{"id":34114,"date":"2020-03-12T08:07:01","date_gmt":"2020-03-12T08:07:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34114"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:43:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:43:24","slug":"si-quieres-conseguir-al-chico-sal-como-un-chico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-quieres-conseguir-al-chico-sal-como-un-chico\/","title":{"rendered":"Si quieres conquistar a un chico, sal con \u00e9l como si lo fueras"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quien dijo que los hombres y las mujeres vienen de planetas diferentes sab\u00eda exactamente de lo que hablaba.<\/p>\r\n

Simplemente estamos conectados de forma diferente y, la mayor\u00eda de las veces, nos comunicamos mal con maestr\u00eda.<\/p>\r\n

In addition to that, the dating world today has become a man\u2019s world and it seems like women are running a greater risk of getting hurt in this difficult game of love.<\/p>\r\n

The thing is we don\u2019t want to play games; we don\u2019t want to resort to manipulation tactics to get the man of our dreams.<\/p>\r\n

The good news is we don\u2019t have to do that\u2026 but we have to do something.<\/p>\r\n

Tenemos que empezar a salir como hombres.<\/p>\r\n

Y la mejor manera de conseguirlo es intentar comprenderlos.<\/p>\r\n

I know it sounds impossible, but it\u2019s really not all that complicated. We have to refuse to play games and adopt the things that they are good at.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

1. Don\u2019t chase\u2026 become chasable<\/h2>\r\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\r\n\r\n

\u00bfTe has dado cuenta de que cuanto m\u00e1s persigues algo en la vida, m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido se te escapa?<\/p>\r\n

Pues a los hombres les pasa lo mismo. Son cazadores natos y pierden el inter\u00e9s o se intimidan si se sienten presas.<\/p>\r\n

Por otro lado, si encuentran a una mujer que posea los rasgos que les gustan<\/a>, they will pursue her and they won\u2019t stop at anything to win her over.<\/p>\r\n

If you wonder how to become chasable, it\u2019s actually quite easy \u2013 and I\u2019ll be brutally honest here \u2013 live your own life.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t quit on your dreams, friends, or interests.<\/p>\r\n

Look at him as your equal and not someone on a pedestal. Invest as much as he does; don\u2019t overdo it.<\/p>\r\n

Haz que forme parte de tu vida, no de todo tu universo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

2. B\u00e1jale uno o dos niveles<\/h2>\r\n

\"feliz<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Las mujeres tienden a ir m\u00e1s all\u00e1 cuando les gusta alguien de verdad, as\u00ed que exageran.<\/p>\r\n

They try too hard, while the other side does nothing. If you see yourself in this description, it\u2019s time to kick it down a notch or two.<\/p>\r\n

Siga su ejemplo. Invierte tanto como \u00e9l.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t send a follow-up text when he is not responding. Don\u2019t plan una noche fuera<\/a> if he isn\u2019t planning one.<\/p>\r\n

This is not about playing games, it\u2019s about something much more important and that\u2019s RECIPROCITY.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

3. Evitar las zonas grises<\/h2>\r\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Men hardly ever find themselves in the gray area. To them, it\u2019s all black and white and they are quite clear about what they want.<\/p>\r\n

That\u2019s one of the parts of dating like a man that is essential to adopt. When you are meh about someone, don\u2019t date them at all.<\/p>\r\n

When you detect the red flags and see some behavior in a man you don\u2019t wish to tolerate, cut them out of your life.<\/p>\r\n

Men do that; they don\u2019t even need a reasonable explanation. When something doesn\u2019t feel good, they move on.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

4. Don\u2019t treat him like your boyfriend until he mans up and says he is completely yours<\/h2>\r\n

\"joven<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Antes de saber con certeza que lo vuestro es exclusivo, mant\u00e9n tus opciones abiertas.<\/p>\r\n

Dios sabe que los hombres siempre lo hacen y eso hace que lidiar con ser rechazado sea menos doloroso.<\/p>\r\n

Why wouldn\u2019t you do the same or something similar?<\/p>\r\n

Puedes salir con otras personas al mismo tiempo y explorar tus opciones, o simplemente mantener un contacto casual con otros hombres que te resulten atractivos.<\/p>\r\n

You never know how it will all end and it\u2019s always good to have options at the end of the day.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

5. Switch into \u201cThank you, next\u201d mode<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Los hombres tambi\u00e9n se revuelcan un poco si son rechazados por la mujer que les gusta. Pero antes de que te des cuenta, volver\u00e1n a salir y empezar\u00e1n a tener citas de nuevo.<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019ve been on a few dates with someone and they disappeared on you, there is no reason for you to look at the empty screen waiting for a text.<\/p>\r\n

Hay muchos hombres de carne y hueso que estar\u00edan encantados de formar parte de tu vida.<\/p>\r\n

A man who doesn\u2019t see that doesn\u2019t deserve a place in your world.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

6. Don\u2019t flaunt your flaws<\/h2>\r\n

\"maquillaje<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Probablemente nunca hayas o\u00eddo a un hombre hablar de las cosas que le hacen sentirse inseguro al principio de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n

Saben que si funciona, habr\u00e1 tiempo de sobra para hacerlo.<\/p>\r\n

As\u00ed que har\u00e1n todo lo posible por impresionarle y destacar sus puntos fuertes y virtudes.<\/p>\r\n

Los hombres est\u00e1n en algo aqu\u00ed.<\/p>\r\n

Si te muestras demasiado abierto desde el principio, no s\u00f3lo te est\u00e1s haciendo vulnerable, sino que tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1s arrojando una nota depresiva sobre toda tu experiencia de citas.<\/p>\r\n

As\u00ed que, mant\u00e9n los temas divertidos y desenfadados. Los temas serios vendr\u00e1n despu\u00e9s, a medida que os vay\u00e1is conociendo.<\/p>\r\n

Adem\u00e1s, las cosas que t\u00fa consideras tus defectos pueden estar lejos de serlo a sus ojos. Deja que sea \u00e9l quien decida c\u00f3mo te percibe.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

7. Don\u2019t settle for someone who is not \u201cThe One\u201d for you<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Probablemente nunca hayas o\u00eddo la historia de un hombre que se conform\u00f3 con menos porque ten\u00eda 30 a\u00f1os y era el momento de casarse, tener hijos o, al menos, irse a vivir con una novia.<\/p>\r\n

Esta situaci\u00f3n es tan poco frecuente que casi parece un mito.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t settle for less than true love because you are scared of loneliness, because \u201cit\u2019s time,\u201d or because society expects something from you.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s a pressure you don\u2019t need in your life.<\/p>\r\n

Silencia todos los comentarios sarc\u00e1sticos y todos tus miedos internos y sigue a tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t date Sr. Equivocado<\/a> and don\u2019t stay with him; you miss out on the real deal.<\/p>\r\n

When you are with someone right, you\u2019ll know it and you will have no doubt about it.<\/p>\r\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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