{"id":33489,"date":"2019-02-25T08:41:35","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T08:41:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33489"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:50:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:50:56","slug":"antes-de-volver-a-la-piscina-de-las-citas-hazte-estas-5-preguntas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/antes-de-volver-a-la-piscina-de-las-citas-hazte-estas-5-preguntas\/","title":{"rendered":"Antes de volver a la piscina de las citas, h\u00e1gase estas 5 preguntas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando por fin superas una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica y se acaba el dolor, lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil es saber si est\u00e1s preparado para volver a exponerte.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTiene usted trasladado oficialmente<\/a><\/span> on with your life, and do you feel like it\u2019s time to let a new man become a part of it?<\/p>\n

Pues bien, tenemos la soluci\u00f3n a tu problema porque te damos 5 preguntas que deber\u00edas hacerte para determinar si est\u00e1s preparado para volver a la piscina de las citas despu\u00e9s de una dolorosa ruptura.<\/p>\n

1.\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 quiero una nueva relaci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n

Lo primero que tienes que determinar son tus motivos para querer encontrar a alguien nuevo.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCrees que est\u00e1s en el momento de tu vida en el que podr\u00edas compartirlo con alguien especial?<\/p>\n

Or are you\u2019re just fed up with being single and want to date anyone who comes your way, just to avoid loneliness?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1s pensando en volver a salir con alguien porque quieres amor o porque lo necesitas desesperadamente?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPorque quieres tener a alguien que sea tu pareja o alguien que d\u00e9 sentido a tu vida y llene los vac\u00edos que hay dentro de ti?<\/p>\n

Si la respuesta es siempre la segunda, significa que est\u00e1 todo menos preparado para volver a salir a la calle.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, concentra toda tu energ\u00eda en mejorarte a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Una vez que te sientas satisfecha con tu vida tal como es sin un hombre en ella, entonces es el momento de buscar a alguien nuevo.<\/p>\n

2. \u00bfHe cortado todos los lazos con el pasado?<\/h2>\n

Dejar el pasado en el pasado y superar tu relaci\u00f3n anterior es imprescindible antes de volver a la piscina de las citas.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que es totalmente injusto utilizar a alguien como tu rebote<\/a> <\/span>y para ayudarte a superar a un ex con el que sigues en contacto o por el que sientes algo.<\/p>\n

Besides, by doing this, you won\u2019t be hurting just this other person.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll also be the one to suffer because you\u2019ll find yourself torn between your repressed emotions and your desire to run away from them.<\/p>\n

3. \u00bfSigo creyendo en el amor?<\/h2>\n

So you\u2019ve been through a tough breakup, and naturally, everything you\u2019ve been through has distorted your view on love.<\/p>\n

Tu confianza en los hombres se ha resquebrajado y ya no eres la misma persona que eras antes de este desenga\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

However, what you need to ask yourself is whether you\u2019ve lost all faith in love all together.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEsperas que todos los hombres sean como tu ex y te hagan da\u00f1o como \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

If the answer is positive, it is more than clear than you\u2019re still overwhelmed with bitterness and negativity from your past, and this is something you should get rid of before getting into a new relationship.<\/p>\n

4. Do you know what you\u2019re looking for?<\/h2>\n

Otra pregunta que debe hacerse antes de relacionarse con alguien nuevo es qu\u00e9 espera encontrar exactamente.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQuieres una relaci\u00f3n seria o s\u00f3lo alguien con quien tener sexo sin sentido?<\/p>\n

\u00bfBuscas algo temporal que te ayude a pasar el d\u00eda o est\u00e1s en busca de tu alma gemela?<\/p>\n

Sea lo que sea lo que quieras, recuerda que no hay respuestas equivocadas.<\/p>\n

Tienes todo el derecho a hacer lo que quieras con tu vida, s\u00f3lo tienes que ser sincera contigo misma y con tu posible pareja.<\/p>\n

Lo que tambi\u00e9n es importante es tener una visi\u00f3n clara del hombre que quieres conocer.<\/p>\n

I am not saying that you shouldn\u2019t be spontaneous or that you will find exactly the one you want, but in order to find the right guy, you have to have some standards and criteria.<\/p>\n

5. \u00bfHe aprendido la lecci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n

Tras escapar de un mala relaci\u00f3n<\/a><\/span>Lo m\u00e1s importante es aprender algo de ello.<\/p>\n

It is not to let your pain define you but to use it to realize what the things you shouldn\u2019t settle for ever again are.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs algo que te ense\u00f1\u00f3 tu relaci\u00f3n anterior?<\/p>\n

\u00bfHa sido una experiencia reveladora que le ha hecho m\u00e1s sabio y fuerte?<\/p>\n

Si lo ha hecho, entonces est\u00e1 listo.\"Antes<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you finally get over a toxic relationship and the pain is over, the hardest thing is knowing whether you are ready to put yourself back out there. Have you officially moved on with your life, and do you feel like it\u2019s time to let a new man become a part of it? Well, we…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":33491,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33489","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/black-dress-blonde-hair-daylight-1834406.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33489","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33489"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33489\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33491"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33489"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33489"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33489"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}