{"id":33793,"date":"2020-03-05T12:29:19","date_gmt":"2020-03-05T12:29:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33793"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:49:09","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:49:09","slug":"6-razones-por-las-que-te-sientes-atraido-por-alguien-que-no-es-para-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-razones-por-las-que-te-sientes-atraido-por-alguien-que-no-es-para-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"6 razones por las que te sientes atra\u00eddo por alguien completamente equivocado para ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sientes como si estuvieras conectado a un nivel m\u00e1s profundo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Es bastante normal tener esa conexi\u00f3n instant\u00e1nea con alguien, la qu\u00edmica que te hace sentir unido a esa persona.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s almost like you knew them in a different lifetime.<\/p>\n

Pero esa conexi\u00f3n puede ser enga\u00f1osa.<\/p>\n

Hay una gran diferencia entre lujuria y amor<\/a>, so make sure you don\u2019t confuse the two.<\/p>\n

Lo que sientes por ellos puede que no sea amor de verdad.<\/p>\n

Tu yo herido influye en qui\u00e9n te atrae<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the part of you that makes you think that you need the other person to complete you and make you happy.<\/p>\n

Hasta que no cambies esa creencia, corres un gran riesgo de elegir a hombres que no te convienen.<\/p>\n

Antes de empezar una relaci\u00f3n con alguien, tienes que trabajar en la que tienes contigo mismo.<\/p>\n

Tienes que curar tus heridas y aprender a quererte, respetarte y hacerte feliz.<\/p>\n

No one else can do it for you. Once you manage to do that you\u2019ll be able to establish standards and choose more wisely.<\/p>\n

Crees que puedes ayudarles a cambiar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Hay muchas cosas que hacen que un hombre sienta que no est\u00e1 preparado para una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Tiene problemas familiares, laborales, cargas emocionales, etc. y t\u00fa crees que puedes hacer algo para ayudarle a cambiar eso y lo menos que puedes hacer es esperar a que est\u00e9 preparado.<\/p>\n

Se equivoca. No hay nada que puedas hacer para ayudarle.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, sus problemas pueden ser reales o inventados.<\/p>\n

Secondly, if they are real, they are not your responsibility. As it\u2019s your job to fix yourself so it\u2019s theirs to fix themselves.<\/p>\n

Una persona cambia s\u00f3lo si siente la necesidad de cambiar y no hay nada que puedas hacer al respecto.<\/p>\n

Te hizo creer que es genial y que deber\u00edas estar feliz de tenerlo.<\/h2>\n

\"feliz<\/p>\n

Esta es una se\u00f1al de alarma importante y probablemente tratando con alguien manipulador y narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ese tipo de personas te convencer\u00e1n de que son dioses y de que deber\u00edas estar agradecido porque est\u00e1n en tu vida.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s even worse is the way in which they achieve that effect; they do their best to lower your self-esteem and make you feel less so they can manipulate you into thinking that your life would be worthless in their absence.<\/p>\n

Be careful and don\u2019t allow anyone to make you feel worthless or unlovable as soon as you notice the signs, cut them out of your life for good.<\/p>\n

You are influenced by other people\u2019s opinions<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

When your friend or family member or a co-worker tells you for the millionth time that someone is just perfect for you\u2014you start to believe it yourself.<\/p>\n

A veces aciertan, pero la mayor\u00eda de las veces acabas conform\u00e1ndote con menos que el amor del alma o, en el peor de los casos, con alguien t\u00f3xico que parece genial a los ojos de los dem\u00e1s porque te convirti\u00f3 en el malo de la pel\u00edcula.<\/p>\n

Trust your gut, if something feels off it\u2019s because it\u2019s off.<\/p>\n

Silence all that heartfelt advice and listen to your heart and soul; nobody knows what\u2019s best for you except you.<\/p>\n

Confundes enamorarse de alguien con amar a alguien<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Just because you are head over heels for somebody, it doesn\u2019t mean that they are your forever person.<\/p>\n

Estar enamorado y amar a alguien<\/a> son dos t\u00e9rminos y dos sentimientos diferentes.<\/p>\n

\u2018Being in love\u2019 makes you feel like you are addicted, it can grow into love but it can stay on more basic sentiments such as lust and infatuation.<\/p>\n

Whereas \u2018loving somebody\u2019 is something extraordinary but at the same time real. It\u2019s about making efforts and creating happiness together.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s loving even when everything doesn\u2019t go as planned. It\u2019s mutual respect and devotion.  <\/p>\n

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