{"id":34073,"date":"2020-08-11T08:25:29","date_gmt":"2020-08-11T08:25:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34073"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:59:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:59:21","slug":"no-estas-preparado-para-la-elegida-hasta-que-sales-con-la-equivocada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-estas-preparado-para-la-elegida-hasta-que-sales-con-la-equivocada\/","title":{"rendered":"No est\u00e1s preparado para \"la elegida\" hasta que sales con \"la equivocada\""},"content":{"rendered":"

Lo que pasa con \"el equivocado\" es que no viene con una se\u00f1al de advertencia pegada a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t immediately know how toxic he is and it\u2019s easy enough to confuse him for \u201cthe one.\u201d<\/p>\n

The thing is, the wrong one won\u2019t show his true face right away.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s even more confusing is the fact that he was perfect at the beginning of your relationship and only once you were head over heels for him, he started to change.<\/p>\n

You couldn\u2019t believe the transformation. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Your prince charming became a toad and that\u2019s not how the fairytale was supposed to go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pasaste mucho tiempo esperando que las cosas volvieran a ser como antes.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Segu\u00edas pensando que ese hombre dulce, cari\u00f1oso y atento a\u00fan est\u00e1 en alg\u00fan lugar dentro de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Lamentablemente, la verdad es que ese hombre nunca existi\u00f3.<\/p>\n

He pretended he was something he\u2019s not, and you fell for it.<\/p>\n

Nunca te habr\u00eda gustado tanto si hubiera mostrado su verdadera cara al principio.<\/p>\n

Nunca habr\u00edas ca\u00eddo en el comportamiento de mierda, los esfuerzos m\u00ednimos y los juegos mentales que vinieron despu\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

By then it was already too late \u2013 you were already in love with him.<\/p>\n

Le quer\u00edas por lo que cre\u00edas que era.<\/p>\n

You loved the false image of a man he created, but that wasn\u2019t true love. He wasn\u2019t the one for you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ahora te quedas destrozada, recogiendo los pedazos de tu coraz\u00f3n y de tu vida, intentando mantenerlo unido porque \u00e9l te arruin\u00f3 emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

It hurts \u2013 it will hurt for a long time \u2013 but the best thing he could have done for you is be out of your life for good.<\/p>\n

I know you wish it wasn\u2019t like this, that you can just skip the bad part and get to the moment in future where you are living your happily ever after.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, good things don\u2019t come easy and without the bad times, you would never grow, evolve, and become the person your alma gemela<\/a> se enamorar\u00e1 perdidamente.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, llegar\u00e1 un d\u00eda en el que agradecer\u00e1s que todo sucediera como sucedi\u00f3.<\/p>\n

One day you will be able to look back and give the wrong man a big thank you because he paved the road to the right one\u2026 to the one you are supposed to spend your forever with.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You see…<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

El equivocado te mostr\u00f3 lo que el amor no es y nunca se supone que sea<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te dio calor, luego te mostr\u00f3 la peor frialdad que hayas experimentado en tu vida.<\/p>\n

Te baj\u00f3 la autoestima y te hizo sentir que tienes que esforzarte m\u00e1s para mantenerlo en tu vida.<\/p>\n

El amor nunca es cruel y nunca debe utilizarse como arma para manipular a alguien.<\/p>\n

En lugar de apreciar y corresponder tus sentimientos hacia \u00e9l, los utiliz\u00f3 en tu contra.<\/p>\n

Su n\u00facleo est\u00e1 podrido y nunca fue digno de ti, no al rev\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

El equivocado te ense\u00f1\u00f3 a reconocer las banderas rojas<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"morena<\/p>\n

You are now more careful. You will see the signs you missed when you were with him; you won\u2019t ignore your inner voice telling you that something isn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n

Someone\u2019s constant mood swings, inconsistency, lies and controlling or abusive behavior will trigger the alarms inside of you and tell you to run as far away from that person as you humanly can.<\/p>\n

En cierto modo, tu ex te salv\u00f3 de involucrarte con un hombre como \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

El equivocado te hizo m\u00e1s fuerte<\/strong><\/p>\n

It won\u2019t seem like that at first; you will be sad, confused, disillusioned on the whole idea of love.<\/p>\n

Pero seguir\u00e1s adelante; volver\u00e1s a parchearte; empezar\u00e1s tu vida de cero.<\/p>\n

Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, aprender\u00e1s a apreciarte a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Crecer\u00e1s en amor propio, florecer\u00e1s y aprender\u00e1s de tu dolor. Te convertir\u00e1s en la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo gracias a ello.<\/p>\n

La equivocada te har\u00e1 apreciar la correcta <\/strong>Your forever person will be everything your ex didn\u2019t know how to be.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 el doble de hombre que tu ex. Te dar\u00e1 poder y te har\u00e1 sentir hermosa, aceptada y querida.<\/p>\n

He will be your strength \u2013 on the other hand, you\u2019ll be his weakness.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1s alguien que le ayude a bajar la guardia masculina y a mostrar su lado sensible.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like an exchange of power.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s reciprocity. It\u2019s togetherness. It\u2019s love in its purest form. It\u2019s all you needed and never had with the hombre equivocado.<\/a><\/p>\n

The right one \u2013 the one \u2013 will show you what love is all about<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Necesitas un hombre que sea respetuoso, digno de confianza, coherente.<\/p>\n

Necesitas un hombre que te haga sentir segura y cuidada, y eso lo tendr\u00e1s cuando conozcas al hombre adecuado.<\/p>\n

Una vez que est\u00e9s con la elegida, ver\u00e1s por qu\u00e9 nunca funcion\u00f3 con nadie m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

You will be thankful because you will know that all the tears, struggles, and pain weren\u2019t in vain.<\/p>\n

Una vez que est\u00e9s con la persona indicada, tendr\u00e1s a alguien que enjugar\u00e1 tus l\u00e1grimas y permanecer\u00e1 a tu lado en los momentos dif\u00edciles.<\/p>\n

Tendr\u00e1s a alguien que har\u00e1 todo lo posible por hacerte feliz.<\/p>\n

Now tell me, isn\u2019t that special someone worth the wait?<\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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