{"id":33588,"date":"2020-07-26T09:19:11","date_gmt":"2020-07-26T09:19:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33588"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:12:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:12:46","slug":"10-veces-que-te-daras-cuenta-de-que-has-esquivado-una-bala-en-tu-relacion-de-pareja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-veces-que-te-daras-cuenta-de-que-has-esquivado-una-bala-en-tu-relacion-de-pareja\/","title":{"rendered":"10 momentos en los que te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que has esquivado una bala (en lo que a relaciones se refiere)"},"content":{"rendered":"

A veces, una ruptura es una bendici\u00f3n disfrazada<\/a>. Once it\u2019s over, you are broken and in so much pain that you don\u2019t see the upsides of it all.<\/p>\n

Existe la otra cara de la ruptura. El lado en el que tienes una epifan\u00eda y te das cuenta de que esquivaste una bala en el momento en que la relaci\u00f3n termin\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Time gives you answers as to why it didn\u2019t work out and these are the moments in which you will realize it was best it didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

When he texts you and wants to \u2018hang out\u2019 even though he has a girlfriend<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si recibes un mensaje como este, te alegrar\u00e1s de que ya no est\u00e9is juntos porque est\u00e1 claro que es la escoria del mundo.<\/p>\n

Basically, he is going behind his girlfriend\u2019s back and betraying her by contacting you.<\/p>\n

Probablemente te estar\u00eda haciendo lo mismo si hubierais seguido juntos.<\/p>\n

Cuando le hace a otra mujer lo mismo que te ha hecho a ti<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t be happy about somebody else’s misery.<\/p>\n

Pero te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que nunca cambiar\u00e1, aunque le dieras un mill\u00f3n de oportunidades para intentar arreglar las cosas.<\/p>\n

Te sentir\u00e1s aliviado de que todo haya quedado atr\u00e1s y de que todo haya terminado. Te sentir\u00e1s agradecido de que todo haya terminado.<\/p>\n

Cuando enga\u00f1a a la mujer con la que te enga\u00f1\u00f3 a ti<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Similar to the previous point but this time you don\u2019t feel sorry for anybody involved.<\/p>\n

Te est\u00e1s dando cuenta de que el karma est\u00e1 haciendo de las suyas.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be able to help the instant joy that will consume you but it also won\u2019t matter much to you at this point because this is just one more confirmation that you are better off without him.<\/p>\n

Cuando te das cuenta de que tus amigos est\u00e1n realmente aliviados de que tu relaci\u00f3n haya terminado<\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

Conf\u00eda en tus amigos, al menos en aquellos que sabes que velan por tus intereses.<\/p>\n

There is a good reason why you noticed relief on their faces and why you heard, \u201cYou deserve better than him,\u201d so many times.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think for a second that they are not happy about your sorrow, they are just happy because they see the bigger picture.<\/p>\n

They didn\u2019t have emotions as strong as yours for that man and they saw him for who he really was.<\/p>\n

Una vez que te das cuenta de que nunca supo apreciarte<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Un d\u00eda te despertar\u00e1s y todo tendr\u00e1 sentido.<\/p>\n

Te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que te dio por sentado a ti y todo lo que hiciste por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

There is more to life and love than being at somebody\u2019s beck and call, especially if that somebody gives nothing back.<\/p>\n

Cuando notes que tus finanzas mejoran<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si estuviste con alguien a quien le gustaba gastar mucho y a \u00e9l le gustaba gastar tu dinero m\u00e1s que el suyo, tu cartera lo agradecer\u00e1.<\/p>\n

You will realize that you were dating a leech who didn\u2019t just emotionally suck you dry but financially as well.<\/p>\n

Si muestra signos de comportamiento violento<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Anyone who shows signs of aggressive behavior doesn\u2019t deserve a place in your life.<\/p>\n

No importa si fue agresivo contigo antes o despu\u00e9s de terminar la relaci\u00f3n, no estar con \u00e9l es el mejor lugar para estar.<\/p>\n

Nunca justifiques este tipo de comportamiento abusivo y nunca reconsideres tu decisi\u00f3n de abandonar a una persona que se comporta de esta manera.<\/p>\n

Cuando te das cuenta de que por fin puedes respirar tranquilo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been with somebody who was emocionalmente abusivo<\/a>celoso o controlador, empezar\u00e1s a sentir que te has quitado un enorme peso de encima.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de relaciones pueden asfixiarte, arruinar tu autoestima, drenarte emocionalmente y hacerte sentir atrapado.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que definitivamente esquivaste una bala en el momento en que esta relaci\u00f3n termin\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Cuando te das cuenta de que eres mucho m\u00e1s feliz sin \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

A veces, aferrarse a alguien que no te conviene hace m\u00e1s da\u00f1o que dejarlo ir.<\/p>\n

Once you heal from a break-up and form the life you are proud of without him, you won\u2019t be able to grasp what you were holding on to so tightly in the first place.<\/p>\n

Se acabaron las monta\u00f1as rusas emocionales, las l\u00e1grimas, los mensajes sin respuesta y las promesas rotas.<\/p>\n

Ahora tienes calma interior, la alegr\u00eda de hacerte feliz y nadie que se meta con tu cabeza o tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

When he wants you back but it\u2019s already too late<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Los ex tienen la p\u00e9sima costumbre de volver <\/a>when it\u2019s already too late.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que probablemente se dar\u00e1 cuenta de tu val\u00eda y de lo que tuvo y perdi\u00f3 una vez que est\u00e9s felizmente enamorada de otra persona o enamorada de tu vida sin \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\"10<\/p>\n

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