{"id":3368,"date":"2020-08-08T12:38:29","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T12:38:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3368"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:34:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:34:05","slug":"6-maneras-de-saber-que-no-se-va","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-maneras-de-saber-que-no-se-va\/","title":{"rendered":"6 maneras de saber que no se va"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve been just a stop for too many people up to this point of your life and you\u2019re tired. That\u2019s fine. You\u2019re allowed to be tired. But you\u2019re not allowed to give him a hard time based on the previous experiences you had. <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, that\u2019s the only behavior you know, but you need to push yourself harder. You need to think about how you\u2019re treating him just because you\u2019ve meet too many toxic people in your life<\/a>. He isn\u2019t the one to be blamed for it. He deserves a proper chance.<\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t deserve the sh*t you put him through. You should\u2019ve learned by now that no matter how curved the ball you throw at him, he\u2019ll always hit it. You\u2019re wasting your time testing him because he plays for the good guys, and he isn\u2019t failing your test. <\/b><\/p>\n

1. You can\u2019t scare him.<\/span> <\/span><\/h1>\n

Your angry outbursts, your indecisions, and unexplainable mood swings won\u2019t push him away. Do you know why? Because he knows you. <\/span>Porque lo entiende.<\/b><\/p>\n

He understands what you\u2019ve been through and how hard your past was on you. He knows you have a hard time trusting people because so many of them gave you life lessons where you learned you should never, ever, rely on somebody else but yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

La broma es para ellos porque ahora tienes a alguien en quien confiar. <\/span>Puedes confiar en \u00e9l. <\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

2. Te acepta tal y como eres.<\/span><\/h1>\n

He knows you can\u2019t be anybody different than you are now and he takes you for what you are. You could only be a worse or a better version of yourself, but he won\u2019t push you either way. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll slowly guide you towards your better side, not because he wants you to change but because he wants you to be the best version of yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

He wants all your inner beauty to come to the surface, but he doesn\u2019t want you to be somebody else. <\/span>Eres todo por lo que firm\u00f3. <\/b><\/p>\n

3. He doesn\u2019t care what others think.<\/span><\/h1>\n

And he\u2019s one of the rare ones. Because the voices of others can\u2019t cloud his judgment. No matter how many bad things he might hear about you, he\u2019s not judging. <\/span><\/p>\n

One might guess he\u2019s been in the same dark place you are now, and he knows other people don\u2019t understand. But he gets you. <\/span>Entiende tus acciones y siempre encuentra la manera de ver el lado positivo de todo. <\/b><\/p>\n

4. No deja piedra sobre piedra.<\/span> <\/span><\/h1>\n

All for you. He knows you\u2019re worthy. He knows he needs to make you forget all the bad things so you could start fresh with him. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that\u2019s why he\u2019s constantly trying to create new happy memories, new experiences, and that\u2019s why he\u2019s restless.<\/span> Para vosotros. Para los dos. <\/b><\/p>\n

5. Te tom\u00f3 como su responsabilidad.<\/span><\/h1>\n

He\u2019s not trying to fix you. He\u2019s trying to help you fix yourself. He\u2019s owning a responsibility of making you happy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque tiene una vida aparte de ti con mucha gente en ella, t\u00fa pareces ser siempre su prioridad. <\/span>He knows you don\u2019t deserve anything less.<\/b><\/p>\n

6. He knows you\u2019re the best.<\/span> <\/span><\/h1>\n

Even though you have a hard time believing it, you are. You are the best for him and that\u2019s why he\u2019s not leaving. <\/span><\/p>\n

He knows he\u2019s not going to find anybody better, but <\/span>not because you\u2019re narcissistic and you made him believe it, but because he saw your true value<\/b>. <\/span><\/p>\n

He saw how strong you are and how you stand firm even at your most vulnerable times. He knows it because he saw it for himself, not because you\u2019ve tricked him. <\/span><\/p>\n

This is the guy who\u2019s worth letting in. Please, don\u2019t push him away.<\/b><\/p>\n

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