{"id":34436,"date":"2020-05-18T08:22:28","date_gmt":"2020-05-18T08:22:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34436"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:08:49","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:08:49","slug":"si-dice-al-menos-5-de-estas-20-cosas-corre-a-las-colinas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-dice-al-menos-5-de-estas-20-cosas-corre-a-las-colinas\/","title":{"rendered":"Si dice al menos 5 de estas 20 cosas, huye."},"content":{"rendered":"

La mayor\u00eda de los hombres de hoy en d\u00eda deber\u00edan venir con instrucciones. Env\u00edan se\u00f1ales contradictorias, dicen y hacen cosas que no tienen ning\u00fan sentido.<\/p>\n

Wouldn\u2019t the world be just a better and more enjoyable place if we weren\u2019t stuck reading in-between the lines and deciphering people\u2019s thoughts?<\/p>\n

Sadly, the reality is different but luckily that\u2019s where we come in to try to help you out.<\/p>\n

Hay veinte cosas comunes que dice un hombre<\/a> que deber\u00eda activar tu alarma.<\/p>\n

Si reconoces al hombre con el que sales en al menos cinco de ellas, huye porque es una mala noticia.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, ten en cuenta que todo depender\u00e1 de la situaci\u00f3n en la que te encuentres; puede que una cosa que te diga sea suficiente para que abandonarlo<\/a> pero cinco es definitivamente una se\u00f1al de advertencia de que necesitas correr hacia las colinas y nunca mirar atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m not looking for anything serious right now.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Ahora mismo en esta frase est\u00e1 el cebo para que caigas en la trampa de una casi relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Te da esperanzas de que alg\u00fan d\u00eda pueda estar preparado, pero lo m\u00e1s probable es que nunca lo est\u00e9 o que lo est\u00e9 alg\u00fan d\u00eda con otra persona.<\/p>\n

Si lo que buscas es un ligue ocasional, aqu\u00ed sales ganando.<\/p>\n

If you aren\u2019t, then don\u2019t waste your time on trying to change things into something more committed, as you will just break your own heart.<\/p>\n

\u201cI am one of the good guys.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If he was genuinely a good, decent and kind guy, he wouldn\u2019t have the need to say it.<\/p>\n

Good guys show who they are through their actions, they don\u2019t sing their own praises.<\/p>\n

La bondad es siempre modesta y silenciosa.<\/p>\n

Si tiene la necesidad de explicar qui\u00e9n es y qu\u00e9 clase de hombre es, definitivamente le falta confianza y probablemente est\u00e9 tratando de ocultar algunos problemas m\u00e1s profundos o defectos de personalidad.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que ten cuidado.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou must be out of your mind to think that.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Esta frase es habitual para narcisistas<\/a> y otros tipos de manipuladores t\u00f3xicos que intentan convencerte de que tu cordura es cuestionable.<\/p>\n

Intentan cambiar tu percepci\u00f3n convenci\u00e9ndote de que est\u00e1s loco por pensar que hicieron o dijeron algo cuando sabes a ciencia cierta que ocurri\u00f3 una situaci\u00f3n diferente.<\/p>\n

Sueles acabar disculp\u00e1ndote por dudar de ellos, aunque en el fondo sabes que son ellos los culpables.<\/p>\n

\u201cI really can\u2019t stand women who\u2026\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Hay algunos hombres de mente estrecha que creen que una mujer tiene que hacer o decir cosas que ellos consideran aceptables.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not the Middle Ages and a woman can be whatever she wants to be and do whatever she feels like.<\/p>\n

If a man starts a conversation with you something along the lines of: I really can\u2019t stand a woman who: smokes, wears crop tops, eats healthily, wears too much make-up, etc,. the odds are he will try to change you and make you fit his world rather than accept you for who you are.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou are clingy.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando escuchas esta frase, tienes que ser sincero contigo mismo.<\/p>\n

Determine si muy pegajoso<\/a> (y ver c\u00f3mo puedes bajarle los humos) o si le est\u00e1s pidiendo cosas que \u00e9l deber\u00eda dar sin esfuerzo.<\/p>\n

If you know it\u2019s not clinginess but a severe lack of attention and affection, you should really reconsider your relationship.<\/p>\n

Whatever you decide, keep in mind that you can\u2019t force a relationship.<\/p>\n

