{"id":34307,"date":"2019-03-14T12:43:48","date_gmt":"2019-03-14T12:43:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34307"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:29:36","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:29:36","slug":"6-razones-de-ruptura-que-todas-las-chicas-estan-hartas-de-oir-y-lo-que-significan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-razones-de-ruptura-que-todas-las-chicas-estan-hartas-de-oir-y-lo-que-significan\/","title":{"rendered":"6 motivos de ruptura que toda chica est\u00e1 harta de o\u00edr (y lo que significan)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aunque una ruptura siempre duele, a veces lo que nos deja el coraz\u00f3n m\u00e1s roto es la forma en que un chico nos deja.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s the fact that we are left puzzled, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/esto-es-lo-que-se-siente-al-intentar-seguir-adelante-sin-un-cierre\/\">sin cierre<\/a> y pregunt\u00e1ndose d\u00f3nde fueron mal las cosas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>However, for generations, men have been using the same clich\u00e9d break-up excuses and these are the most common ones.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>1. \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Be honest: how many times have you heard the infamous phrase, \u201cYou are too good for me,\u201d?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>How many times have you been dumped by the sentence \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me,\u201d?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>A pesar de que a menudo son utilizados por chicos que quieren evitar herir tus sentimientos, a menudo te dejan dudando de la verdad.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Is there something he didn\u2019t like about you but he doesn\u2019t want to tell you? Why is he really breaking up with you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Cuando tu futuro novio utiliza esta frase, probablemente est\u00e1 intentando hacerte sentir mejor y quiere asumir toda la responsabilidad de la ruptura.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>However, it will probably just make you feel worse\u2014it leaves you wondering what the thing is that bothers him so much that he can\u2019t even get himself to verbalize it?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. \u201cI have been hurt in the past\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Cuando a un hombre le rompen el coraz\u00f3n una vez, es el fin del mundo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Of course something like this leaves consequences on your entire being but come on\u2014don\u2019t get yourself involved in a new relationship until you sort things out with your past.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sin embargo, esto es exactamente lo que hacen muchos hombres.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Van por ah\u00ed cargando con su bagaje emocional a cada relaci\u00f3n que inician y acaban haciendo da\u00f1o a otra persona s\u00f3lo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-la-lastimes-solo-porque-tu-ex-te-lastimo-a-ti-2\/\">because they\u2019ve been hurt<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Por supuesto, cuando alguien rompe contigo de esta manera, te hace sentir furioso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Why couldn\u2019t he have realized that he has some past related traumas before leading you on?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Why do you have to pay for someone else\u2019s mistakes?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Why can\u2019t you get a chance to prove your own worth without being judged based on some other girl\u2019s actions?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>3. \u201cI don\u2019t know what I want\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>\u00bfDe verdad? Pero sab\u00eda lo que quer\u00eda cuando hac\u00eda todo lo posible por meterse en tus pantalones.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He knew what he wanted when he pretended to be someone he\u2019s not just to make you fall for him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>However, now that he\u2019s noticed that things are getting more and more serious, he has chickened out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Of course, this is something he won\u2019t confess so he\u2019ll use this excuse and tell you that he can\u2019t make up his mind and that he doesn\u2019t want to string you along any further.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>4. \u201cI can\u2019t commit\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>OK, let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014everybody CAN commit, they just DON\u2019T WANT TO DO SO.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Y lo mismo va para cada tipo que us\u00f3 esta frase contigo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>However, he doesn\u2019t have what it takes to tell you how things really are.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He can\u2019t be honest by saying that he wants to spend a few more years banging everyone he gets the chance to and that he prefers the life of a bachelor to being monogamous.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He can\u2019t tell you that he is an immature guy who chooses short-term lust over long-term love so he chooses to blame everything on his <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/5-ways-to-cure-commitment-phobia\/\">fobia al compromiso<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>5. \u201cI don\u2019t have time for a relationship right now\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Remember one thing\u2014whoever wants you in his life will make the time and a place for you in it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Todo lo dem\u00e1s son tonter\u00edas y excusas vac\u00edas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>So when a man tells you he\u2019s too busy for a relationship right now, it is just a nice way of saying that you aren\u2019t important enough for him to make some rearrangements in his life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>A way of telling you that he doesn\u2019t want to make time for you right now.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>6. \u201cIt\u2019s the wrong timing\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has salido con un chico que te ha dicho que eres la persona adecuada en el momento equivocado?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>That the two of you would have been perfect together if you\u2019d met a little sooner or a little later?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If a guy tells you that you are the one he hopes to end up with but that he isn\u2019t ready to give you what you need at this moment\u2014run as fast as you can.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ya ves, esto no es m\u00e1s que su manera de mantenerte como su plan de respaldo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Su manera de hacerte esperar para vivir su vida hasta el momento en que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-razones-por-las-que-no-deberias-dejar-que-tu-ex-vuelva-a-tu-vida\/\">he\u2019ll come crawling back to you<\/a>dici\u00e9ndote que siempre supo que eras especial y record\u00e1ndote que hace tiempo te dijo que eras la indicada para \u00e9l.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-34309\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-14T134200.613-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"6 motivos de ruptura que toda chica est\u00e1 harta de o\u00edr (y lo que significan)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-14T134200.613-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-14T134200.613-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-14T134200.613.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even though a break-up always hurts, sometimes the thing that leaves us more heartbroken is the way a guy dumps us. It\u2019s the fact that we are left puzzled, without closure and wondering where things went wrong. However, for generations, men have been using the same clich\u00e9d break-up excuses and these are the most common&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":34308,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34307","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/naomi-august-138149-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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