there is probably somebody out there who would find him the cutest!<\/p>\n

\"\u00bfSoy<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe ves tan atractivo como los dem\u00e1s?<\/b><\/p>\n

There\u2019s always a big gap between how attractive you perceive yourself and how you actually look to others. Oftentimes, we feel like we\u2019re way less good-looking than we actually are.<\/p>\n

Esto se debe a que escudri\u00f1as cada detalle de ti mismo. Ves cada defecto, cada cana y cada peque\u00f1a imperfecci\u00f3n de tu cara.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You see those stretch marks and cellulite and you most definitely don\u2019t like seeing those love handles.<\/p>\n

But others don\u2019t see that the way you do. They see a cute smile and that adorable gap between your teeth. They see your natural face in all of its beauty, not even thinking about that tiny zit you hate so much.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

La persona que te quiere por lo que eres amar\u00e1 todos esos defectos que tanto odias y los ver\u00e1 como cosas que te hacen especial.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t care that you have cellulite. He won\u2019t care about that barely-there pimple.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que esta persona ver\u00e1 es a alguien que es perfecta a sus ojos. Una mujer atractiva, inteligente, ingeniosa, cuya risa es m\u00e1s fuerte que la m\u00fasica y que siempre dice las cosas como son.<\/p>\n

Y precisamente por eso debes dejar de pregunt\u00e1rtelo, \u201cAm I attractive?\u2019\u2019<\/em> y empieza a centrarte en encontrar a alguien que te quiera tal y como eres. Con defectos y todo.<\/p>\n

\"\u00bfSoy<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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