{"id":33905,"date":"2019-03-07T11:24:52","date_gmt":"2019-03-07T11:24:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33905"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:42:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:42:25","slug":"deja-de-guardar-un-lugar-en-tu-corazon-para-el-hombre-que-no-quiere-estar-en-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-guardar-un-lugar-en-tu-corazon-para-el-hombre-que-no-quiere-estar-en-el\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de guardar un lugar en tu coraz\u00f3n para el hombre que no quiere estar en \u00e9l"},"content":{"rendered":"

El mundo ser\u00eda un lugar mucho m\u00e1s feliz si pudi\u00e9ramos decidir c\u00f3mo y a qui\u00e9n amar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ser\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil si pudi\u00e9ramos chasquear los dedos y expulsar de nuestro sistema a alguien que no nos conviene, para no volver a pensar en \u00e9l nunca m\u00e1s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, sadly things don\u2019t work like that at all, do they now?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, a veces es exactamente lo que hay que hacer, incluso cuando parece misi\u00f3n imposible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A veces, hay que ser lo suficientemente fuerte y <\/strong>decide dejar de amar<\/strong><\/a> alguien que obviamente no es digno de ti, alguien que te est\u00e1 haciendo la vida imposible.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, you need to stop waiting for a man who won\u2019t return to come back. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

To stop having a reserved seat for him in your life when it\u2019s obvious that he doesn\u2019t want it.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00e9 que sigues acumulando todas tus esperanzas, pensando que este hombre al que amas tan profundamente cambiar\u00e1. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know you hold on tight to the thought that eventually, he\u2019ll come to his senses and that things between you guys will become different.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Odio ser el que rompa tu burbuja y el que te rompa el coraz\u00f3n, pero tengo que decirte que nada de esto ocurrir\u00e1 jam\u00e1s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, he will remain the same douchebag he\u2019s always been, and you\u2019ll waste more of your time if you continue keeping a place in your heart for him.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t want to be cruel, but this guy obviously <\/strong>doesn\u2019t love you back<\/strong><\/a>, and he clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you trying around him. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What is even worse\u2013he doesn\u2019t want your love either. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He doesn\u2019t respect your feelings, he doesn\u2019t appreciate your sacrifices, and he doesn\u2019t cherish your loving heart.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So what more proof do you need to understand that he isn\u2019t worthy of you? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What else does he have to do to make you finally realize that he\u2019ll never become the man you need him to be and that he\u2019ll never be capable of giving you the love you need?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 hace falta para que finalmente lo eches de tu coraz\u00f3n? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfPara que dejes de excusarle y para que dejes de justificarle?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00e9 que todo este tiempo, est\u00e1s buscando razones. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t help but wonder why he doesn\u2019t love you the way he should, and why he is doing everything possible to chase you away from him.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00e9 que quieres una explicaci\u00f3n, un cierre que te ayude a seguir adelante. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfEs incapaz de amar en general o es s\u00f3lo a ti a quien no puede amar?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, darling, it\u2019s time you accept that these are the questions which will always remain unanswered, the same way you need to accept that waiting for him is in vain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And after all, knowing all of these things wouldn\u2019t change anything, would it? So why do you keep bothering with it?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En lugar de torturar tu mente, pensando en este hombre y perdiendo el tiempo en esperar a que entre en raz\u00f3n, concentra toda tu energ\u00eda en tu objetivo final y ese es eliminarlo de tu sistema.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is to stop giving him the love he doesn\u2019t deserve, to stop beating yourself up for him, and to stop giving him the attention he is not entitled to.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2013this will be everything but easy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, es algo que hay que hacer por tu propio bien.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s time you look the harsh truth in the eyes and acknowledge the fact that you are nothing but a back up plan and a safety net to this man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una chica que pondr\u00e1 su vida en pausa por \u00e9l siempre que le apetezca. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

For you to accept that you\u2019ll never be his priority and first choice.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s time to leave this road to nowhere and start walking on the path of moving on. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Es hora de que tomes tu vida en tus manos y elijas <\/strong>qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo<\/strong><\/a> m\u00e1s de lo que quieres a este imb\u00e9cil.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most importantly, it\u2019s time to choose healing over hurting. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Elegir soltar en lugar de aferrarse, el futuro en lugar del pasado y la felicidad en lugar del dolor.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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