{"id":33692,"date":"2019-03-04T11:44:36","date_gmt":"2019-03-04T11:44:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33692"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:45:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:45:50","slug":"cuando-debes-llevar-tu-relacion-al-siguiente-nivel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-debes-llevar-tu-relacion-al-siguiente-nivel\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo debe pasar su relaci\u00f3n al siguiente nivel?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When should you consider taking your relationship to the next level?  This is an important question that will inevitably come up after you\u2019ve been with someone for a while and things are going really well.  You might be thinking <b>podr\u00eda ser el elegido,<\/b> y tus amigos y familiares se mueren por conocerle.  No paran de insistirte para que organices una presentaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, when should you take him home to meet your family or take him out to meet your trusted circle of friends?  When are you really ready?  The answer is\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Depende.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, it\u2019s a vague, but true.  Every relationship is different, and everyone has a different comfort level.  Trust your intuition first and foremost to understand when you are ready.  You might be three weeks into this thing, and your heart feels as if you should be broadcasting this to the world.  Three months might have already flown by, and something still seems off, so you\u2019re taking your time and trying to figure out next steps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Todos venimos con un pasado complicado tambi\u00e9n, y algunos son m\u00e1s complicados que otros. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have had your heart broken before, you could be more reluctant to push this one forward.  You may need a little more time.  Or if you\u2019ve ever been partnered with someone abusive, you may be reluctant to dive right in.  <b>There\u2019s nothing wrong with this.<\/b>  De hecho, si alguien te presiona para que te comprometas y te sientes inc\u00f3modo con la velocidad a la que avanzan las cosas, es una se\u00f1al de alarma importante. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, it\u2019s also important to remember that we\u2019ll never have all of the answers, and just because the last partnership went one way doesn\u2019t mean this one will.  Everyone is different and you shouldn\u2019t compare an old connection with one that\u2019s new \u2013 especially if the previous partnership didn\u2019t end well.  Worrying that this one will take the same path will only cause negative energy to fester.  Like attracts like \u2013 emit positivity and you\u2019ll get it back, emit negativity and\u2026well, you understand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While you may be bringing your same self to the table \u2013 you know you\u2019re genuine and aren\u2019t willing to be put on a fa\u00e7ade \u2013 being with someone new will present with new exciting experiences as well as new challenges.  There are likely to be some predictable patterns, but there will also be something unfamiliar thrown into the mix from time to time.  So, if it took only a few days to bring your last beau home, it doesn\u2019t mean this new relationship should follow suit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, it can be tough when loved ones have seen you go through a bad experience, and they are pushing to meet the new flame because they want to extend their approval \u2013 or not.  While there is nothing wrong, of course, with valuing the input of those who know you best, you have to learn to trust yourself first.  It\u2019s endearing that your friends and family are being protective and are determined to make sure you aren\u2019t hurt again, but this strategy also has a tendency to backfire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As\u00ed que, antes de concertar una cita inicial, aseg\u00farate de que est\u00e1s a gusto con c\u00f3mo van las cosas y de que te sientes c\u00f3modo compartiendo tu nueva llama con el resto del mundo.  S\u00f3lo t\u00fa sabr\u00e1s cu\u00e1ndo es el momento de respirar hondo y lanzarte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Remember, it\u2019s okay to <em>no<\/em> tambi\u00e9n quieren llevar una relaci\u00f3n al siguiente nivel. <\/b><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Recognize your own emotional cues \u2013 thoughts, feelings, intended or unintended body language, and mannerisms that are all too familiar \u2013 and recognize when they are trying to tell you enough is enough.  If there is something that was said or done that didn\u2019t feel right, don\u2019t second-guess your own judgment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Sometimes you may not be able to put your finger on it, but something just feels off \u2013 if it doesn\u2019t <\/b><b><em>parece <\/em><\/b><b>right, it\u2019s not.<\/b><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We don\u2019t have to have all of the answers to have an answer to this question.  If you feel it\u2019s right to take your relationship to the next level, whatever that may be, go for it.  If there is something nagging inside that says to hold off, do.  If there\u2019s something telling you to run, run and never look back.  <b>Conf\u00eda primero en ti mismo y todo lo dem\u00e1s encajar\u00e1.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-Should-You-Take-Your-Relationship-To-The-Next-Level_-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo debe pasar su relaci\u00f3n al siguiente nivel?\" class=\"wp-image-33722\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-Should-You-Take-Your-Relationship-To-The-Next-Level_-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-Should-You-Take-Your-Relationship-To-The-Next-Level_-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-Should-You-Take-Your-Relationship-To-The-Next-Level_.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When should you consider taking your relationship to the next level? This is an important question that will inevitably come up after you\u2019ve been with someone for a while and things are going really well. You might be thinking he could be the one, and your friends and family are dying to meet him. 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