{"id":33805,"date":"2019-03-06T07:37:16","date_gmt":"2019-03-06T07:37:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33805"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:44:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:44:38","slug":"una-vez-que-pierdas-a-la-persona-con-la-que-te-conformas-te-daras-cuenta-de-lo-que-te-mereces","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-vez-que-pierdas-a-la-persona-con-la-que-te-conformas-te-daras-cuenta-de-lo-que-te-mereces\/","title":{"rendered":"Una vez que pierdas a la persona con la que te est\u00e1s conformando, te dar\u00e1s cuenta de lo que mereces"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Even though you aren\u2019t aware of this, <strong>hay veces en que querer y necesitar algo son dos cosas distintas.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Momentos en los que est\u00e1s convencido de que perder a alguien a quien quieres profundamente te destruir\u00eda por completo, cuando a la larga, en realidad ser\u00eda lo mejor que podr\u00eda pasarte.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Momentos en los que est\u00e1s convencido de que aferrarte a una persona mejorar\u00e1 tu vida cuando en realidad <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/por-fin-dejar-ir\/\"><strong>dejarse llevar<\/strong><\/a><strong> de ellos es exactamente lo que tienes que hacer, a pesar de todo el dolor temporal que pueda causarte. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Times when you don\u2019t see that you are settling for way less than you deserve, thinking it\u2019s the best you can ever have.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Esto es exactamente lo que est\u00e1 pasando con usted y el hombre que est\u00e1 involucrado en este momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>You don\u2019t want to let him go because you don\u2019t know that bigger things await you once you do.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49039\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/aricka-lewis-4Xqr4IXMK_0-unsplash1.jpg\" alt=\"chica sola\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/aricka-lewis-4Xqr4IXMK_0-unsplash1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/aricka-lewis-4Xqr4IXMK_0-unsplash1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/aricka-lewis-4Xqr4IXMK_0-unsplash1-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Even though deep down you are very much aware that he is not the guy for you, you keep on hoping that things will change for the better and that one of these days, he\u2019ll become the man you need him to be.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Let\u2019s face it\u2014you are terrified of walking away from this man because you don\u2019t know if you could survive without him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Tienes miedo de que perderle te da\u00f1e emocionalmente hasta un punto irreparable.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Bueno, no estoy aqu\u00ed para mentirte dici\u00e9ndote que dejar ir a este hombre ser\u00eda f\u00e1cil porque ser\u00e1 cualquier cosa menos eso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>S\u00ed, al principio ser\u00e1 un infierno. Ser\u00e1 malo. Hasta que mejore.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>After a while, you\u2019ll finally see that all this time, you were just settling for less.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Maybe you did it because he manipulated you into thinking that you\u2019d never find someone else, maybe you were afraid of being alone, maybe you did it because of the past you guys shared together or maybe you didn\u2019t have the courage to escape from the comfort zone he represented.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Either way, the point is the same\u2014you were getting back less than you were giving and less than you deserved.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49040\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/emiliano-vittoriosi-JVDj7Wh1d3Y-unsplash2.jpg\" alt=\"chica con pelo largo\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/emiliano-vittoriosi-JVDj7Wh1d3Y-unsplash2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/emiliano-vittoriosi-JVDj7Wh1d3Y-unsplash2-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/emiliano-vittoriosi-JVDj7Wh1d3Y-unsplash2-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>After a while, you\u2019ll understand that things had to be this way\u2014that everything in life happens for a reason and for a bigger cause.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You\u2019ll understand that God always has a plan and that this guy had a role in your life\u2014that he was there to teach you some valuable life lessons.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>That if it wasn\u2019t for this man, you would never know what you don\u2019t want from life and what you don\u2019t need from a man.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>You\u2019ll see that all of the struggles you had to go through were just there to toughen you up and to turn you into the woman you are today. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Que tuviste que pasar por una relaci\u00f3n sin amor para finalmente aprender a amarte a ti mismo. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Que ten\u00edas que ser traicionado para ser lo suficientemente fuerte como para confiar en ti mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You\u2019ll see that sometimes, God fixes you just to put you back together.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Que hay momentos en los que tienes que romperte en pedazos s\u00f3lo para reconstruir una versi\u00f3n mejor y m\u00e1s poderosa de ti mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49041\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/anthony-tran-iRbHr8jpmGw-unsplash2.jpg\" alt=\"chica cerca de la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/anthony-tran-iRbHr8jpmGw-unsplash2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/anthony-tran-iRbHr8jpmGw-unsplash2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/anthony-tran-iRbHr8jpmGw-unsplash2-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Most importantly, once you finally move on from this man, you\u2019ll understand that the only way to truly realize what you deserve is to lose everything and everyone you\u2019re settling for.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Que la \u00fanica forma de despejar el camino para el hombre digno de ti es deshaci\u00e9ndote de todos aquellos que nunca fueron lo suficientemente buenos. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Que la \u00fanica manera de encontrar a tu Sr. Correcto es dejando ir a todos esos Sr. Errores.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>And once this special man finally enters your life, and he will come when you least expect him to, it is only then when you\u2019ll grow to understand why it never worked with all those guys before him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It is only then when you\u2019ll grow to understand that you simply had to go through all of those half-assed loves because <strong>if it wasn\u2019t for them, you would never know how to recognize the right one when you saw him, nor would you appreciate it the right way.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-33809\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-54-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Una vez que pierdas a la persona con la que te est\u00e1s conformando, te dar\u00e1s cuenta de lo que mereces\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-54-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-54-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-54.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 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Times when you are convinced that losing someone you deeply care for would destroy you completely, when in the long run, it would actually be the best thing that could ever happen to you. 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