{"id":33580,"date":"2019-02-26T08:58:16","date_gmt":"2019-02-26T08:58:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33580"},"modified":"2022-02-21T00:41:17","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T00:41:17","slug":"perdonarle-no-borrara-el-dolor-pero-te-ayudara-a-seguir-adelante","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/perdonarle-no-borrara-el-dolor-pero-te-ayudara-a-seguir-adelante\/","title":{"rendered":"Perdonarle no borrar\u00e1 el dolor, pero te ayudar\u00e1 a seguir adelante"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando se pone fin a una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica o relaci\u00f3n abusiva<\/a>Todo el mundo te aconseja que lo mejor que puedes hacer es dejar en el pasado todo lo malo que te ha ocurrido.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Todo el mundo sigue presion\u00e1ndote para que sigas adelante, como si fuera lo m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil despu\u00e9s de todo lo que has pasado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

However, you can\u2019t expect to leave the past in the past while all the pain you\u2019ve been through is still haunting you as it did the first day.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Deseas no sentir ninguna de estas cosas pero la verdad es que la amargura y la negatividad te consumen por completo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Everything you\u2019ve experienced changed the essence of the girl you used to be.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Te convirti\u00f3 en una persona vengativa que quiere vengarse a cualquier precio y en una persona que aprendi\u00f3 el significado del odio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The harsh truth is that you can\u2019t help but wish everything worst for the man who crushed you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quieres que le atormenten para siempre las cosas horribles que te hizo y que se pase el resto de su vida lamentando el hecho de haberte roto el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No matter how hard you try, you can\u2019t seem to forgive him for the way he treated you. You can\u2019t forgive or forget the pain<\/a> o el da\u00f1o que este hombre dej\u00f3.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

To be honest, he doesn\u2019t deserve your forgiveness either.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lo \u00faltimo que se merece es dormir tranquilo mientras t\u00fa sigues en alg\u00fan lugar ah\u00ed fuera, luchando contra las consecuencias de todo lo que te hizo e intentando ahuyentar los demonios que dej\u00f3 atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nevertheless, this forgiveness shouldn\u2019t happen because of him. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tienes que hacer todo lo posible para encontrar la fuerza dentro de ti para perdonarlo por tu propio bien, porque ese es el \u00fanico camino hacia tu libertad espiritual.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014forgiveness isn\u2019t omnipotent. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It won\u2019t heal your broken heart overnight, it won\u2019t make your pain go away just like that and it won\u2019t magically erase the scars on your wounded soul. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sin embargo, ser\u00e1 el primer paso para seguir adelante.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Every time you doubt your ability to forgive, remember that people\u2019s actions only say things about them and they shouldn\u2019t in any way define you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No es tu trabajo cargar con el enorme peso de todo lo que ha pasado, incluso ahora despu\u00e9s de haberte liberado de tu relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Besides, if the man who has caused you harm doesn\u2019t have a conscience about what he\u2019s done then you not forgiving him won\u2019t make him see the consequences of his actions.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I know this is a painful realization but no matter what you do or don\u2019t do won\u2019t make this man feel the blame for the way he hurt you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 ser\u00edas t\u00fa el que sigue cargando con todo esto <\/strong>carga emocional<\/strong><\/a>\u00bfsabiendo que s\u00f3lo te pesa? <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Letting go all of this bitterness and desire for revenge won\u2019t make things easier for your abuser\u2014it will just set you free from the chains of his deeds and it will make the process of moving on easier for you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I know that you\u2019re aware of the fact that this man, who has done you so much harm and who has damaged you so deeply, is out there living his life as if nothing has happened while you still struggle with the outcome of your relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sin embargo, en lugar de gastar toda tu energ\u00eda en pensar en \u00e9l y en las formas de vengarte, pon toda tu fuerza en ayudarte a ti misma a recuperarte y sanar.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Deja que el karma haga su trabajo porque te aseguro que ser\u00e1 castigado por cada l\u00e1grima que lloraste por su culpa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sin embargo, no es su trabajo hacerle pagar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As\u00ed que instead of allowing this guy\u2019s toxicity to have an impact on your life after all this time, turn to yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Have faith that God always has a plan and that there will come a day when he\u2019ll go through all the things you went through.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No te estoy pidiendo que dejes ir toda la tristeza y el dolor en un segundo porque la curaci\u00f3n es un proceso que lleva tiempo y suceder\u00e1 cuando est\u00e9s listo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I am just begging you to let go of resentments and grudges because they won\u2019t lead you anywhere except becoming the same as the guy whom you luckily escaped from in time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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