{"id":34154,"date":"2019-03-12T10:37:52","date_gmt":"2019-03-12T10:37:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34154"},"modified":"2022-01-09T19:46:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T19:46:00","slug":"la-verdad-es-que-no-puedes-hacer-que-un-hombre-te-ame-a-menos-que-lo-haga-el-mismo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-verdad-es-que-no-puedes-hacer-que-un-hombre-te-ame-a-menos-que-lo-haga-el-mismo\/","title":{"rendered":"La verdad es que no puedes hacer que un hombre te ame a menos que \u00e9l mismo lo haga"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Desde que tienes uso de raz\u00f3n, piensas que el amor es algo muy sencillo: recibes lo que das.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As\u00ed que, b\u00e1sicamente, si alguien te quiere de verdad, te devolver\u00e1 todo su amor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The same goes for boyfriends, family, friends and everyone else\u2014if you give someone the care and the attention they need, everything will work out just fine.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You just have to give your best\u2014you have to show them that you are ready to do whatever it takes to make them happy and that they can count on you, no matter what.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This especially goes for guys\u2014if you treat your partner the way you\u2019d like to be treated, he will love you back for sure.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hay que ser honesto, leal, fiel y estar dispuesto a comprometerse, y todo encajar\u00e1 tarde o temprano.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ver\u00e1 todo lo que haces por \u00e9l, apreciar\u00e1 todos tus sacrificios y comprender\u00e1 que eres la \u00fanica digna de su amor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Desde que tienes uso de raz\u00f3n, est\u00e1s convencido de que tienes que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/por-eso-merece-la-pena-luchar-por-el-amor-verdadero\/\">lucha por el amor verdadero<\/a>\u2014that you have to be ready to do whatever it takes to keep it alive.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te han dicho que tienes que superar muchos obst\u00e1culos y ganar numerosos retos para conseguir tu final feliz.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But no matter what, your happy ending will eventually come, if you just try hard enough, won\u2019t it?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I hate to be the one to burst your bubble but the truth is that things don\u2019t always work like that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The truth is that sometimes, no matter how much of yourself you give to a man, he simply can\u2019t or doesn\u2019t know how to love you back. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>At least, he can\u2019t do it the way he should and the way you need him to.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>La verdad es que, a veces, se pueden mover monta\u00f1as por una relaci\u00f3n que, sencillamente, est\u00e1 condenada al fracaso. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Por una relaci\u00f3n que no est\u00e1 destinada a ser y que nunca tendr\u00e1 \u00e9xito, por mucho que lo desees.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No estoy diciendo que debas marcharte en cuanto las cosas se pongan feas o que debas abandonar a alguien que te importa mucho al primer inconveniente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sin embargo, a veces tienes que aceptar que tus luchas son en vano y que est\u00e1s luchando contra molinos de viento. &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No estoy diciendo que debas ser una zorra total s\u00f3lo para que un chico que te interesa vaya a por ti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No estoy diciendo que debas hacerte la dura o que mostrar tus verdaderas emociones est\u00e9 mal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>However, you have to be aware of one thing\u2014no matter how much love you give away, it will never be enough for the wrong man. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Por mucho que lo intentes o te esfuerces, nunca podr\u00e1s ense\u00f1ar a un hombre t\u00f3xico a amar de verdad. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>You can never make him become someone he\u2019s not and<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-puedes-amar-a-alguien-para-que-te-ame\/\"> you can\u2019t force him to give you his entire heart<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most importantly, what you need to realize is the fact that some asshole can\u2019t love you isn\u2019t your fault.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You shouldn\u2019t waste your energy on trying to figure out why this man doesn\u2019t love you, after everything you\u2019ve done to deserve his love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why can\u2019t you be enough for him to start treating you differently and for him to open up a place in his heart for you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>As\u00ed que en lugar de culparte a ti mismo, <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/she-left-you-because-she-finally-saw-her-worth\/\"><strong>recuerda lo que vales<\/strong><\/a><strong>. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Remember that you don\u2019t need this man\u2019s love to make you happy and remember that it\u2019s his loss\u2014not yours.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yes, all of this is easier said than done. I know that it is difficult and painful to accept the fact that someone whom you care for so deeply doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sin embargo, a veces hay que mirar la verdad a los ojos y aceptarla, por dura que sea.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes, you have to give up hope and realize that you\u2019ve done more than enough.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Realize that you\u2019ve done everything in your power and walk away, while you still have some dignity and pride.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>S\u00ed, doler\u00e1 mucho. Pero a ti <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/a-todas-las-chicas-que-sufren-y-se-curan-al-mismo-tiempo\/\"><strong>sanar\u00e1<\/strong><\/a><strong>. And once you do, you\u2019ll wish you\u2019d done all of this sooner.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Once you heal, you\u2019ll understand that this was the only way for you to open your heart to the man who WILL LOVE YOU in all the ways you deserve to be loved. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>For the man you\u2019ll never have to chase or beg. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Para el hombre que nunca te har\u00e1 cuestionar sus intenciones, ni dudar de sus sentimientos. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Para el hombre que est\u00e1 destinado a ser tuyo y que nunca te romper\u00e1 el coraz\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-34157\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T113709.756-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"La verdad es que no puedes hacer que un hombre te ame a menos que \u00e9l mismo lo haga\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T113709.756-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T113709.756-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T113709.756.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For as long as you can remember, you thought of love as pretty simple\u2014you get what you give. So, basically, if someone truly loves you, they will give you all of their love back. The same goes for boyfriends, family, friends and everyone else\u2014if you give someone the care and the attention they need, everything&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":34155,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34154","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/StockSnap_IS2NXEIDJV.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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