{"id":33767,"date":"2020-06-05T08:59:47","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T08:59:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33767"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:26:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:26:35","slug":"ella-no-esta-emocionalmente-indisponible-ella-solo-esta-protegiendo-su-corazon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ella-no-esta-emocionalmente-indisponible-ella-solo-esta-protegiendo-su-corazon\/","title":{"rendered":"No est\u00e1 emocionalmente indisponible, s\u00f3lo protege su coraz\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quieres acercarte a ella pero te rechaza. Quieres mostrarle afecto pero ella se asusta y huye.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And the first thing that comes to your mind is that she is emotionally unavailable. But I\u2019m sorry to tell you that she\u2019s anything but that!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Es una chica que ha pasado por mucho y por eso le cuesta confiar tan f\u00e1cilmente en otras personas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ha probado el sabor amargo de sus l\u00e1grimas, ha probado el amor no correspondido y lo que se siente al no poder hacer nada.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that is why she is no longer able to give all of herself to someone if she\u2019s not ensured that she\u2019s doing the right thing.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s not afraid of falling in love, she\u2019s just cautious to whom she\u2019s giving her heart.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s not afraid to fight with every atom of her being for the things she believes in. No, she is not afraid to fight for love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As a matter of fact, she fought many battles before and now she\u2019s just cautious about choosing them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No teme enamorarse de otro coraz\u00f3n, s\u00f3lo quiere estar segura de que su amor ser\u00e1 correspondido.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She has learned many lessons the hard way and that is why she\u2019s eager to protect her heart above everything else.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s not emotionally unavailable, she\u2019s just protecting her heart from potential narcissists and toxic manipulators, their selfishness and lies. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s protecting herself from always being the one who cares more.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When she loves, she loves with all of her body and heart or she doesn\u2019t love at all and she has paid a high price for that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She realized that she needs to protect herself from any potential harm because if she doesn\u2019t do so, no one will do so for her.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se dio cuenta de que si quiere ser verdaderamente feliz, tiene que empezar a cuidar tambi\u00e9n de s\u00ed misma y no s\u00f3lo de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, don\u2019t you dare call her emotionally unavailable or blame her for playing hard to get!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s not the same girl who used to wear her heart on her sleeve. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you want to win her, you will have to fight hard to prove that you\u2019re worthy of her. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tendr\u00e1s que luchar duro para hacer un esfuerzo en lugar de simplemente <\/em><\/strong>poner excusas<\/em><\/strong><\/a>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If there\u2019s one thing she got tired of, that is excuses. She can no longer afford to tolerate other people\u2019s bullshit because she owes that much to her heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ya no puede permitirse estar en deuda consigo misma porque merece ser tratada con aprecio y respeto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if you\u2019re willing to be a part of her life, the only way to her heart is by fighting hard to prove to her that you\u2019re not like the rest of them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That you won\u2019t make her sad, treat her for granted or make her feel less worthy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si te esfuerzas por hacerla sentir especial, ella lo notar\u00e1. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you make sure that you\u2019ll always be there when she needs you, she will notice it. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si tratas su coraz\u00f3n con cuidado, ella lo notar\u00e1.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y s\u00f3lo entonces te creer\u00e1 que tus intenciones son puras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Te creer\u00e1 cuando le demuestres amor con tus actos y no s\u00f3lo con palabras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She will decide to be fully someone\u2019s only when her heart tells her that it feels loved and safe in their arms.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y hasta que eso ocurra, seguir\u00e1 protegi\u00e9ndolo porque su coraz\u00f3n es lo m\u00e1s valioso que posee.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Las l\u00e1grimas pueden enjugarse, las noches agitadas pueden sustituirse por noches de felicidad, pero su coraz\u00f3n nunca podr\u00e1 recuperarse por completo de todo el dolor de su pasado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No, she\u2019s not emocionalmente no disponible<\/a>, she\u2019s just protecting the last pieces of her broken heart so that she can be able to love again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s just waiting for someone who will make her feel comfortable being vulnerable again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Someone who will protect her heart the same way she\u2019s protecting it now. Someone special.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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