\u201cDo you really need to\u2026?\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This sentence can refer to all sorts of things, for example: \u201cDo you really need to buy that shirt?\u201d, \u201cDo you really need to eat that chocolate?\u201d , \u201cDo you really need to go on that vacation?\u201d, \u201cDo you really need him\/her in your life?\u201d<\/p>\n

If there is hardly any part of your life he doesn\u2019t have the need to comment on, question or judge, you are dealing with somebody controlling.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de comportamiento no s\u00f3lo es molesto, sino que puede volverse extremadamente t\u00f3xico con el tiempo.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf you don\u2019t do as I tell you, I am leaving.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Esta es una de cada veinte cosas que dice que est\u00e1 gritando y suplicando que dejar su culo lamentable y correr por las colinas.<\/p>\n

Esta frase puede tener muchas formas diferentes.<\/p>\n

He might want to sleep with you before you are ready, he might be jealous and try to stop you from going out with your friends or similar but the bottom line is he wants you to do something you don\u2019t want to do.<\/p>\n

You should never allow a man to force you to do anything you yourself don\u2019t want; no matter how minor or big it is, it just isn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n

Threats, pleads and ultimatums shouldn\u2019t be a part of any relationship.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhy do you wear make-up?\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

This question is pretty common and not so alarming; men just don\u2019t get it and most of the the time they are just trying to give you a compliment and tell you that you are beautiful with or without any make-up on.<\/p>\n

Still, if they cross the line and feel like they can boss you around and try to forbid you to wear make-up, it\u2019s just a small display of a much greater issue.<\/p>\n

The man in your life should be your equal partner who respects your decisions; even if they don\u2019t make sense to him, he shouldn\u2019t act like he is the boss of you.<\/p>\n

\u201cMy ex used to\u2026\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It really doesn\u2019t matter whether he is singing his ex\u2019s praises or he is talking trash about her, what matters is that his ex shouldn\u2019t be a part of your current relationship.<\/p>\n

He shouldn\u2019t bring her up every waking hour, let alone compare the two of you.<\/p>\n

If the ex sentences are a usual part of your conversation, he clearly has some unresolved issues and he wasn\u2019t ready to date you in the first place.<\/p>\n

Enfr\u00e9ntate a \u00e9l y p\u00eddele educadamente que deje de hablar de su ex.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhat\u2019s a woman like you doing in a job like this?\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Esto puede ser inofensivo, muy grosero o irrespetuoso.<\/p>\n

If it\u2019s harmless, he probably has a crush on you and he doesn\u2019t know anything smarter to say.<\/p>\n

If it\u2019s rude, he is probably feeling threatened by you and he wants to make you feel bad because you are in the minority of women who are in that line of business.<\/p>\n

But who says women can\u2019t be engineers, firefighters, drivers or whatever they want.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that no matter how cute or charming he is, if he can\u2019t respect you as a colleague, he won\u2019t respect you as a woman either, so you will never feel like his equal.<\/p>\n

\u201cI have to say that I didn\u2019t expect that you\u2019d be so smart.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Even if this sentence may appear like a compliment at first glance, it\u2019s actually a very well-wrapped insult.<\/p>\n

Todo depende del contexto y del tipo de hombre que sea.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important that you pay attention to his tone here, because he might be being sarcastic and saying it to mock something you said.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n podr\u00eda ser el tipo de hombre que desprecia a las mujeres y las ve como el sexo d\u00e9bil, lo cual es un error a muchos niveles.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou see, my mom thinks that….\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If his mother doesn\u2019t like you or keeps interfering in your relationship all the time, you are going to go through hell in that relationship.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t really need a mama\u2019s boy who is incapable of standing up for himself or for you and who can\u2019t make a decision before checking it with mommy dearest first.<\/p>\n

If things don\u2019t miraculously change, you are going to end things because you can\u2019t stand it anymore or he will because he is a wuss who allows his mother to control his life.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou are way hotter\/prettier\/smarter than any of your friends.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Decirle a una mujer que est\u00e1 estupenda, que es atractiva, inteligente y fuera de serie es siempre un cumplido bienvenido, pero compararse con los dem\u00e1s est\u00e1 fuera de lugar.<\/p>\n

