{"id":34365,"date":"2020-03-15T10:44:18","date_gmt":"2020-03-15T10:44:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34365"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:07:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:07:52","slug":"35-microtacticas-que-utilizan-los-narcisistas-para-controlar-a-sus-victimas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/35-microtacticas-que-utilizan-los-narcisistas-para-controlar-a-sus-victimas\/","title":{"rendered":"35 microt\u00e1cticas que utilizan los narcisistas para controlar a sus v\u00edctimas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>1. Un narcisista te amenaza para intimidarte. Quiere que dejes de pensar por ti mismo y que le escuches ciegamente.<\/p>\n<p>2. They are capable of going at you for putting up with someone\u2019s ill-treatment, while at the same time, they disrespect you on a daily basis without thinking that it\u2019s their problem.<\/p>\n<p>It can never be their problem. It\u2019s always someone else\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p>3. Hacen cumplidos sospechosos, que la mayor\u00eda de las veces suenan m\u00e1s a insulto que a elogio.<\/p>\n<p>4. They sabotage you because they can\u2019t handle your success. In their world, they are the best, the smartest, and the prettiest; everyone else is worthless.<\/p>\n<p>5. Crean una imagen exterior perfecta de s\u00ed mismos. Para un completo desconocido, parecen impecables y exitosos.<\/p>\n<p>6. They will go to all lengths just to keep the image they\u2019ve built alive. If that means they have to crush someone to achieve it, they won\u2019t think twice about it.<\/p>\n<p>7. They will never initiate something. Kindly enough, they will let you tackle the problem and after you solve it, they\u2019ll convince you that you did a lousy job and they could have done it so much better.<\/p>\n<p>8. They don\u2019t even think of you as a person, as an independent individual. They consider you an extension of themselves.<\/p>\n<p>9. El miedo es su principal arma. Usando el miedo, tienen un control total sobre ti.<\/p>\n<p>10. Whenever something is wrong, they blame you and tell you that you\u2019re too emotional to handle life.<\/p>\n<p>11. Vulnerability is not a plus; it\u2019s a weakness in the eyes of every narcissist because they are wired differently.<\/p>\n<p>12. Su confianza no es falsa. Realmente creen que son lo mejor que se puede conseguir.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85487\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>13. They will blow some past event out of proportion and convince you it happened just the way they told you, only you forgot it because you were \u2018too emotional.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>14. They set traps for you on purpose so they can appear as your \u2018savior\u2019 when you fall.<\/p>\n<p>15. They\u2019ll hurt you on purpose so that they can use their carefully thought-out plan to \u2018apologize\u2019 \u2013 in other words, to win you over.<\/p>\n<p>16. Nunca dejan pasar la oportunidad de humillarte p\u00fablicamente.<\/p>\n<p>17. Te amenazan con destrozarte o quitarte tus cosas.<\/p>\n<p>18. Te humillan cada vez que pueden y a\u00fan as\u00ed se preguntan por qu\u00e9 tu confianza es tan baja.<\/p>\n<p>19. No pueden controlar sus emociones porque no est\u00e1n en contacto con ellas.<\/p>\n<p>20. They are always threatening to walk out on you because they want you to beg them to stay. They need to hear you need them and you can\u2019t live without them.<\/p>\n<p>21. One way to ensure they have complete control over you is to make sure you think you\u2019re unlovable. They need you to think so little of yourself and that you thank God you have them in your life. Because according to your narcissist, you\u2019re lucky anyone loves you really.<\/p>\n<p>22. Ellos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-signs-you-are-being-verbally-abused-and-how-to-walk-away-from-it\/\">abusar verbalmente<\/a> you every time you don\u2019t do what they want you to do.<\/p>\n<p>23. Your entire relationship revolves around control. Narcissists need to have control. If they don\u2019t, they are ready to emotionally destroy you to the point you can\u2019t recognize yourself, just to get you to entertain their every whim.<\/p>\n<p>24. If at any point of your relationship you sober up and try to find a way out, if you stand up to them, they won\u2019t have it. Right after your rebellion, they will punish you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85490\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre enfadado se\u00f1alando con el dedo a una mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>25. Te atrapan en su telara\u00f1a y te hacen casi imposible soltarte.<\/p>\n<p>26. When it suits them, they show emotions and they give love, but when it doesn\u2019t, they take it away, which is heartbreaking for anyone who isn\u2019t a sociopath.<\/p>\n<p>27. Se encargan de las finanzas.<\/p>\n<p>28. Siempre est\u00e1n investigando a tus espaldas porque necesitan saber todo lo que ocurre a su alrededor.<\/p>\n<p>29. Every decision you make, they will second-guess. It\u2019s not because they don\u2019t trust you, it\u2019s because they want you to doubt yourself after a number of \u2018you\u2019re not capable of anything\u2019 remarks.<\/p>\n<p>30. Se aseguran de que ser t\u00fa mismo sea inaceptable. Quieren cambiar qui\u00e9n eres y aplastar tu autoestima para que empieces a creer que tienes que cambiar, porque quien eres en realidad no es lo bastante bueno.<\/p>\n<p>31. They constantly point out your flaws and they tell you right to your face that you need to change what they don\u2019t like.<\/p>\n<p>32. Every mistake you make will be used against you. It\u2019s like you\u2019re not allowed to make a mistake, while on the other hand, their mistakes don\u2019t count because they will never admit to making them.<\/p>\n<p>33. Si prueba el <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/un-perfecto-metodo-de-tratamiento-silencioso-narcisista\/\">tratamiento silencioso<\/a>har\u00e1n todo lo posible por provocarte y hacerte hablar para volver a darle la vuelta a la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>34. Nunca te dejar\u00e1n solo porque necesitan esta relaci\u00f3n mucho m\u00e1s que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>You are their narcissistic supply, something they can\u2019t live without.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que se aprovechar\u00e1n de ti y, al mismo tiempo, te empujar\u00e1n a marcharte y tratar\u00e1n de retenerte.<\/p>\n<p>35. Sadly, in the end, the good person ends up emotionally beaten while the bad guy moves on to the next victim, looking perfect in a stranger\u2019s eyes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85484\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"35 microt\u00e1cticas que utilizan los narcisistas para controlar a sus v\u00edctimas\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85483\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"35 microt\u00e1cticas que utilizan los narcisistas para controlar a sus v\u00edctimas\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. A narcissist threatens you to intimidate you. He wants you to stop thinking for yourself and to blindly listen to him. 2. They are capable of going at you for putting up with someone\u2019s ill-treatment, while at the same time, they disrespect you on a daily basis without thinking that it\u2019s their problem. 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