{"id":33747,"date":"2020-06-04T13:56:22","date_gmt":"2020-06-04T13:56:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33747"},"modified":"2022-09-14T08:26:38","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T08:26:38","slug":"7-senales-alarmantes-de-que-te-esta-utilizando-emocionalmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-alarmantes-de-que-te-esta-utilizando-emocionalmente\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales alarmantes de que te est\u00e1 utilizando emocionalmente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ser utilizada emocionalmente no es nada agradable. Te enamoras totalmente de un chico y ni siquiera te da muestras de afecto o amor.<\/p>\n<p>So, you end up confused because you don\u2019t know whether you should continue <b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-maneras-de-mantener-el-interes-de-un-chico-ganador\/\">tratando de gan\u00e1rselo<\/a><\/b> o deber\u00edas dejarlo todo.<\/p>\n<p>Es muy dif\u00edcil ver estas se\u00f1ales, sobre todo al principio de una relaci\u00f3n, pero si quieres saber m\u00e1s sobre ellas, sigue leyendo.<\/p>\n<h2>1. He doesn\u2019t talk about the future<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88656\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-couple-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"pareja seria en el exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-couple-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-couple-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-couple-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si tu hombre nunca habla de planes de futuro contigo, lo m\u00e1s probable es que te est\u00e9 utilizando emocionalmente.<\/p>\n<p>Simplemente se siente bien estando contigo en este momento, pero no est\u00e1 planeando casarse contigo ni tener hijos contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que tienes que hacer es preguntarle directamente cu\u00e1les son sus planes con respecto a ti, ya que no piensas esperar a que se recomponga.<\/p>\n<p>If he refuses to talk about the future with you, it is a sure-fire sign that he is using you and you shouldn\u2019t waste your time with him anymore.<\/p>\n<h2>2. No es afectuoso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88657\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-couple-walking-in-silence.jpg\" alt=\"joven pareja caminando en silencio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-couple-walking-in-silence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-couple-walking-in-silence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-couple-walking-in-silence-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When was the last time he hugged you and told you he loves you? When was the last time he made you feel special? I know, you can\u2019t even remember, right?<\/p>\n<p>A man like this is with you just because he feels good about it but he isn\u2019t planning on devoting himself totally to you.<\/p>\n<p>En cambio, s\u00f3lo te utilizar\u00e1 porque eres buena para algunas cosas pero no lo suficiente para que se case contigo.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t feel nice and desirable in this kind of a relationship, you shouldn\u2019t even try to make things better.<\/p>\n<p>If he is not capable of doing something about it, you shouldn\u2019t worry about it either.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-un-hombre-te-utiliza-por-dinero\/\">25 se\u00f1ales de que un hombre te est\u00e1 utilizando por dinero que no deber\u00edas ignorar<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>3. Te llama s\u00f3lo cuando te necesita<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88660\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-speaking-on-his-phone-while-driving-car-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre hablando por tel\u00e9fono mientras conduce\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-speaking-on-his-phone-while-driving-car-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-speaking-on-his-phone-while-driving-car-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-speaking-on-his-phone-while-driving-car-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si tienes esa sensaci\u00f3n constante de que tu chico te llama s\u00f3lo cuando te necesita, deber\u00edas pensarte dos veces si es el hombre con el que quieres pasar el resto de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>If he is not your support when you need him the most, then he surely doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Habla de otras chicas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88661\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"pareja disgustada hablando en un caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un hombre as\u00ed s\u00f3lo te est\u00e1 utilizando emocionalmente y nunca ser\u00e1 un hombre con el que puedas ser feliz.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo se ocupa de sus necesidades y nunca te dar\u00e1 el amor que realmente mereces. As\u00ed que, cuanto antes lo dejes, mejor ser\u00e1 para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando est\u00e1s con \u00e9l siempre habla de otras chicas, de lo exitosas y guapas que son.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que te quedas ah\u00ed y <b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/gracias-por-hacerme-sentir-como-una-mierda\/\">me siento como una mierda<\/a><\/b> porque el hombre del que est\u00e1s perdidamente enamorada habla de otras chicas con admiraci\u00f3n y nunca habla de ti de esa manera.