{"id":33377,"date":"2020-06-21T10:58:02","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T10:58:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33377"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:49:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:49:41","slug":"8-microesfuerzos-que-debe-poner-en-tu-relacion-si-es-el-elegido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-microesfuerzos-que-debe-poner-en-tu-relacion-si-es-el-elegido\/","title":{"rendered":"8 microesfuerzos que deber\u00eda poner en tu relaci\u00f3n si es el elegido"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Una relaci\u00f3n es cosa de dos, y las parejas deben esforzarse por igual el uno por el otro. A veces las mujeres lo olvidan y van m\u00e1s all\u00e1, mientras que los hombres dan por sentado todo lo que hacen.<\/p>\n<p>Estos microesfuerzos est\u00e1n aqu\u00ed para recordar a los hombres todas las cosas que deber\u00edan hacer por su media naranja sin pens\u00e1rselo demasiado, para recordar a las mujeres que se merecen a alguien que sepa corresponder a todo lo que ellas dan, y que s\u00f3lo un hombre que se esfuerza es el indicado.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>If he is the one, he should&#8230;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2>1. Enviarte un mensaje de texto primero (al menos una vez al d\u00eda)<\/h2>\n<p>Deber\u00eda haber una regla que dijera que las parejas necesitan saber el uno del otro al menos dos veces al d\u00eda. Aunque 3 mensajes al d\u00eda ser\u00edan perfectos: buenos d\u00edas, buenas tardes y un <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/25-cute-and-endearing-goodnight-texts-for-him-and-her\/\">texto de buenas noches<\/a><\/span> para dormir mejor.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially important for couples who don\u2019t see each other often, so the texts are what gives them that feeling of togetherness.<\/p>\n<p>If he is the one, he will text you first at least once a day because he won\u2019t be able to stand not hearing from you for an entire day. A man who says that\u2019s not true is a liar.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Mostrar afecto sin una agenda<\/h2>\n<p>Mimos, besos, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/4-cosas-puede-encontrar-abrazos-chico\/\">abrazos<\/a> <\/span>often say \u2018I love you\u2019 more strongly than words ever will. They are there to show love, affection, warmth, and even comfort.<\/p>\n<p>So if he hugs you a lot, kisses you every time he is saying goodbye, and cuddles with you often without trying to get into your pants every single time, it\u2019s all a good sign that he is the one and that he has feelings that are stronger than anything he can say aloud.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Hacer tiempo<\/h2>\n<p>This is really a micro-effort even though most men today act like they should get a reward for finding time in their busy schedules. If you are making time for them, they should make time for you. It\u2019s that simple.<\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t buy into the \u201cI am too busy.\u201d BS excuse. When he is the one for you, he will make time\u2014there is no doubt about it. No matter how busy he is or what he has going on, you will see that he is making an effort to be with you.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Enviar un mensaje al azar para recordarte que est\u00e1 pensando en ti y que te echa de menos<\/h2>\n<p>No digo que inunde tu bandeja de entrada de mensajes pero ese emoji de beso en mitad del d\u00eda o texto plano de pocas frases tendr\u00e1<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-maneras-de-decirle-a-alguien-que-echa-de-menos\/\"> Te echo de menos<\/a><\/span> escrito por todas partes.<\/p>\n<p>This text doesn\u2019t have to arrive every day, but it\u2019s nice if he sends one every now and then just to remind you how special you are. I bet you are doing the same for him.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Preoc\u00fapate por tus pensamientos y sentimientos<\/h2>\n<p>Most men are not in touch with their feelings like women are, and a lot of things can happen to a woman emotionally that they won\u2019t even detect.<\/p>\n<p>But if he takes the time to ask you how are you or notices that you are behaving differently, that\u2019s exactly the micro-effort you need. It shows that he cares about your wellbeing and that he wants to contribute to making you feel better.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Hacer planes<\/h2>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t have to be all the time, but it\u2019s really nice when a man plans a date regardless if it\u2019s going out or staying home.<\/p>\n<p>It can be something as simple as making you lunch after a hard day\u2019s work, making you a bubble bath or planning a night out full of fun things to do. The important thing is that he tries and that his efforts are visible.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Hacer peque\u00f1as cosas significativas<\/h2>\n<p>Arroparte cuando te quedas dormido en el sof\u00e1, recordar algo que dijiste hace tiempo, hacerte el caf\u00e9 por la ma\u00f1ana, incluso sacar la basura le llevar\u00e1 s\u00f3lo unos minutos pero te alegrar\u00e1 el d\u00eda entero.<\/p>\n<p>Doing things that he knows will help you and make you feel good is what it is all about. If he is the one, he won\u2019t waste his words in reassuring you that he loves you. He will do these little big things to show you he cares.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Satisfacerle<\/h2>\n<p>If he is selfish in bed, he will be selfish in every other aspect of the relationship, and that\u2019s just wrong on so many levels.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why the right one for you should show you the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/13-signs-you-are-not-just-having-sex-you-are-making-love\/\">diferencia entre tener sexo y hacer<\/a><\/span> amor anteponiendo tu placer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-33378\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-21T115431.042-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 microesfuerzos que deber\u00eda poner en tu relaci\u00f3n si es el elegido\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-21T115431.042-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-21T115431.042-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-21T115431.042.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A relationship is a two-way street, and couples should make equal efforts for each other. Sometimes women forget that and go over and beyond while men take for granted everything that they do. These micro-efforts are here to remind men of all the things that they should do for their significant other without giving it&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":33380,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29615],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33377","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-soulmate-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29615,"label":"soulmate"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/4k-wallpaper-beautiful-bloom-1263986.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29615,"name":"soulmate","slug":"soulmate-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29615,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? 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