{"id":34251,"date":"2020-07-14T08:04:17","date_gmt":"2020-07-14T08:04:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34251"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:31:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:31:09","slug":"6-razones-por-las-que-no-puedes-dejar-de-quererle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-razones-por-las-que-no-puedes-dejar-de-quererle\/","title":{"rendered":"6 razones por las que no puedes dejar de quererle"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nunca es f\u00e1cil dejar de querer a alguien que eres <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/11-cosas-subconscientes-que-hacen-los-hombres-cuando-se-enamoran-perdidamente-de-una-mujer\/\">perdidamente enamorado <\/a>con.<\/p>\n<p>Even if he took you for granted and hurt you, you can\u2019t forget all about him overnight.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitar\u00e1s alg\u00fan tiempo para superarlo todo y encontrar por fin tu propia paz.<\/p>\n<p>If you are one of those women who doesn\u2019t know why you can\u2019t stop loving him after all that he did to you, I suggest you read further.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Te acostumbraste a \u00e9l<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97381\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-depressed-facial-expression-sitting-and-holding-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con expresi\u00f3n facial deprimida sentada y sosteniendo su tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-depressed-facial-expression-sitting-and-holding-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-depressed-facial-expression-sitting-and-holding-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-depressed-facial-expression-sitting-and-holding-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-depressed-facial-expression-sitting-and-holding-her-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-depressed-facial-expression-sitting-and-holding-her-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando se tiene una relaci\u00f3n duradera, es muy f\u00e1cil acostumbrarse a la pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Te sientes seguro porque sabes que siempre estar\u00e1n ah\u00ed y sabes que mientras est\u00e9s con ellos, estar\u00e1s bien.<\/p>\n<p>But when you two break up, your whole world falls apart because you got attached to your partner and now you don\u2019t know how to move on alone.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know how to make yourself happy and satisfied anymore because he was the one who always provided you with that.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how much you want to forget him and stop loving him, you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>You catch yourself thinking about him all the time and no matter what you do, you can\u2019t get him out of your head.<\/p>\n<p>Lo peor es que este proceso es largo y tendr\u00e1s que hacer acopio de mucha fuerza y energ\u00eda para superar todo esto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><strong>Sigues pensando que es el hombre vivo m\u00e1s perfecto<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97382\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste recostando la cabeza en el sof\u00e1 del sal\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una raz\u00f3n m\u00e1s que te impide dejar de quererle es tu opini\u00f3n sobre \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque no est\u00e9is juntos y aunque te haya hecho da\u00f1o, sigues pensando que es simplemente el mejor.<\/p>\n<p>Crees que es tu pareja perfecta y que nunca encontrar\u00e1s a un hombre tan guapo o inteligente como \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Ocurre porque tienes baja autoestima o porque le idolatrabas demasiado.<\/p>\n<p>Sea cual sea el motivo, no es ni bueno ni sano.<\/p>\n<p>If you continue to think that he is the best man you will ever be with, you surely won\u2019t give anyone else a chance to try be with you.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que haya muchos tipos buenos caminando a tu lado mientras t\u00fa te aferras al equivocado.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo cuando te digas a ti misma que debes seguir adelante y dejarle marchar, ser\u00e1s capaz de hacerlo.<\/p>\n<p>Y s\u00f3lo entonces encontrar\u00e1 lo que lleva tanto tiempo buscando.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sigues en contacto con su familia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97383\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria con camisa blanca y hablando por tel\u00e9fono en el exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si a\u00fan mantienes alg\u00fan tipo de contacto con su familia, es obvio que te costar\u00e1 superarlo y dejar de quererle.<\/p>\n<p>Su familia siempre estar\u00e1 de su lado y le contar\u00e1n todas esas bonitas historias sobre \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que haya pasado entre vosotros dos parecer\u00e1 menos horrible cuando hables con su hermana o su madre, por ejemplo.<\/p>\n<p>Probablemente te digan que deber\u00edais tomaros un tiempo separados, pero que est\u00e1n seguros de que est\u00e1is hechos el uno para el otro.