mujer fuerte e independiente<\/a> is something to be admired, there is a way in which you can go to extremes with it. Most men like to feel needed \u2013 it\u2019s in their DNA.<\/p>\nIf you repeatedly say that you don\u2019t need anybody, that you are fine on your own, they will believe you. They will feel like a spare.<\/p>\n
As\u00ed que s\u00e9 independiente, pero deja que te ayude a mover el sof\u00e1 y a llevar las bolsas de la compra.<\/p>\n
It doesn\u2019t matter that you can do it yourself. Take it a step further by asking for his opinion or advice.<\/p>\n
Find a balance. Let him know that you want him in your life, even if you don\u2019t need him.<\/p>\n
But don\u2019t take it too far either. Dependence is even worse and it will without a doubt make him lose interest.<\/p>\n
Quieres acelerar tu relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n
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It\u2019s only natural to daydream at the beginning of a relationship. But it\u2019s also easy to get carried away and take things too far.<\/p>\n
You start to connect your name with his surname, you name your children, and think about where would you live, while you\u2019ve been on 5 dates so far.<\/p>\n
No est\u00e1s sola en todo esto. Muchas mujeres, entre las que me incluyo, son culpables de esto, aunque les cueste admitirlo.<\/p>\n
Lower your pace and whatever you do, don\u2019t talk to him about your plans of happily ever after together.<\/p>\n
Men usually don\u2019t think that far ahead; they take it one day at a time.<\/p>\n
Intenta seguir su ejemplo. Evitar\u00e1s hacerte da\u00f1o por ilusionarte demasiado pronto y reducir\u00e1s el riesgo de ahuyentarlo.<\/p>\n
You want to \u201cimprove\u201d him<\/h2>\n
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It\u2019s hard work trying to change things about yourself that you don\u2019t like, let alone another person.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s mission impossible, useless, and it will only end your relationship. If he accepts you just the way you are, do the same for him.<\/p>\n
Sure, we can change little things about ourselves to accommodate someone else, hear them out, see that we aren\u2019t always right, and decide to make compromises, but our essence will always stay the same.<\/p>\n
A person you are supposed to spend your forever with will be full of flaws just like you are, but the thing that will keep you together is that you will be able to handle each other’s flaws.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s also important to stress that if he is generally a bad person who treats you poorly and plays with your feelings, it\u2019s time you end things, not fix things.<\/p>\n
You don\u2019t give him enough space<\/h2>\n
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Nobody likes feeling suffocated or trapped \u2013 especially men. If you go overboard with texting or your desires to see him every waking hour, he will start to think that you have no life and that you are obsessed with him.<\/p>\n
I believe that\u2019s not the message you want to send. Don\u2019t neglect your friends, interests, or life just because you\u2019ve met somebody new and interesting.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t send him a follow-up text, don\u2019t force the conversation, avoid being too needy, and you will do just fine.<\/p>\n
Let him be a man \u2013 let him go after you \u2013 and meet each other halfway. That goes for texting, planning dates, and making effort in general.<\/p>\n
No conoces la trampa de la profec\u00eda autocumplida<\/h2>\n
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When you think that everything will go south, that it won\u2019t work no matter what you do, the odds are it will happen exactly that way and you are setting your relationship up for failure.<\/p>\n
Para evitar que la profec\u00eda autocumplida se haga realidad, deja de ser tan negativo con todo. Recuerda la ley de la atracci\u00f3n y env\u00eda solo buenas vibraciones. <\/p>\n
Your past might make you lose trust in love and doubt the fact that there are still good men out there, but the past is the past for a reason. Don\u2019t allow it to interfere in your future.<\/p>\n
Things are going to work once you are with your forever person \u2013 there is no doubt about it \u2013 and you will realize that you can love harder, dream bigger, and laugh louder than you ever have before.<\/p>\n
If you don\u2019t find yourself doing any of these things, you are lucky. Trust your friends when they say \u201cIt\u2019s not you\u2026 it\u2019s him.\u201d<\/p>\n
Because they are right. There are some outside factors that you can\u2019t influence.<\/p>\n
Para ser completamente honesto, podr\u00eda encontrar a mi antiguo yo en la mitad de las cosas que he enumerado anteriormente.<\/p>\n
Once I figured out what I was doing wrong, I could fix it. I think it\u2019s always better to know the truth than to bury your head in the sand, no matter how much it pained me to admit that I was wrong.<\/p>\n
Por ejemplo, cuando empec\u00e9 a vivir el presente y a disfrutar del momento, y dej\u00e9 de adelantar el futuro, mi vida amorosa mejor\u00f3. <\/p>\n
Estoy seguro de que la suya tambi\u00e9n lo har\u00e1.
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