{"id":34457,"date":"2019-03-18T09:27:59","date_gmt":"2019-03-18T09:27:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34457"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:30:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:30:48","slug":"5-razones-por-las-que-saltar-de-un-ex-a-otro-es-una-mala-idea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-razones-por-las-que-saltar-de-un-ex-a-otro-es-una-mala-idea\/","title":{"rendered":"5 razones por las que saltar de un ex a otro es una mala idea"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cu\u00e1ntas veces has o\u00eddo que la mejor y m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil manera de superar una relaci\u00f3n fracasada es ir de nuevo en la piscina de citas<\/a> lo antes posible? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQue encontrar a alguien nuevo que ocupe tu mente y tu coraz\u00f3n es la forma m\u00e1s r\u00e1pida de dejar atr\u00e1s a un ex?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, a pesar de esta opini\u00f3n popular, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, saltar de un ex a un siguiente en realidad ha resultado ser contraproducente, y aqu\u00ed tienes 5 razones de por qu\u00e9.
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1. La curaci\u00f3n es un proceso<\/strong>
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Lo primero y m\u00e1s importante es que entiendas que se necesita tiempo para superar de verdad a alguien. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you stopped loving your ex\u2014he is still the guy who\u2019s been a part of your life for a while, and if nothing more, you got used to him, so you need time to accept his absence.
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Por supuesto, existe la posibilidad de que est\u00e9s convencida de que este hombre se ha ido completamente de tu coraz\u00f3n. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, just because you are convinced you are over him, doesn\u2019t make it true.
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De hecho, es probable que el hecho de que te sientas as\u00ed no sea m\u00e1s que una se\u00f1al de que te est\u00e1s mintiendo a ti mismo, fingiendo que est\u00e1s bien. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In this case scenario, all the negative emotions you keep pushing down will catch up with you sooner or later when you think you\u2019ve forgotten about them completely.
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As\u00ed que en lugar de reprimir tus emociones y esperar que desaparezcan por arte de magia, perm\u00edtete sanar sanamente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead of pushing yourself too hard, accept that moving on doesn\u2019t happen overnight, and that this is a process which takes time and patience.
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2. Your pain won\u2019t go away<\/strong>
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Si crees que todos los moratones de tu asustado coraz\u00f3n desaparecer\u00e1n en cuanto conozcas a un chico nuevo, pi\u00e9nsalo otra vez. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you expect your next boyfriend to appear in your life with a magic wand which will resolve all of your problems and make all of your worries go away, one thing is clear\u2014you are definitely no est\u00e1 preparado para una nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.
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Cuando sientes dolor y echas de menos a tu ex, esperar que otro chico te ayude a superarlo y a llenar el vac\u00edo que dej\u00f3 tu ex es una de las cosas m\u00e1s t\u00f3xicas que puedes hacerte a ti misma. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I hate to break your bubble but this new man won\u2019t ease your pain. Instead, he will only intensify it.
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3. Tu carga emocional afectar\u00e1 a tu nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/strong>
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No puedes esperar tener una relaci\u00f3n sana mientras sigas cargando con alg\u00fan peso pesado de tu pasado. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nunca podr\u00e1s mostrarle a alguien nuevo tu verdadero potencial mientras haya cargas emocionales que te lastren.
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S\u00e9 que piensas que est\u00e1s listo para una nueva relaci\u00f3n tan pronto como dejes de amar a tu ex, pero cr\u00e9eme que se necesita mucho m\u00e1s para realmente dejarlo ir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are not ready to commit to someone new until you become certain that you\u2019ve gotten rid of all the fears, trust, and abandonment issues from your past relationship because these are all the things that have a huge impact on your future, even when you are not aware of it.
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4. Le har\u00e1s da\u00f1o a tu nuevo novio<\/strong>
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Let\u2019s face it\u2014nobody enjoys being a rebound, and your new boyfriend is no exception. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ser\u00eda totalmente injusto aprovecharse de alguien s\u00f3lo para que te ayude a superar lo de tu ex, y \u00e9ste es un delito que nunca deber\u00edas ni siquiera pensar en cometer. \u00a0
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If you think that this new guy won\u2019t sense that you are still holding on to the past, you can\u2019t be more wrong. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me\u2014men also have intuition, and he will definitely realize that you are not completely dedicated to this relationship.
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Adem\u00e1s, lo \u00faltimo que quieres es hacer da\u00f1o a un buen chico s\u00f3lo porque tu ex te hizo da\u00f1o a ti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve been through a ruptura brutal<\/a>, and you don\u2019t want to be the same as the guy who broke your heart, do you?
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5. Ser soltero mola<\/strong>
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Another reason why jumping from one relationship to another is never a good idea is the fact that this way, you don\u2019t get chance to enjoy your single life, which can be amazing if you play it right. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ver\u00e1s, cuando terminas una relaci\u00f3n, necesitas un tiempo a solas, sobre todo si era de larga duraci\u00f3n.
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You need some time to get your act together, to figure out what is it that you want and don\u2019t want from life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Necesitas (y te mereces) algo de tiempo para centrar toda tu energ\u00eda en ti mismo, y eso s\u00f3lo es posible cuando est\u00e1s soltero.
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