{"id":33447,"date":"2020-06-22T08:51:17","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T08:51:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33447"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:03:29","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:03:29","slug":"deja-de-luchar-por-un-hombre-que-te-abandono-hace-mucho-tiempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-luchar-por-un-hombre-que-te-abandono-hace-mucho-tiempo\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de luchar por un hombre que te abandon\u00f3 hace tiempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’re constantly checking your phone in the hope that he will call, even though you know he won’t.<\/p>\n

You’re constantly wondering what he’s doing, even though you know he doesn’t give a damn about what you’re doing.<\/p>\n

You’re constantly fighting to preserve what’s left of your love, even though you know that he gave up fighting a long time ago.<\/p>\n

Don’t do that. Stop fighting for those who don’t bother fighting for you! Stop fighting for those who are okay with perderte<\/a><\/span>!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s not that easy to forget all of the beautiful moments you had together, holding each other\u2019s hands before falling asleep, kissing passionately, laughing until your stomach started to really hurt, taking care of each other\u2026 but all these moments are not enough for you to keep fighting.<\/p>\n

Deja de luchar por tus momentos pasados, abre los ojos y ve la verdad.<\/p>\n

Ask yourself if he\u2019s that same man who used to hold your hand when you felt sad.<\/p>\n

Is he that same man who used to hold you in his arms, reassuring you that he\u2019d never give up on fighting for your love?<\/p>\n

If not, do not bother fighting for him because you\u2019re not fighting for him\u2014you\u2019re fighting for the memory of him.<\/p>\n

No te molestes en revivir viejos momentos de felicidad porque deber\u00edas vivir el presente.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Stop focusing on the happiness of those who don\u2019t care about yours. Stop letting them know that you\u2019ll always be there no matter what. Stop making them your priority when all this time they have treated you like an option!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You are not the one who is responsible for their happiness. You should never fight for someone who doesn\u2019t know how to reciprocate.<\/p>\n

Deja de luchar por un amor mediocre cuando deber\u00edas estar disfrutando del que te inspira y llena tu coraz\u00f3n de alegr\u00eda en lugar de dolor.<\/p>\n

Deja de torturarte con what ifs y de pensar que si segu\u00edas siendo buena con \u00e9l y si segu\u00edas siendo persistente para salvar lo que quedaba de vuestro amor, \u00e9l podr\u00eda haber cambiado de opini\u00f3n y empezar a corresponderte.<\/p>\n

No, he wouldn\u2019t have and you know it!<\/p>\n

En el momento en que decidi\u00f3 que tus sentimientos y deseos le importaban un bledo, decidi\u00f3 deliberadamente dejar de luchar por ti.<\/p>\n

And why would you fight for him? Why would you keep making excuses for his behavior when you know he\u2019s doing it on purpose?<\/p>\n

Deja de luchar por un hombre<\/a> who doesn\u2019t know how to love. Stop fighting for a man who was never yours and who never will be!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfQuieres quedarte para siempre en el limbo de amor no correspondido<\/a><\/span>\u00bfDeseos desatendidos y ego\u00edsmo?<\/p>\n

Do you want to fight forever for something you\u2019ll never have? Of course you don\u2019t!<\/p>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to and you definitely shouldn\u2019t because life is too short to waste your time waiting for those who are not willing to make an effort to change.<\/p>\n

La vida es demasiado corta para perder el tiempo pensando constantemente en el pasado y temiendo el futuro.<\/p>\n

Deja de torturarte y de torturar tu coraz\u00f3n con amores t\u00f3xicos y c\u00e9ntrate en lo que te hace feliz a TI.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Do you want a strong, beautiful love that is reciprocal? Then don\u2019t fight for a weak one.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQuieres a alguien que siempre est\u00e9 a tu lado y nunca te haga dudar de sus intenciones?<\/p>\n

Then don\u2019t fight for the one who is never here.<\/p>\n

\u2018You reap what you sow\u2019. If you invest all of yourself in a man who is not ready to do the same for you, you will end up broken. If you keep fighting for a man who is making you feel unworthy, sad, and disappointed, you will never find your inner peace or happiness.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Pero si te perdonas por cada l\u00e1grima, por cada segundo de sentirte sola, por tu dolor y decides dejar de luchar por un hombre que te estaba haciendo todo esto, \u00a1empezar\u00e1s a hacer cambios!<\/p>\n

Una vez que decidas empezar a luchar por tu sonrisa, alegr\u00eda y un coraz\u00f3n lleno de amor puro, encontrar\u00e1s tu felicidad.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying it will be easy. It won\u2019t but you will make it.<\/p>\n

Lo conseguir\u00e1s porque hace falta ser una mujer fuerte para decidir seguir luchando por un hombre que la est\u00e1 destruyendo por dentro.<\/p>\n

You will make it because it takes a brave heart to keep loving a man who was not ready to do the same. You will make it because you\u2019re a fighter.\"Deja<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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