Real women empower other women, especially their friends, they don\u2019t trash-talk them and they don\u2019t like it when somebody else does it either.<\/p>\n

No hay necesidad de frases como esta ni de que te compare con otra persona.<\/p>\n

\u201cI need space.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Dependiendo del contexto, esto podr\u00eda significan algunas cosas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pero si est\u00e1 usando el espacio como una forma m\u00e1s indolora de decir que quiere algo casual o de terminar del todo, deber\u00edas tomar la decisi\u00f3n por \u00e9l y marcharte.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need someone who can\u2019t man up and tell you what the deal is.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow him to string you along and if he can\u2019t clearly define what space represents to him, corre tan lejos como puedas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u201cTo be honest, I don\u2019t see myself having kids.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si est\u00e1is de acuerdo, esta frase no significa nada. Pero si quieres planear una familia y tener hijos alg\u00fan d\u00eda, esto es un punto de ruptura importante.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay too long with someone who doesn\u2019t want the same things as you do. His opinion is not going to change no matter what you do.<\/p>\n

\u201cIs it that time of the month again?\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente es una persona que siempre tiene raz\u00f3n y cada vez que te molesta y te hace enfadar, le echa la culpa a tu s\u00edndrome premenstrual.<\/p>\n

The scenario is the same when you get emotional. It\u2019s like you are deprived of emotions on all the other days except for when you have PMS.<\/p>\n

Su comportamiento es s\u00f3lo un reflejo de lo inmaduro que es.<\/p>\n

Ni te entiende, ni puede responsabilizarse de sus actos que pueden herirte tambi\u00e9n en un d\u00eda normal.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou should support me and trust in me.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Un t\u00edo que aguanta en un trabajo m\u00e1s de un mes o as\u00ed est\u00e1 intentando convencerte de que va a cambiar.<\/p>\n

Nunca hace nada de lo que dice que har\u00e1, pero espera tu apoyo, tanto econ\u00f3mico como emocional.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo recuerda que no eres una organizaci\u00f3n de caridad para los perdidos y perezosos y que \u00e9l te agotar\u00e1 emocional y financieramente antes que cambiar su vida y sus costumbres.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou don\u2019t really love me, I feel it.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This could be a genuine concern of his because your behaviour shifted or you yourself are aware that you don\u2019t feel so strongly about him, in which case you should be honest with him and let him know where he stands.<\/p>\n

La otra y m\u00e1s probable causa de esta declaraci\u00f3n es que es profundamente inseguro.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l necesita que le tranquilicen constantemente<\/a> que le quieres y te preocupas por \u00e9l y hay muchas posibilidades de que, hagas lo que hagas o digas lo que digas para demostrarle que tus sentimientos son reales, sus inseguridades sean m\u00e1s fuertes.<\/p>\n

Lo peor de todo es que su falta de confianza en s\u00ed mismo, en ti y en vuestra relaci\u00f3n acabar\u00e1 con todo el amor que sientes por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\u201cLet\u2019s just stay in.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Lo mejor de cualquier relaci\u00f3n comprometida es que puedes quedarte en la comodidad de tu casa y divertirte, acurrucarte y ver pel\u00edculas o hacer alguna travesura entre las s\u00e1banas.<\/p>\n

Lo malo es si eso es todo lo que haces.<\/p>\n

Necesitas diversidad y quedarte en casa todo el tiempo ser\u00e1 muy aburrido despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo.<\/p>\n

Si est\u00e1is empezando algo y \u00e9l constantemente quiere pasar el rato (l\u00e9ase: tener sexo) en su casa o en la tuya y nunca hace ninguna planes de fechas<\/a>...no eres m\u00e1s que un bot\u00edn, as\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de ser consciente de ello.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s too far away, we\u2019ll talk about it later on.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Whenever you ask him to do something at the end of the week, month or year, the answer is always the same\u2014\u201cIt\u2019s too far away, we\u2019ll talk about it some other time\u201d.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que nunca habl\u00e1is de ello y nunca hac\u00e9is planes concretos y todo se hace en el \u00faltimo momento y cuando a \u00e9l le viene bien.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de comportamiento es una clara se\u00f1al de que he doesn\u2019t see his future with you<\/a>...al menos todav\u00eda no, y la pregunta es: \u00bflo har\u00e1 alg\u00fan d\u00eda?<\/p>\n

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