{"id":33383,"date":"2020-02-21T11:22:00","date_gmt":"2020-02-21T11:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33383"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:11:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:11:09","slug":"si-estas-haciendo-estas-7-cosas-estas-dejando-que-juegue-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-estas-haciendo-estas-7-cosas-estas-dejando-que-juegue-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Si haces estas 7 cosas, est\u00e1s dejando que \u00e9l juegue contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sigues saliendo con el mismo tipo de hombres<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando echas la vista atr\u00e1s a tus ex, ves que casi todos tienen muchas similitudes y lo que m\u00e1s llama la atenci\u00f3n es su comportamiento gilipollas.<\/p>\n

Clearly, you are not doing this on purpose. They don\u2019t show their true face until you are already hooked and it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n

Pero podr\u00eda haber algunos primeros signos<\/a> que son malas noticias de las que debes cuidarte. Empieza a elegir sabiamente a qui\u00e9n le das tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Le regalas tu confianza en vez de dejar que se la gane<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Why would you believe someone you hardly know? What guarantees do you have that this person won\u2019t double-cross you? You have none.<\/p>\n

Trust is something that people should earn over time. So make sure you don\u2019t rush into things.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s less risky that way and there are fewer chances that someone will play you.<\/p>\n

Quieres que sea tu persona para siempre y lo quieres con todas tus fuerzas.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te costar\u00e1 admitirlo, pero preg\u00fantate si amas a esa persona o la idea que tienes de ella.<\/p>\n

Tal vez est\u00e9s tan ansiosa por tener una relaci\u00f3n comprometida que esperas que \u00e9l sea el hombre adecuado para ti.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe enamoras con facilidad? \u00bfHab\u00eda ya un par de chicos que pensabas que eran el verdadero negocio hasta que todo se fue al traste?<\/p>\n

Si la respuesta es s\u00ed, est\u00e1s dejando que \u00e9l juegue contigo y t\u00fa est\u00e1s jugando contigo mismo.<\/p>\n

Lo que ocurre es que tu deseo de amor es tan fuerte que decides ver s\u00f3lo las partes buenas mientras ignoras ciegamente las malas.<\/p>\n

Cuando est\u00e9 el adecuado, no habr\u00e1 necesidad de forzar las cosas ni de esforzarse tanto para mantenerlo a tu lado.<\/p>\n

Remember you can\u2019t hurry love, it has its own time zone and there is nothing any of us can do about it, no matter how exhausted we might be from the wrong guys.<\/p>\n

Le das innumerables oportunidades de decepcionarte<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Some people are really rare to deserve a second chance and all the rest really don\u2019t. And every chance you give after a second one is one too many.<\/p>\n

The problem is that you don\u2019t even realize that you are giving someone a third, fourth… thirty-sixth chance to play you all over again because you feed yourself with the hope that next time it will all be different.<\/p>\n

Stop doing that ASAP. It won\u2019t be different, it will be only worse. People who betray you, walk out on you and abuse your feelings in any way don\u2019t deserve a spot in your life.<\/p>\n

Te preocupas por \u00e9l m\u00e1s de lo que te preocupas por ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por muy fuertes que sean tus sentimientos o por mucho que quieras a alguien, siempre debes quererte un poco m\u00e1s a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t give parts of yourself to somebody who doesn\u2019t give anything back.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t allow anybody to disrespect you or treat you lousily just because you love them or you don\u2019t want to be alone.<\/p>\n

That isn’t loving, that\u2019s settling for a life without real love.<\/p>\n

Te est\u00e1s alimentando de mentiras<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u201cHe is not all that bad,\u201d or, \u201cHe just needs time,\u201d or, \u201cWe shared so many happy memories, I am sure he can be that person again.\u201d<\/p>\n

Si te sorprendes a ti mismo diciendo alguna de estas frases o alguna parecida, est\u00e1s permitiendo que juegue contigo.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t live on past glory, he has to be good to you right now. He has to care for you and treat you right now, not tomorrow, not in a few months or years.<\/p>\n

Deja de ponerle excusas y reconoce que te mereces mucho m\u00e1s que \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Ignoras tu intuici\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You know deep down that he is wrong for you, you feel that something is out of place and that he isn\u2019t being truthful.<\/p>\n

En lugar de confiar en tu intuici\u00f3n, sigues silenci\u00e1ndola porque te sientes atra\u00edda por \u00e9l y esperas equivocarte.<\/p>\n

You are not wrong; if something smells bad, it\u2019s bad, there is no doubt about it. Learn to listen to your instincts as they are hardly ever wrong.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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