{"id":34277,"date":"2020-03-14T10:07:49","date_gmt":"2020-03-14T10:07:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34277"},"modified":"2022-02-27T03:13:40","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T03:13:40","slug":"8-malentendidos-de-los-chicos-sobre-salir-con-chicas-exigentes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-malentendidos-de-los-chicos-sobre-salir-con-chicas-exigentes\/","title":{"rendered":"8 malentendidos de los chicos sobre salir con chicas exigentes"},"content":{"rendered":"

Muchas veces, las chicas que tienen altos est\u00e1ndares<\/a> en las relaciones y en el mundo de las citas suelen tener mala reputaci\u00f3n entre los chicos.<\/p>\n

The thing is that guys don\u2019t really understand the concept of having high standards at all.<\/p>\n

They immediately start thinking that a girl is full of herself or that she\u2019s making a big deal out of little things.<\/p>\n

Or that she\u2019s playing hard to get deliberately just to seek their attention. But none of this is true!<\/p>\n

The only truth is that girls with high standards are girls who know their worth and they simply won\u2019t put up with anybody\u2019s bullshit!<\/p>\n

Saben lo que ofrecen y lo que esperan recibir a cambio.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Girls with high standards are confident. They are not ashamed to contradict you if they think that you\u2019re not right.<\/p>\n

They aren\u2019t satisfied with mediocrity.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n tienen los pies en la tierra y siempre est\u00e1n dispuestos a recibir cr\u00edticas porque saben que es la \u00fanica forma de mejorar.<\/p>\n

L\u00e1stima que todo este tiempo los chicos hayan estado demasiado ciegos para ver la aut\u00e9ntica verdad sobre estas fuertes e inspiradoras chicas con un gran coraz\u00f3n<\/a>!<\/p>\n

\u00a1Pero ahora es el momento de abrirles los ojos y hablar de estos 8 malentendidos comunes que tienen los chicos sobre salir con chicas con altos est\u00e1ndares!<\/p>\n

\u201cThey care too much about trivial things.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Muchos chicos piensan que las chicas exigentes son aquellas que piensan hasta en el m\u00e1s m\u00ednimo detalle de su relaci\u00f3n, lo cual es totalmente incorrecto a muchos niveles.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que a estas chicas les importa mucho, \u00a1pero s\u00f3lo les importan las cosas esenciales!<\/p>\n

Cuando est\u00e1n en una relaci\u00f3n, siempre se aseguran de dar todo de s\u00ed mismos en ella y por eso sus expectativas tambi\u00e9n son elevadas.<\/p>\n

No, they don\u2019t occupy themselves with stupid things like how many times you texted them first or similar but they will notice if you don\u2019t text them <\/a>en absoluto.<\/p>\n

They will notice if you\u2019re constantly letting them wait on you and they will certainly not tolerate it.<\/p>\n

\u201cThey only want the most expensive and luxurious gifts.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfDe verdad cre\u00e9is que a las chicas exigentes les gustan los regalos caros y el lujo?<\/p>\n

Si es as\u00ed, por favor, pi\u00e9nsatelo otra vez. \u00a1Lo \u00fanico que quieren estas chicas es tu confianza, tiempo y reciprocidad!<\/p>\n

Y la mayor\u00eda de los t\u00edos no est\u00e1n dispuestos a darles nada de esto y por eso se inventan esta mentira de que son cazafortunas para tener una coartada para no esforz\u00e1ndose<\/a> para ganarlos como hacen los hombres de verdad.<\/p>\n

\u201cThey are difficult to connect with.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No, no es dif\u00edcil conectar con ellos.<\/p>\n

They are just not interested in your lame pick-up lines like, \u201cSi fueras un filete, estar\u00edas bien hecho<\/em>,\u201d that you already used on every single girl you\u2019ve approached so far.<\/p>\n

And they certainly don\u2019t want to wait for your little tricky games and manipulation.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que quieren es una conversaci\u00f3n sincera que salga de lo m\u00e1s profundo de tu coraz\u00f3n. Todo lo que quieren es una sonrisa genuina y palabras bonitas.<\/p>\n

No es dif\u00edcil conectar con ellos, s\u00f3lo quieren conectar contigo a trav\u00e9s de tu alma y no de palabras falsas.<\/p>\n

\u201cThey think too highly of themselves.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is probably the first thing that comes to the mind of every guy out there when he hears the words \u2018a girl with high standards\u2019.<\/p>\n

But, no, they don\u2019t think too highly of themselves. These girls just take care of themselves!<\/p>\n

They protect their heart because they\u2019ve been disappointed multiple times by someone like you who didn\u2019t understand them.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t think highly of themselves. They just protect their soul by deciding not to tolerate any bullshit from you.<\/p>\n

\u201cTheir expectations are too high.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"happy<\/p>\n

No, they don\u2019t expect you to go out of your way and scream their name from the biggest skyscraper or shower them with thousands of roses every day.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que esperan de ti es que seas un hombre de verdad<\/a> que se atenga a sus decisiones y que no les decepcione.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que quieren de ti es que est\u00e9s ah\u00ed cuando te necesiten.<\/p>\n

No, they don\u2019t expect you to be perfect because they themselves know that they are far from it.<\/p>\n

They just want to see that you are making an effort and that\u2019s all they want from you.<\/p>\n

\u201cThey are intolerant of other people\u2019s behavior.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a huge difference between being intolerant of other people\u2019s behavior and being honest and brave enough to show them when they are not right.<\/p>\n

Tener un alto nivel de exigencia significa no tener ning\u00fan problema en hacer saber a la gente lo que realmente quieres decir.<\/p>\n

Tener un alto nivel de exigencia significa ser aut\u00e9ntico, honesto y solidario hasta la m\u00e9dula.<\/p>\n

No, they are not intolerant of other people\u2019s behavior. They just choose to live in a healthy, honest environment without any toxicity or lies.<\/p>\n

\u201cThey are self-centered.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No, they are not self-centered and they don\u2019t think that the world revolves around them.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quieren lo mejor para s\u00ed mismos y para la gente que les rodea.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1n cansados de ser manipulados y por eso eligen sabiamente en qui\u00e9n van a confiar.<\/p>\n

Su objetivo final es establecer una relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> con alguien que est\u00e9 dispuesto a corresponderle.<\/p>\n

Their ultimate goal and wish is to help everyone become the best version of themselves and if that\u2019s called being self-centered, then I\u2019ll make sure to buy another dictionary.<\/p>\n

\u201cThey are too picky.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Just because they don\u2019t fall head over heels for every guy out there who ever talked to them, it doesn\u2019t mean that they are too picky!<\/p>\n

Tal vez est\u00e9n solteros porque no les interesan los romances casi. Tal vez prefieran estar solteros hasta que aparezca la persona adecuada.<\/p>\n

Having high standards doesn\u2019t mean being too picky.<\/p>\n

Significa ser consciente de lo que realmente quieres en ese momento, estar en contacto con tus sentimientos y deseos y no tener miedo a vivir la vida como te plazca.<\/p>\n

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