{"id":34133,"date":"2019-03-12T08:32:20","date_gmt":"2019-03-12T08:32:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34133"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:39:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:39:48","slug":"no-te-conformes-con-un-hombre-que-ya-te-ha-dejado-una-vez","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-te-conformes-con-un-hombre-que-ya-te-ha-dejado-una-vez\/","title":{"rendered":"No te conformes con un hombre que ya te ha dejado una vez"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por favor, no vuelvas a caer en esa trampa. Por favor, no seas tan ingenuo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You think that things are going to be different, you think he has changed for the better, but deep down you know that\u2019s not true.
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What\u2019s happening to you now is you\u2019re lonely. You miss him and you feel rejected, so your heart longs to go back to something familiar and safe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quieres volver a la fase de vuestra relaci\u00f3n en la que estabais c\u00f3modos y felices.
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Te olvidaste de la humillaci\u00f3n, de quedar siempre en segundo lugar. Te olvidaste de todas las cosas malas que pasaron. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You only remember the good times and\u2026 you miss them. You suppressed the real reason why the two of you didn\u2019t work out.
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Don\u2019t go back to the person who ripped your heart out and stomped on it. Don\u2019t go back to the person who treated you like a doormat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t once again let yourself feel less worthy, devastated, and betrayed.
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\u00bfRecuerdas cu\u00e1nto tardaste en recuperarte? \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tardaste en volver a sentirte como antes?<\/em><\/strong>
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I know you don\u2019t want to go there again, but for the sake of preventing yourself from making a terrible mistake, take a trip down memory lane and remember all the things you went through.
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Recuerda c\u00f3mo te rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n. Recuerda las l\u00e1grimas que derramaste y el dolor en el pecho que te invad\u00eda cada vez que pensabas en \u00e9l.
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Necesitas recordar cada detalle que te obligaste a olvidar. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You need to stop yourself from going back to the person who hurt you. He did it once, he\u2019ll do it again.<\/strong>
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Forget about all the promises he made; they don\u2019t mean squat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t you think you deserve a man who will at least go through with something he said? Don\u2019t you think you deserve that much?
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Eres mucho m\u00e1s de lo que \u00e9l te convenci\u00f3 de ser. Tu list\u00f3n deber\u00eda estar mucho m\u00e1s alto que \u00e9l. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I can\u2019t believe I\u2019m saying this once again, but I have to because it\u2019s true \u2013 don\u2019t go back to him, he doesn\u2019t deserve you.
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You know he\u2019ll come running back to you for the same reason you miss him, if he hasn\u2019t come already. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He got scared, he\u2019s lonely, and he wants to get back to the last things known to him. He wants to get back to the safer version of life with you in it.
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He\u2019ll tell you everything you ever wanted to hear. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He\u2019ll do everything you asked him to do so many times in the past but never did. He\u2019ll show a face you always wanted him to wear.
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Don\u2019t believe those fairytales. Don\u2019t believe his lies. Don\u2019t go back. <\/strong>
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Ya te ha dejado, no tiene derecho a exponerte al riesgo de que te vuelvan a hacer da\u00f1o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He had a chance to love you and he blew it. He can\u2019t have another one. You mustn\u2019t give it to him.
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La vida sigue y de todo lo que pasaste con \u00e9l, \u00bfrealmente crees que es la persona que estaba destinada a amarte? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfDe verdad crees que va a estar ah\u00ed para lo bueno y para lo malo, en todo lo que la vida te depare?
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Huye de \u00e9l, cari\u00f1o. Huye y nunca mires atr\u00e1s. Abre las puertas al nuevo amor que llega a tu vida. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Welcome the new with an open heart and a hope of true love. Don\u2019t let your last relationship make you close inside and never let anyone in. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t let him destroy your chance of happiness. No vale la pena<\/a>!
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You deserve the world. I don\u2019t know you, but if you\u2019re reading this and if you recognize yourself, then you do: you do deserve every single thing I wrote.
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Este texto no trata de una sola persona. Este texto no trata de un solo coraz\u00f3n roto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s about all of us who had that episode in our lives we\u2019re trying to forget. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s about us who failed to recover from a broken heart, we who have a hard time letting go and moving on.
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It\u2019s for all of us who are on the verge of making a terrible mistake. For us who want to go back, knowing we shouldn\u2019t.  

Please don\u2019t! This too shall pass. It\u2019s just a crisis that you can go through. It\u2019s just another battle fought to win the whole war.
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Don\u2019t go back to lies and fake promises. Don\u2019t go back to insecurity and thinking you\u2019re not good enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eres lo suficientemente buena. S\u00f3lo tienes que ser paciente para que llegue el hombre adecuado.
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El hombre adecuado ver\u00e1 lo especial que eres. Confiar\u00e1 en ti y te respetar\u00e1. Nunca dudar\u00e1 de ti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And you know what? He\u2019ll never hurt you.
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Pero creo que ya lo sabes.
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