<\/p>\n<p>Behavior like that is simply humiliating and you shouldn\u2019t put up with something that makes you feel bad.<\/p>\n<p>I am not saying that he shouldn\u2019t talk about other girls but if you feel bad about his words he should stop it.<\/p>\n<p>Tiene que saber que eres su prioridad y su novia y que tiene que ponerse las pilas si quiere mantenerte en su vida.<\/p>\n<h2>5. He isn\u2019t romantic at all<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88662\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Image-of-young-angry-woman-arguing-with-her-husband.jpg\" alt=\"Imagen de una joven enfadada discutiendo con su marido\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Image-of-young-angry-woman-arguing-with-her-husband.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Image-of-young-angry-woman-arguing-with-her-husband-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Image-of-young-angry-woman-arguing-with-her-husband-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you remember the last time your man did something romantic for you? I didn\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n<p>I am not saying he should make surprises for you every single day but you deserve some recognition on your birthday or on Valentine\u2019s Day for example.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t even remember your birthday and he makes zero effort to make you feel special, you should ask yourself what you are doing with a person like that.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres un novio que te quiera y te respete como realmente te mereces, te sugiero que lo dejes y empieces a centrarte en ti misma. Cr\u00e9eme, nunca ser\u00e1s verdaderamente feliz con un hombre as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2>6. He doesn\u2019t have any deep conversations with you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88666\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"El hombre discute con su novia, que est\u00e1 sentada a su lado en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si tu hombre act\u00faa como si estuvieras all\u00ed s\u00f3lo para cumplir sus deseos y nunca habla seriamente contigo, deber\u00edas preocuparte porque es una se\u00f1al probada de que s\u00f3lo te est\u00e1 utilizando.<\/p>\n<p>He probably doesn\u2019t feel anything for you and you are there just to fill a void.<\/p>\n<p>Y eso no es lo que una mujer se merece. Debes tener una pareja cari\u00f1osa y atenta que te demuestre que te quiere.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need someone who will just come home to eat, change his clothes and go out with his friends, totally ignoring you.<\/p>\n<p>Ninguna mujer deber\u00eda aguantar algo as\u00ed y t\u00fa tampoco.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Sientes que algo no va bien<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88668\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-typing.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada mientras un hombre teclea\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-typing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-typing-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-typing-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-typing-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Eres una mujer. Usted puede <b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/20-senales-innegables-de-que-te-quiere-en-secreto-y-profundamente\/\">sentir las cosas profundamente<\/a><\/b>. Si tu instinto te dice que algo no va bien, probablemente as\u00ed sea.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel that the relationship you have is not a good one, it probably isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>There are some reasons why you feel that way and even if you don\u2019t see things clearly, you can definitely feel them.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre que sientas que no eres t\u00fa mismo en una relaci\u00f3n con alguien, eso es una bandera roja instant\u00e1nea para dejar a esa persona.<\/p>\n<p>If your man doesn\u2019t want to make any effort to improve your relationship then you should just let him go. Trust me, a man like that is not worth the effort.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88651\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/7-Alarming-Signs-He-Is-Emotionally-Using-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 se\u00f1ales alarmantes de que te est\u00e1 utilizando emocionalmente\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/7-Alarming-Signs-He-Is-Emotionally-Using-You-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/7-Alarming-Signs-He-Is-Emotionally-Using-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being emotionally used doesn\u2019t feel nice at all. You catch yourself totally falling for a guy and he doesn\u2019t even show any signs of affection or love. So, you end up confused because you don\u2019t know whether you should continue trying to win him over or you should just leave it all. It is very&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":88652,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33747","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/7-Alarming-Signs-He-Is-Emotionally-Using-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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