{"id":34303,"date":"2020-05-14T12:12:22","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T12:12:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34303"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:57:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:57:00","slug":"es-culpa-suya-por-enganarte-pero-es-culpa-tuya-por-dejarle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-culpa-suya-por-enganarte-pero-es-culpa-tuya-por-dejarle\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9l tiene la culpa de enga\u00f1arte, pero t\u00fa tienes la culpa de permit\u00edrselo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La verdad es que este tipo te ha estado tratando como una mierda durante a\u00f1os. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Que no es ni de lejos el hombre que te mereces y que nunca te trat\u00f3 como deber\u00eda.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you come to think of it, from day one, you haven\u2019t known where you stand with this man. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00bfEres su amiga con derecho a roce, no eres m\u00e1s que una aventura ocasional o eres su novia?<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A pesar de todos tus esfuerzos por hacer las cosas oficiales y definir vuestra relaci\u00f3n, \u00e9l nunca quiso etiquetarla realmente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He\u2019s never been fully committed to you and that has been eating you alive.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is no doubt about one thing\u2014all of this is exclusively his fault. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You are not to blame for the fact that this asshole can\u2019t make up his mind and get his shit together.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, I assume you can\u2019t help but wonder why can\u2019t you be enough for this man. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What is it you don\u2019t have and why can\u2019t he love you enough?<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00bfEres t\u00fa el que ha estado haciendo algo mal todo este tiempo? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why can\u2019t this man have the decency to choose you?<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014you shouldn\u2019t blame yourself for this asshole\u2019s actions and for his mistreatment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cr\u00e9eme, no hay nada que puedas hacer para que cambie de actitud o para que se comprometa contigo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Despu\u00e9s de todo, debe ser consciente de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/la-verdad-es-que-no-puedes-hacer-que-un-hombre-te-ame-a-menos-que-lo-haga-el-mismo\/\">nunca puedes hacer que un chico te ame<\/a> hasta que \u00e9l mismo decida hacerlo.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No obstante, <strong>lo que deber\u00edas reprocharte es haberle dejado jugar contigo todo este tiempo.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For allowing him to waste years of your life, for letting him treat you the way you don\u2019t deserve and for settling for someone who doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u00fa eres la \u00fanica responsable de darle luz verde a este hombre para que siga haci\u00e9ndote da\u00f1o y rompi\u00e9ndote el coraz\u00f3n. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The only one to blame for him still having a place in your heart, after everything he\u2019s done.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s be honest\u2014you are a smart girl and there doesn\u2019t exist the possibility that you don\u2019t see who this guy really is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00e9 que piensas que s\u00f3lo necesita una oportunidad m\u00e1s y que un d\u00eda de estos, las cosas se pondr\u00e1n en su sitio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I know you want to believe in his empty promises and that you think you\u2019ll regret turning your back on him without giving it another shot now that you\u2019ve come so close to having him completely.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But let\u2019s face it\u2014deep down, you know very well that he will never change and that he\u2019ll never grow up into the man you need by your side. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>You are pretty much aware that he\u2019ll keep leading you on as long as you let him do so.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, despite all of this, despite all the pain he\u2019s been causing you, you are the one who keeps giving him endless <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/to-the-girl-whos-given-more-second-chances-than-she-can-count\/\">segundas oportunidades<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La que sigue perdon\u00e1ndole y la que espera pacientemente para volver a acogerle cada vez que se aleja de ti.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00fa eres la que sigue justific\u00e1ndole y poniendo excusas a su comportamiento de mierda, la que sigue minti\u00e9ndose a s\u00ed misma diciendo que las cosas acabar\u00e1n mejorando y la que sigue huyendo de la verdad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The one who keeps on hoping for this guy to make you happy even though deep down, you are very well aware that something like that won\u2019t happen in a million years. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La que profundiza en sus propias heridas y cicatrices emocionales. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>La que sigue aferr\u00e1ndose a \u00e9l, sabiendo que tiene que soltarlo.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Odio ser cruel pero la verdad es que <strong>este tipo te sigue rompiendo el coraz\u00f3n pero eres t\u00fa la que se lo sigues permitiendo. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00ed, eres v\u00edctima de sus acciones pero <strong>tambi\u00e9n eres v\u00edctima de tu propia debilidad para mirar la verdad a los ojos y aceptarla finalmente. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>La v\u00edctima de tu debilidad para marcar la diferencia en tu vida y alejarte de alguien que nunca podr\u00e1 darte el amor que mereces.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>As\u00ed que, por favor, en lugar de esperar a que este hombre entre en raz\u00f3n, entiende que eres t\u00fa la que tiene que recomponerse. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>En lugar de esperar a que finalmente te elija, <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/el-tiempo-elige-casi-el-amor\/\"><strong>el\u00edgete a ti misma por encima de su casi amor<\/strong><\/a><strong>. <\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Instead of waiting for him to appreciate everything you\u2019ve done for him, respect yourself enough to leave his sorry ass. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Instead of waiting for him to start valuing you, see your own worth and realize that you deserve more than someone who isn\u2019t sure about you. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>En lugar de esperar a que te quiera de verdad, qui\u00e9rete lo suficiente como para decirle tu adi\u00f3s definitivo.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-14T131122.802-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9l tiene la culpa de enga\u00f1arte, pero t\u00fa tienes la culpa de permit\u00edrselo\" class=\"wp-image-34305\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-14T131122.802-683x1024.jpg 683w, 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That he is nowhere near the man you deserve and that he never treated you the way he should. When you come to think of it, from day one, you haven\u2019t known where you stand with this man. Are you his&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":34304,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34303","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/zachary-staines-181095-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34303","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34303"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34303\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/34304"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34303"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34303"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34303"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}