{"id":34159,"date":"2019-03-12T11:13:23","date_gmt":"2019-03-12T11:13:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34159"},"modified":"2022-01-12T22:03:28","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T22:03:28","slug":"deja-de-poner-excusas-si-le-importara-lo-demostraria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-poner-excusas-si-le-importara-lo-demostraria\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de poner excusas - Si le importara, lo demostrar\u00eda"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfAlguna vez has esperado que alguien cambiara, aunque en el fondo fueras muy consciente de que era improbable que eso ocurriera?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Have you ever ignored your intuition which kept telling you that someone wasn\u2019t worthy of your time and energy and stuck to a person who has proven to be good for nothing more than once?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>\u00bfAlguna vez te has quedado al lado de alguien aun sabiendo que deb\u00edas marcharte por tu propio bien?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>\u00bfAlguna vez te has mentido a ti mismo dici\u00e9ndote que alguien te quer\u00eda de verdad aunque te demostrara una y otra vez que estabas equivocado?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>If you have, this one\u2019s for you. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>It\u2019s for every girl who continues <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-excusas-hechas-relacion-abusiva\/\"><strong>poner excusas<\/strong><\/a><strong> por un hombre que la trata como una mierda, s\u00f3lo para poder seguir am\u00e1ndolo.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Por cada chica que act\u00faa como si estuviera ciega, por la chica que se niega a ver todas las se\u00f1ales que tiene delante y por la chica que se niega a quitarse las gafas de color de rosa y mirar la verdad a los ojos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>For the girl who continues justifying the man who doesn\u2019t deserve to have her love, hoping that eventually he\u2019ll become different.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Por cada chica que sigue minti\u00e9ndose a s\u00ed misma que ella ser\u00e1 la que salve a este hombre que simplemente no est\u00e1 emocionalmente disponible.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Que no deja de convencerse de que ella es la que le abrir\u00e1 el coraz\u00f3n al amor y la que le har\u00e1 cambiar de actitud.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>No, no soy yo quien te da el consuelo que necesitas y te dice que sigas luchando.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This won\u2019t be me getting your hopes up or telling you that one of these days, you\u2019ll get what you want from this guy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Este soy yo intentando hacerte entrar en raz\u00f3n e intentando abrirte los ojos a la fea verdad.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Yo intentando recordarte lo que vales y yo intentando forzarte a que te pongas las pilas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Honey, I hate to be the one to tell you this but if a guy acts like he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you, you need to start believing him.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong> Remember that a man\u2019s efforts are a <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/his-effort-is-a-reflection-of-his-love-for-you\/\"><strong>reflejo de su amor por ti<\/strong><\/a><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Todo lo dem\u00e1s son tonter\u00edas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>S\u00e9 que esperas que te diga que es su forma especial de quererte.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>To tell you that he is like this because he\u2019s been hurt in the past or because he needs time to open up to you and to trust you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>To tell you that deep down he knows that you are the love of his life but he can\u2019t seem to find the proper way to show it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sin embargo, nada de esto es cierto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ver\u00e1s,<strong> if a guy doesn\u2019t treat you as his first choice, if he takes you for granted, if he abuses you in any way, if he cheats you on physically or emotionally, if he doesn\u2019t put any effort into your relationship, if he doesn\u2019t want to label things, if he wants you to chase him and if he doesn\u2019t give you the love you need, he simply doesn\u2019t care. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>No, you are not asking for much, you are not too picky or too demanding, he just doesn\u2019t love you, never did and never will.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Por mucho que te duela admitir algo as\u00ed, simplemente tienes que aceptar el hecho de que ese hombre no te conviene.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Tienes que dejar de esperar a que cambie su forma de ser y a que empiece a valorar todo lo que haces por \u00e9l porque eso nunca ocurrir\u00e1.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Tienes que dejar de perder a\u00f1os de tu vida para que \u00e9l se convierta en un hombre mejor y para que empiece a tratarte como deber\u00eda haberlo hecho desde el primer d\u00eda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Para que entienda que eres \u00fanica y para que empiece a ver cu\u00e1nto le quieres.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Tienes que olvidarte de lo que deber\u00edas haber hecho y de lo que podr\u00edas haber hecho. Deja ir su potencial y deja ir al hombre que podr\u00eda llegar a ser.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>En lugar de eso, por una vez, mira las cosas con realismo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>For once, stop deceiving yourself and see this man for who he really is\u2014<\/strong>un imb\u00e9cil manipulador que est\u00e1 utilizando tu buen coraz\u00f3n y que se est\u00e1 aprovechando de ti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Una vez que lo hagas, una vez que finalmente veas sus verdaderos colores, por favor se lo suficientemente fuerte y deja su lamentable culo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Don\u2019t do it to teach him a lesson or to make him realize what he\u2019s lost. Instead, do it for yourself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Do it because you don\u2019t need him and because you are way better off alone than with him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Hazlo porque te mereces algo mejor y porque sabes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-favor-deja-de-hacerme-ilusiones-porque-los-dos-sabemos-que-nunca-podrias-darme-lo-que-necesito\/\">nunca podr\u00eda darte lo que necesitas<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Hazlo porque te quieres m\u00e1s a ti misma que a \u00e9l. Hazlo porque <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/4-razones-por-las-que-romper-con-el-fue-la-mejor-decision-de-tu-vida\/\"><strong>romper con \u00e9l ser\u00e1 la mejor decisi\u00f3n<\/strong><\/a><strong> de tu vida.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-34168\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T121154.600-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Deja de poner excusas - Si le importara, lo demostrar\u00eda\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T121154.600-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T121154.600-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T121154.600.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever hoped that someone would eventually change, even though deep down you were very well aware that something like that was unlikely to happen? Have you ever ignored your intuition which kept telling you that someone wasn\u2019t worthy of your time and energy and stuck to a person who has proven to be&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":34160,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34159","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/StockSnap_IS2NXEIDJV-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34159","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34159"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34159\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/34160"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34159"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34159"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34159"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}