{"id":33733,"date":"2020-03-04T13:10:35","date_gmt":"2020-03-04T13:10:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33733"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:06:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:06:51","slug":"por-eso-es-mas-dificil-superar-a-un-casi-que-a-un-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-eso-es-mas-dificil-superar-a-un-casi-que-a-un-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Por eso es m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil superar a un casi que a un ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las rupturas nunca son f\u00e1ciles para ninguno de los implicados. Terminar con alguien a quien quieres mucho es una de las cosas m\u00e1s dolorosas que existen.<\/p>\n

Tu coraz\u00f3n se rompe en mil pedazos, y no hay nada que puedas hacer al respecto.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfy si rompes con alguien con quien nunca tuviste una relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

What about cutting ties with a man who was never your official boyfriend and about finally accepting that this almost isn\u2019t leading you anywhere?<\/p>\n

How many times have you heard that you can\u2019t lose someone you never had?<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

That you don\u2019t have the right to suffer for someone who was never yours and that you can\u2019t cry over a relationship which was never real?<\/b><\/p>\n

Pues yo lo califico de gilipollez. La verdad es que un <\/strong>desamor<\/strong> es una angustia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if it was caused by someone you called your boyfriend or by someone whose presence in your life never had a label.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even so, sometimes it is even harder to get over an almost ex than a real ex. I should know because this is exactly what I\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n

When you end things with your almost ex, it never happens because you\u2019ve gotten tired of him or because the butterflies in your stomach are gone.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t happen because your relationship has gotten into a rut or because you feel like you\u2019ve had enough of being committed to the other person.<\/p>\n

You see, when you are crying over your almost, you don\u2019t only suffer because you miss them.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t only lament over all the things you guys have been through together and over all the memories you had which will never happen again.<\/p>\n

When you are trying to get over someone you could have never truly called yours, you are also getting over all the things that might have happened between the two of you but didn\u2019t and over all the potential you guys could\u2019ve had as a couple.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Over all the should haves: over all the places you didn\u2019t visit, over all the anniversaries you\u2019ll never celebrate, over all the memories you didn\u2019t have the chance to create together, over all the missed opportunities, and over everything you guys didn\u2019t become.<\/b><\/p>\n

You are also getting over the fact that you\u2019ll never know how it would be to hold this man\u2019s hand in public, how it would be to be his plus one and how it would feel to really be a part of his life.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s llorando por el cierre<\/a><\/b> you\u2019ll never get, over all the explanations you are still waiting for, and over all the questions that were left unanswered.<\/p>\n

Cuando intentas pasar p\u00e1gina con tu casi ex, al mismo tiempo intentas volver a quererte a ti misma.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Intentas ahuyentar todos los pensamientos de que no est\u00e1s hecha para ser amada, las preguntas de por qu\u00e9 nunca fuiste suficiente para que \u00e9l te amara de verdad, y todas las dudas e inseguridades que te trajo esta relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You are crying over the fact that you guys failed before even trying and because you\u2019ll never know if your relationship might have succeeded if you were just brave enough to give it a shot.<\/b><\/p>\n

Over the fact that you\u2019ll never find out if a relationship with this man would have made you happy.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, please don\u2019t ever beat yourself up for suffering over a man whom you nunca sal\u00ed<\/a><\/b>.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel like a fool for lamenting the relationship that never existed because the truth is that it was more than real for you.<\/p>\n

Remember that you don\u2019t owe any explanation to anyone besides yourself.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to look for justification for the fact that you need this long to get over a man who wasn\u2019t your boyfriend nor should you beat yourself up for all the emotions you are feeling.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que tienes derecho a sufrir tanto como la chica de al lado.<\/p>\n

Tienes derecho a hacer las cosas a su ritmo y a tomarte el tiempo que necesites para curarte.<\/p>\n

\"Por<\/p>\n

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Break-ups are never easy for either of the people involved. Ending things with someone you deeply care about is one of the most painful things there is. Your heart shatters into a million pieces, and there is nothing you could do about it. But what about breaking up with someone you were never in a…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":82119,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33733","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/This-Is-Why-Its-Harder-To-Get-Over-An-Almost-Than-An-Ex.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33733","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33733"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33733\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82119"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33733"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33733"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33733"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}