{"id":33618,"date":"2019-02-27T08:08:58","date_gmt":"2019-02-27T08:08:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33618"},"modified":"2022-02-27T14:26:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T14:26:11","slug":"7-retos-a-los-que-te-enfrentas-al-salir-con-alguien-si-eres-super-torpe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-retos-a-los-que-te-enfrentas-al-salir-con-alguien-si-eres-super-torpe\/","title":{"rendered":"7 retos a los que te enfrentas cuando sales con alguien si eres s\u00faper torpe"},"content":{"rendered":"

Seguramente eres encantador, inteligente y todo un partido, pero de alg\u00fan modo eres incapaz de mostrar esa faceta tuya cuando te enfrentas a alguien que te gusta de verdad.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s like you transform into this awkward person, and you can\u2019t behave or speak like you normally would around people you are comfortable with.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t worry. There are a lot of us weirdos out there.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00f3lo tenemos que encontrar a alguien que sea nuestro tipo de torpe y bobo, y formar pareja con \u00e9l. B\u00e1sicamente, necesitamos a alguien a quien nuestra rareza le parezca mona.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Torpe es tu segundo nombre <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tu cuerpo est\u00e1 lleno de moratones porque tienes la costumbre de chocarte con las cosas y tropezar con tus propios pies.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tienes el pelo lleno de migas de pan. Se te caen las cosas. Bailas como si tuvieras dos pies izquierdos, y la lista sigue y sigue.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ten en cuenta que aunque seas torpe por tu torpeza, hay alguien a quien le parecer\u00e1 adorable y mono.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Hablas sin parar cuando est\u00e1s cerca de \u00e9l  <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You hear yourself speaking, and you know it\u2019s too much, uncalled for, and making things even worse, but you can\u2019t stop yourself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lo que pasa es que cuando te gusta alguien quieres estar lo mejor posible y decir todas las palabras adecuadas, pero el nivel de estr\u00e9s aumenta.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You become nervous, and that\u2019s why you rumble and stumble on your own words.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

M\u00edralo de esta manera. Si \u00e9l interpreta tu cotorreo como una se\u00f1al, b\u00e1sicamente le est\u00e1s diciendo que te gusta.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. You can\u2019t tell if somebody\u2019s hitting on you or just being nice<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sometimes it\u2019s really hard to tell. But you are blind even if somebody is making it super obvious.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You are aware that you are awkward and for the life of you, you can\u2019t grasp why somebody would be into you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero si un hombre est\u00e1 claramente interesado, d\u00e9jalo estar. Acepta tu torpeza.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Tus habilidades para ligar est\u00e1n por debajo de cero <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Flirting is not in your nature. Whatever you say or do just comes out wrong, and you are used to it coming out wrong, so you\u2019ve stopped trying altogether.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfY qu\u00e9 si eres malo para ligar<\/a>? Relax and be yourself. Some guys won\u2019t dig it, and that\u2019s ok.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Habr\u00e1 quien lo haga y apreciar\u00e1 que no tengas movimientos o l\u00edneas<\/a> porque la falsedad les da n\u00e1useas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Sue\u00f1as conversaciones en tu cabeza <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Imaginas diferentes escenarios de conversaci\u00f3n en tu cabeza que tienen pocas posibilidades de hacerse realidad.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You know you can’t predict the conversation you are going to have with the guy you are into, but that doesn’t stop you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You kind of enjoy it, and it\u2019s nice to daydream at times.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Analizas cada palabra que dice o escribe <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Relees sus textos con la esperanza de encontrar algo que se te haya pasado por alto o descubrir alg\u00fan significado oculto, y repites e interpretas conversaciones que has mantenido en tu cabeza.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Aunque \u00e9ste es un comportamiento bastante com\u00fan, tu naturaleza torpe lo lleva un paso m\u00e1s all\u00e1, as\u00ed que te mientes a ti misma dici\u00e9ndote que no est\u00e1s interesada en absoluto, pero no dejas de pensar en \u00e9l, en sus mensajes y en sus palabras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tambi\u00e9n hablas de ello con tu mejor amiga hasta el punto de que empiezas a aburrirla mortalmente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Te congelas a menudo cuando \u00e9l est\u00e1 cerca <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si el cotorreo falla, cambias por completo y te conviertes en alguien a quien le cuesta pronunciar palabras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Hay situaciones en las que tu cerebro se queda completamente en blanco si \u00e9l est\u00e1 cerca.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Apenas pronuncias las palabras y llegas a un punto en el que incluso te cuesta moverte.  <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tambi\u00e9n podr\u00edas tener problemas si intenta besarte en la mejilla o un abrazo<\/a> because you don’t know how to act.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Todo lo que tu yo torpe necesita es alguien que adore tu torpeza, se r\u00eda de tus rarezas y te bese para que te calles un momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You need someone who wouldn\u2019t change the way you are for anything in this world, and someone who knows he can be himself around you, too.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Todos somos un poco raros a nuestra manera, y lo \u00fanico que necesitamos es alguien que nos acepte tal y como somos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

 <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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