{"id":34377,"date":"2019-03-15T11:33:15","date_gmt":"2019-03-15T11:33:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34377"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:32:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:32:41","slug":"8-preguntas-que-debes-hacerte-si-sigues-desenamorandote","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-preguntas-que-debes-hacerte-si-sigues-desenamorandote\/","title":{"rendered":"8 preguntas que debes hacerte si no dejas de desenamorarte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando amas, siempre te aseguras de dedicarte por completo a la persona amada y nunca la enga\u00f1ar\u00edas ni har\u00edas nada que la entristeciera. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But there\u2019s this one problem that keeps popping up every time you find yourself in a relationship. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mantienes desamor<\/a> sin saber por qu\u00e9 ni c\u00f3mo.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You rewind your every single word or action to understand why this phenomenon keeps repeating over and over again but you can\u2019t find any valid reason for it. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And as a result, you become so tired of it, swearing that you\u2019ll stay forever single.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re wondering why this keeps happening, the only true reason is that you\u2019re probably giving too much of yourself in every relationship you enter, which makes you lose yourself and fall out of love soon. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you give too much without receiving the same, you lose a sense of yourself and you\u2019re no longer the same person.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

By going out of your way to meet other people\u2019s expectations and desires, you are destroying yourself and your chance to be happy and that is why you fall out of love every time this happens.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si sospecha que \u00e9ste puede ser su caso, entonces deber\u00eda plantearse las siguientes 8 preguntas para comprender el n\u00facleo de este problema.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. \u00bfTe encuentras a menudo en relaciones en las que tus necesidades no son correspondidas?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Reciprocity is the most important and crucial thing when it comes to establishing a healthy relationship and if your relationship lacks it, you\u2019ll soon find yourself falling out of love. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No matter how much you give, you will never be able to save your relationship because that\u2019s not how things work. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Reciprocidad significa dar y recibir desinteresadamente y no s\u00f3lo recibir.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you keep finding yourself in relationships where you\u2019re always the one who gives more and receives less, the reason behind it could be that you lost your sense of self-worth because your previous partners have made you feel like you\u2019re not suficientemente bueno<\/a> y que nunca lo ser\u00e1s, hagas lo que hagas.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. \u00bfSiempre est\u00e1s atrayendo f\u00f3bicos al compromiso<\/a>?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re constantly attracting commitment-phobes, then there must be a valid reason for it. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lo m\u00e1s probable es que sigas enamor\u00e1ndote de ellos porque inconscientemente quieres persuadirles para que se comprometan contigo, lo que de nuevo tiene su origen en tus experiencias pasadas.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You see, when you don\u2019t receive the same amount of love you keep giving to others, you subconsciously start thinking that you should be giving even more just to experience amor verdadero<\/a>. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y los f\u00f3bicos al compromiso son los mejores candidatos para ello.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. \u00bfTienes grandes expectativas puestas en tu nueva pareja?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A veces te sigues desenamorando s\u00f3lo por tus grandes expectativas antes de entrar en una relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you meet someone new, do you always have this image in your mind of how things should look when you\u2019re together and what your future partner is supposed to do or not do?
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If yes, you\u2019re probably doing so because you\u2019re afraid that things will go in the wrong direction and you want everything to be perfect (which is totally understandable). <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But by doing so you\u2019re also creating the possibility of potential future disappointments, which will result in you falling out of love.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. \u00bfSiempre te esfuerzas por cambiar a tu pareja?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Aunque es completamente normal que no te gusten todas y cada una de las cosas o defectos de tu nueva pareja, no es normal que siempre te empe\u00f1es en cambiarlos dr\u00e1sticamente. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The reason why this occurs might be also related to your past experiences where you weren\u2019t treated right and with care and now you\u2019re trying to prevent yourself from reliving the same thing again. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lamentablemente, nunca consigues cambiarlos y poco a poco te vas desenamorando.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. \u00bfSiempre tienes esa tendencia a salvar a tu pareja de s\u00ed misma aunque sepas que su toxicidad te costar\u00e1 mucho?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfSe preocupa a menudo m\u00e1s por ellos que por usted mismo?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfComprometes tu propia felicidad por la de ellos?
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si la respuesta es afirmativa, significa que constantemente tienes esa tendencia a salvarlos, aun sabiendo que su toxicidad acabar\u00e1 por destruirte. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero el verdadero amor no consiste en salvarse el uno al otro. Se trata de estar dispuesto a corresponder y luchar con fuerza mutua por lo que se tiene.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. \u00bfEres siempre el \u00fanico que se sacrifica y se esfuerza por salvar la relaci\u00f3n?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You might keep falling out of love because you can\u2019t help making enormous efforts for the sake of saving your relationship. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You keep making excuses for your partner\u2019s unwillingness to do the same because you always do things on your own. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t wait for things to magically start functioning and this often costs you a lot.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. \u00bfSigues enamor\u00e1ndote de quienes te hacen bailar a su son?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Enamorarse de quienes te hacen bailar a su son est\u00e1 profundamente arraigado en el deseo de apaciguar. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You feel good while you\u2019re giving and you forget about your own happiness. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Olvidas que el amor debe ser rec\u00edproco y no se trata de apaciguar a alguien. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y cuando te das cuenta de que todo este tiempo has estado dando ciegamente y apenas recibiendo nada a cambio, te desenamoras al instante.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Do you feel like you\u2019re losing yourself while trying to meet their every need?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you\u2019ve been in a relationship for some time, you often start feeling like you no longer know who you are. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You feel like you\u2019re no longer in touch with your true self and your own desires. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And all of this happens because you\u2019re selflessly trying to meet your partner\u2019s every need without expecting them to do the same.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You fall out of love because you\u2019re afraid of enamorarse<\/a> en cierto modo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Siempre das el cien por cien de ti mismo para que las cosas funcionen y, en el proceso, pierdes el sentido de qui\u00e9n eres. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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