<\/p>\n<p>Te dir\u00e1n que te quieren y que siempre te querr\u00e1n cerca.<\/p>\n<p>So, having non-stop communication with his family won\u2019t help you a bit to stop loving him.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre estar\u00e1n ah\u00ed para intentar convencerte de que tu lugar est\u00e1 a su lado. Si yo fuera t\u00fa,<\/p>\n<p>Yo quemar\u00eda todos los puentes con \u00e9l y con su familia porque es la \u00fanica manera de que consigas tu objetivo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Crees que eres culpable de todos los problemas de tu relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97384\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"morena triste con el pelo rizado en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you think that you are the guilty one for all the bad stuff that happened in your relationship, you will always try to save things that simply can\u2019t be saved.<\/p>\n<p>Su relaci\u00f3n, por ejemplo.<\/p>\n<p>Si algo est\u00e1 condenado desde el principio, no hay forma de hacer nada para mejorarlo.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso, dejar de querer a alguien mientras te culpas de que no est\u00e9 puede ser misi\u00f3n imposible.<\/p>\n<p>Dedicar\u00e1s mucho tiempo y energ\u00eda a hacer que todo funcione, pero nunca ser\u00e1 perfecto como t\u00fa quieres.<\/p>\n<p>My advice is to let it all go because it obviously didn\u2019t work out from the beginning.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tu principal objetivo es \u00e9l<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97385\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"pareja junto al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lo pusiste en un pedestal desde el primer d\u00eda. Para ti, \u00e9l era todo lo que pod\u00edas desear.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca miraste a otros hombres porque \u00e9l era el hombre perfecto para ti. Pero espera. \u00bfRealmente lo era?<\/p>\n<p>If he really was, you wouldn\u2019t be here now, trying to forget him and stop loving him.<\/p>\n<p>Now you are stuck in a place you don\u2019t want to be in and you are trying your utmost to stop loving the man you are madly in love with.<\/p>\n<p>Si pudieras centrarte en otra cosa, ser\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil superarle y olvidarle cuanto antes.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, si quieres hacerlo, tienes que cambiar tu visi\u00f3n de la vida y centrarte en ti.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed resolver\u00e1s todos tus problemas y aprender\u00e1s por fin a quererte a ti mismo y a ponerte en primer lugar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Crees que no eres lo suficientemente bueno para otra persona<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97386\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaning-on-a-black-wooden-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mujer apoyada en una pared de madera negra\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaning-on-a-black-wooden-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaning-on-a-black-wooden-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaning-on-a-black-wooden-wall-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaning-on-a-black-wooden-wall-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La cuesti\u00f3n es que todav\u00eda <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/esto-es-por-lo-que-crees-que-todavia-lo-amas-despues-de-todo-lo-que-ha-hecho\/\">enamorada de \u00e9l<\/a> and you believe that you won\u2019t be good for someone else.<\/p>\n<p>Crees que no eres lo bastante guapa o buena y que nadie te querr\u00e1 nunca como \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Deep down you know that he didn\u2019t give you the love you deserved, but you still want him close.<\/p>\n<p>You are not letting yourself get over him and as long as you continue thinking in that way, things won\u2019t get better.<\/p>\n<p>My advice is to focus on yourself more and to let go of the one who doesn\u2019t accept you completely.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97379\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Simply-Cant-Stop-Loving-Him-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 razones por las que no puedes dejar de quererle\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Simply-Cant-Stop-Loving-Him-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Simply-Cant-Stop-Loving-Him-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Simply-Cant-Stop-Loving-Him-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is never easy to stop loving someone you are head over heels in love with. Even if he took you for granted and hurt you, you can\u2019t forget all about him overnight. You will need some time to get over it all and to finally find your own peace. If you are one of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":97380,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34251","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Simply-Cant-Stop-Loving-Him.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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